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I said some harsh things when i was drunk i shouldnt have. I was so sorry about it. for some reason i dont think thats all it from that night.

Well my ex gf and i were taking a slight break: she wrote this to me and tell me what you guys think. Hi, how are you doing? As time passes by it becomes harder and harder to make my decision. and as each minute passes I finally realized I shouldn't have wiated till now to give you my decision. I should have given you my decision then and there, instead of making you wait from the beginning. But instead of prolonging this period I think it's better that I just make up my decision. I feel bad for making you wait and just having to deal with this situation we're in. Never have I wanted to be in the shoes of you, because I already have and know what it feels like. So here is my decision. I don't see myself with you at this point in life. Im sorry. I hope you find a great girl in the future because I know you will be so good to her. Thank you for the memories in the past 2 months you've given me. Thank you for the times you drove down to see me and take care of me. Thank you for treating me out to dinner and just going with me to places where you didn't know anyone. I'm sorry that things had to end this way for us. I don't think I would be able to tell you these things in person because when it comes to things like this I would just feel so horrible, nor do I think I would be able to say these things because I do care for you. Although we are not boyfriend or girlfriend I hope we can be friends. But, that I will leave up to you because I know we've had a past and it may be hard to be friends. It's your call. Even though you say you won't go back to the way you were a part of me is scared, wondering "what if..." you did do what you did. I have trust issues and I do have the tendency to doubt people. I know your a great guy and wish you the best in all your future. And I'm sure you'll meet an awesome girl =) Thanks for being good to me while we were together. I really do hope to stay friends with you. I really love this girl and I dont think I can be with anyone else but her. I dont know if I should be friends, tell her i can be friends, NC, i dont know what to do. IM going out of my mind. I really really want to be with her. Is there any suggestions? Thanks so much

Thanks alot i appreciate that. I see her this weekend for my friends bday party. I think im going to leave early. do u think that is a wise decision thanks

thanks alot i appreciate it. i dont know, if i should continue on NC or just talk to her every now and then. Cause i know she needs space. I dont know if she even misses me

WEll finally met up with the Ex. She doesnt go out with guys one on one or go out with ex bf's. In a way i feel privaleged. Well we had some laughs and talk. When we had our talk, I told her how much I like her and how i Miss her. I asked her what we are, she goes are friends, but she told me that she will give me an answer if we are ever gonna go back out again. Also, she believes in 2nd chances. We didnt really end up in a bad break up. she says she misses me and hanging out with my friends. Then she asked, if we didnt end up together, can we be friends? I told her i cant answer that question, because i really dont know. We ended the night in a good note. We are hanging out again with our friends tomorrow. So, i think im just going to enjoy the time we have together and go from there. What I am worried about, if we would be together in the end. Thanks for stopping by.

WEll finally met up with the Ex. She doesnt go out with guys one on one or go out with ex bf's. In a way i feel privaleged. Well we had some laughs and talk. When we had our talk, I told her how much I like her and how i Miss her. I asked her what we are, she goes are friends, but she told me that she will give me an answer if we are ever gonna go back out again. Also, she believes in 2nd chances. We didnt really end up in a bad break up. she says she misses me and hanging out with my friends. Then she asked, if we didnt end up together, can we be friends? I told her i cant answer that question, because i really dont know. We ended the night in a good note. We are hanging out again with our friends tomorrow. So, i think im just going to enjoy the time we have together and go from there. What I am worried about, if we would be together in the end. Thanks for stopping by.

got u, do u think when the moment comes , i can kiss her lol

Im meeting up with my ex on friday. im a bit nervous dont know what to do, but act like myself. any suggestions!!!!!

Because im the one that always contacts her first.

Hi there, Well I continued on doing the NC, since Sunday. Few days ago, my ex was talking to my friend. She was grilling him if i was seeing anybody. That when she sees me , she wishes she can hold me tight and never let go. I really dont get it, why she doesnt contact me. If she feels this way towards me. Im just confused.

she says we are kinda together, i guess seeing each other or slow dating. that she says she likes taking it slow

Hi there, My ex and I broke up 3 weeks ago. We had no contact, after the week of the break up. She invited me and my friends out to the club. She was all over me, like we were bf/gf. Few days later, she tells me that she wants to take things slow as bf/gf. It seems that I always make the first contact, when i call she doesnt pick up. When i text, sometimes she responds and iming goes the same too. So, i decided to do the no contact thing. Every Friday and Saturday, she would invite me and my friends out to hang. She would say that if she doesnt hang out with us, she misses us and feels uncomplete. Well its been 3 days with out contact, she hasnt contacted me at all. I havent been going online at all and refuse to, cause shes always on. It hurts when shes on, and doesnt im me. This weekend, i know she would want to hang out with me and her friends. I dont think i should hang out with her and decline her offer. Plus, my friends told me if she asks them, they wouldnt hang out with them, because i wouldnt be there. So i dont know if im doing the right thing. thanks for stopping by

Hi there, Well my ex and I have been broken up for the past 3 weeks. I saw her yesterday, I was drunk. She was automatically assumed that I was drunk because of her, obviously it was not because of her. So later on, I found out she was concerned. On the ride home, she was rubbing my leg all throughout the ride and babying me. I am still continuing the no contact thing. On the weekends she ask me and friends to come out. I dont know, Im confused. Im hoping, we can be officially together soon. Thanks Take care

Thanks for stopping by. After we broke up, we didnt speak for a week. Then afterwards, she invited me and my friends to a club. That night she was all over me like we were going out. Then we spoke the next day about the diff. we had during our relationship. Few days later, she wanted me to come down, we had a one on one meeting or date, whatever u may call it. she wanted to take things slow. In the mean time i had to make the inititative of the first move on contact. NOw, im just doing the NC thing. I just want to see if she misses me and wants me back again. She has told my good friend of mine, that she cares for me alot and likes me. but who knows. whats going to happen in the future.

I agree hes confused, doest know what he wants. I would def. go for the NC thing. I think it works and it worked for me on my past relationships. Youll def. see if he really misses you. U can not set a time limit on it. It just happens naturally and go with the flow. No ims, no texts, no letters no communication or contact in that fact. ok. its hard but u have to do it , to find out if he will come back. im sure he will. keep urself occupied

hi there, thanks for stopping by. Well today that i found from my friend that she thinks im too needy and smother her too much. so im going to stop all that cause we are on a break. She doesnt make the first move of contacting me except for today(she only imed). I kept the conversation short and simple and had to go. So im doing the NC thing until she makes the first move and misses me. Thanks for everything. Any inputs, would be great?

I followed the NC thing. It worked, i havent spoke to my ex for 2 days she imed me, saying hi. Her and i agreed that we should take things slow. It hurts that we arent officially together, but i guess its the first step. Im making her to make the first move. She told my buddy of mine, that she doesnt want to be smothered. Thats a tip for all you peeps out there. Dont smother the girl, or she will runaway.LOL. So i hope this, helps. thanks for stopping by.

Hi there, thanks for stopping by. My ex and i broke up 2 weeks ago. After the break up, she didn't communicate with me at all. After a week, she met up with me and we hung out 3 days in a row. it felt like we were going out but not. Today, she goes, I just want to take things slow. I really dont know what that means? I really miss it when she use to call me all the time, but now she doesnt even call me. Another thing, is that I always have to make the first move in contacting her. When I call, she doesnt even pick up the calls. But, wen we have plans, thats when she picks up the phone. I dont know. Any Suggestions. Thanks

Hi there, thanks for stopping by. My ex and i broke up 2 weeks ago. After the break up, she didn't communicate with me at all. After a week, she met up with me and we hung out 3 days in a row. it felt like we were going out but not. Today, she goes, I just want to take things slow. I really dont know what that means? I really miss it when she use to call me all the time, but now she doesnt even call me. Thanks

Hi there, Thanks for stopping by and taking the time to read this. I really dont know where to start off. I was going out with my ex for a month. Everything seem so picture perfect. Towards the end, i said some hurtful things when i was beligerently drunk. I feel so crappy about it and she knows that. She knows how sorry i am and that wasnt me that night. So, she decided to say that we are kinda of broken up and kinda not. So, im assuming its a break or seeing each other. The only thing that is stopping her is that she doesnt want to be hurt again and plus she is scared to get back together with me. i want to prove it to her that i will not do that again. In addition, she has been hurt alot from the past bf's. We havent spoken for a week. Then this past 3 days, we hung out together with her friends and mine. On the first night, when i saw her. It looked like something bothered her and she was drinking heavily. After a hour or so, She was all over me, kissing, hugging, touching, holding hands. LIke we never broke up. Then the next day, she wanted to meet up and of course my friends were with me. I went outside to get some fresh air and was on the boardwalk overlooking the new york skylines. It was a nice romantic setting. She followed me out, and we started to talk. We were talking about our diff. and that i was very sorry of what i have done. She came up and wanting to kiss me, but i wouldnt let her. We got interrupted cause we had to go. On the third day, we went to a festival. We had a brief talk, she says that she likes and misses me. Wanting to hold my hand but she couldnt cause we are not together. Again, she says we are not bf/gf YET but she doesnt know what we are. Also, saying that we are taking it slow. Tomorrow, we are suppose to have our talk, alone. Im going to purchase a dozen roses and write something nice on the card. I dont know, i just want to win her heart. Any suggestions? I am just upset about the whole thing. Thank you

hello, I had a 3 year relationship and we broke it off a month ago. But yet , she still calls me like we never broke up. She says she needs time to think over things. Also, gets very angry when she doesnt receive a call back right away. Nothing really changed except for we are not together and not hanging out. I still love her and I know she still misses and loves me. What shall I Do? Thanks, I am open for any suggestions

I was just curious if anyone knows in the roman catholicism. What sexual acts can be done to the other sex. Besides premarital sex. Thanks'

Hi Arcane, I was kind of in your situation. I had a relationship where my Ex was a manic depressant/ bi polar. Her father was very abusive. Our relationship was for a year and half. Believe me it was very hard on me. She kept alot of things in, telling me I wont understand, that we shouldnt be together. You know what I tried and be there for her almost 24/7. cause i loved her. She saw a psychiatrist. most of the time i was there for her. So anyways what im trying to say to you. is that tell your ex. that you will always be there for her and you respect her decision. I wouldnt push the issue, if so you will push her away. She prob. needs some space, like my other 2 gf's did. Time to think. I mean if it makes it feel any better, you can offer to go to her sessions and be there for her. That shows great deal of support. If she does call or gets to hang out with you. then you should be her supporting/caring friend. nothing more. If the relationship comes in the future it will. thats whens she ready. she has to think about her , because of the situation. That is , having a gap between you guys. hey email me if u want. if nething else. Good luck

Hi there, I was just curious if someone can help me out. A month ago, I got out of a 3 year relationship with my gf. Because we were constantly fighting on petty little things. Anyways, when things cooled off. We started talking on the phone as friends. I got sick and went to the ER. She visited me everyday to care for me. She told me she is thinking about us getting back together. I really want that too. She says she needs time. and If I find someone else, I should go for it. and not to wait around for my ex gf. But she also says that would be very upset. What does she mean by that? Or am I just thinking too much of it. Thanks for your help