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Thanks Victoria. I'm off to bed now but will msg you soon to chat, that would be good thanks. Hope things can work out for you too! Take care.

Hey guys, I'm feeling pretty bad right now and I thought it would be good to write down all my thoughts and emotions and possibly get some thoughts from others about the whole situation. I'd been with my girlfriend for 7 1\2 years, I'm now 26 and she is 24. I chased her for 2 years before she agreed to go out with me. That was the best part of my life. We've had our ups and downs like any relationship, infact we used to have some really rough times which I hated but they were many years ago. I've been through periods wondering if she's the right one for me but I could never come to a conclusion. Prior to the breakup (which was 2 weeks ago now), she had been on at me to move out from with my parents and buy our own place. I was always very happy at home and didn't think we could afford to move out due to debts etc. Last Christmas and for about the last year she kept on about getting married but again I wasn't sure about it. Things were going really well and more recently I'd come to the conclusion that she was the most important thing in my life, I love her more than words could ever describe and I was now at a point to move out and buy a place with her. We had a holiday booked to the Maldives which is in 2 weeks time and I had planned to propose to her. She means the absolute world to me. Then.. out of the blue 2 weeks ago she tells me that she doesn't feel the same way about me any more and she can't continue going out with me. This news hit so hard. I really don't know what to do with myself. I questioned her and eventually found out that she'd been out for a drink with a guy from her work. She swears that nothing else happened and also swears that this is nothing to do with the breakup as it's a decision that she's made over the last few months. I tend to believe her because she's not that sort of girl but can't help but question it. Since the breakup I've been in emotional turmoil. My life is upside down and I have days where I'm really depressed. Some days aren't so bad and other days I just keep thinking about her and how much I love her and all the things I love about her. I miss her so much it's unreal and I've never experienced hurt like this before. I've seen her a couple of times since the breakup to return belongings etc and we've cuddled and kissed. Is this normal? She says that she still loves me and has feelings for me but knows she's made the right decision. I can't ever imagine being without her, I know people tell me that I'll find someone else but I don't want to. I've also given up a lot of friends because of our relationship. Infact I've barely got any left. This is because I enjoyed her company SO much that I spent every day with her. She's like a part of me (or was). All of a sudden I feel so alone, she's suddenly gone and I can't help but think about this other guy she went for a drink with. It makes me sick in the stomach to think that another guy might have his hands on her. She still feels like my girl. I can't bear the thought of her getting with someone else. I know that I have to move on but I'm having difficulties. This is because I'm so upset and depressed from the breakup that I'm always miserable and I'm no fun to be around. I've bitten at people at work who I used to get along with because they irritate me and I find it very difficult to tollerate most people now. How can I make new friends and meet someone else if I'm like this. I desparately want her back and want to spend the rest of my life with her but if she's made her mind up then I guess there's no changing someone's feelings? Or is there? I changed her feelings to go out with me after 2 years at the start! The worst thing for me is being alone, I hate it and I need people with me. I keep thinking if I find someone else then it might help me get over her but I'm never going to meet anyone in this state and even if I did I'd just compare them to her and no-one could ever compare. I'm supposed to be seeing her this weekend to make arrangements for the holiday. We're still going as (in her words) friends. I'm planning a surprise BBQ on the beach with some romantic music, flowers and nice food in the hope that she'll realise what she's missing but to be honest I'm not holding out a lot of hope. If that doesn't work and nothing happens during the holiday then I'm considering moving from the UK to Australia, somehere I've always wanted to visit, to make a fresh start. The trouble is, all my family are here and they're all I've got at the moment but I don't think I could bear staying around here knowing I'm not with her especially when eventually later down the line I might find out she's got a new guy. This whole thing is tearing me up. Sorry for the long winded post, I hope you can find time to have a read and let me know your thoguhts. Thanks for your time.

My girlfriend of 7 1\2 years just finished with me. I was going to ask her to marry me in 2 weeks time. Imagine how I'm feeling. My whole world is falling apart. I hope you get through it though.

LOL I'm definitely a guy. To stop the itchiness, just make sure you don't let the stubble grow back. Keep it shaven close and you won't have any problems. The itchiness is from stubble rubbing your skin.

I've not had any complaints

I'm a guy, not a girl! Shaving seems to be the norm for most young girls. I reckon more guys should try it.

After some guys at work said they shaved themselves, I decided to have a go too. I shaved my genital area totally bald and it's amazing, I'm so happy witht he results and I'm silky smooth. No hair for cum to get caught in, it's so much more healthy and clean. I was worried it would be itching like mad but as long as it's kept shaven, there's not itching at all. I would recommend anyone to do it.