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  1. iamconfused5302
    she keeps mentioning that she wants to be friends. i dont know y she pushes that issue the most. y she wants to be friends with me. esp. she says she is never friends with her ex bf's
  2. iamconfused5302
    Well my Ex and I broke up 2 months ago. Shes recently going out with a guy that lives faraway in a diff. state. But yet, she still asks about how im doing to my friend. Every weekend she asks us to come out and hang. But the last 2 weeks we havent hung out with her and she was upset. I feel pretty good about it. Cause im healing not seeing her. I mean, I still like her alot but its in the back of my mind. I have to be happy with myself before anything else. Yea, I def. want to get back together someday. But who knows whats going to happen. I really dont know if im doing the right thing. In addition, she ims me online. Thats all. Is this the right thing to do?' Am I ever gonna get back out with her? Who knows
  3. iamconfused5302
    thanks for the replies. i appreciate it
  4. iamconfused5302
    thank you for the reply. yea, i can be friends with her. but i will not hang out with her everyweekend. but she gets upset when me and my friends dont hang out with her.i just wish she can miss me.
  5. iamconfused5302
    yea , shes the one that left me. but wants to hang out every weekend. i dont know
  6. iamconfused5302
    My ex and I broke up a month 1/2 ago. she obv. moved and is going out with another guy that lives in another state. Anyways, when she speaks to my best friend, she always asks about me on how im doing and such. Every weekend, she always asks me and my friend to hang out but when i dont she gets upset. What gives, im not going out with her? Why is she being like this i dont understand. she has a man already.
  7. iamconfused5302
    Acting aloof and body movements will make the othe wonder?
  8. iamconfused5302
    I thank everyone with the replies. This helps out greatly.
  9. iamconfused5302
    when she broke up with me i dont know if she was involved with another guy. but it took her a month or so. so the best bet is to move on?
  10. iamconfused5302
    what signals do you mean? if you dont mind me asking. can u provide me some examples
  11. iamconfused5302
    so, i can talk to her but not show interest in her. In actuality, i have interest in her in my mind in heart and mind.
  12. iamconfused5302
    really good feedbacks. Every weekend she calls me to hang out with me and my friends. She says, that she misses me and my friends, if she doesnt see us.
  13. iamconfused5302
    My EX broke up with me a month ago. I am still really into her but I am fine being her friend. I am hoping to have a 2nd chance to be with her again in the future. The thing is, she invites me to go out every weekend to the club , bars and such. We talk here and there almost everyday. She says that she misses me and my friends on how we use to hang out. I just want her to say one day, that she just misses me. Well after we broke up, she says she likes someone else. That she will be with this guy and asks if she wants me instead of him. What will happen? i said to her thats for her to figure out. That was the clincher for me, i was hurt-when i heard that. Im pretty sure they are going out now, but i dontknow how this will work out for her, cause the guy lives in a diff. state. Last night, she asked me to come out and hang out with her and gf's. I said i cant, im going to stay locally. But, she still persists asking me to come out and to see what im doing that night. so i dont know, I just want her back at some point and have her miss me. Im keeping very busy so she wouldnt be in my mind 24/7. Doing things for myself ,to keep myself happy. Is being a friend the right thing to do. Being there for her when she is in trouble or something. Or NC?
  14. iamconfused5302
    yea, if i did NC i wonder if she would forget me or try to. What do you think?
  15. iamconfused5302
    NC, would that result of her forgetting about me. That I wouldnt have a chance in the future?
  16. iamconfused5302
    My EX broke up with me a month ago. I am still really into her but I am fine being her friend. I am hoping to have a 2nd chance to be with her again in the future. The thing is, she invites me to go out every weekend to the club , bars and such. We talk here and there almost everyday. She says that she misses me and my friends on how we use to hang out. I just want her to say one day, that she just misses me. Well after we broke up, she says she likes someone else. That she will be with this guy and asks if she wants me instead of him. What will happen? i said to her thats for her to figure out. That was the clincher for me, i was hurt-when i heard that. Im pretty sure they are going out now, but i dontknow how this will work out for her, cause the guy lives in a diff. state. Last night, she asked me to come out and hang out with her and gf's. I said i cant, im going to stay locally. But, she still persists asking me to come out and to see what im doing that night. so i dont know, I just want her back at some point and have her miss me. Im keeping very busy so she wouldnt be in my mind 24/7. Doing things for myself ,to keep myself happy. Is being a friend the right thing to do. Being there for her when she is in trouble or something. Or NC?
  17. iamconfused5302
    i see, last night -she keeps asking me if i was going to come out. I said i couldnt,im going to stay locally. so, she still texting me like crazy, like shes my gf or something. I just have to be strong and not have her pull me like a toy. thanks for ur suggestions
  18. iamconfused5302
    a part of me wants to be with her. but i dont mind being friends with her. its just that i dont know y she asks to hang out with me every weekend. If i didnt be friends with her , would that be mean
  19. iamconfused5302
    i guess, i wont have a 2nd chance with her.
  20. iamconfused5302
    yea i dont know if ill get a chance with her again. i dont know
  21. iamconfused5302
    Hi there, My ex and I broke up a month ago. Every now and then we talk, she invites me and my friends out to come and hang out with her friends every weekend. Well, couple days ago, she started going out with a new guy. Miracously, she text mess me 2 days ago,saying,"i hope you have a great day" i was very surprised cause she didnt do that since the last time we went out. But i dont think i should think of it more or less. Today, she asks if im coming out with her and her gf's out to a club. I said im staying locally, around the area. She asks again and i gave her the same answer. She texts mess. me later , saying what im doing with my friend like we are going out or something. I just dont understand. What can I do? Yea, in the back of my mind i want to be with her. My feelings are quite controllable. Thanks
  22. iamconfused5302
    i also like to add, that she goes that if we arent friends itll be .0001% for us to be together again. so i dont know.
  23. iamconfused5302
    Well my ex and I broke up 4 weeks ago. She gave me an answer couple days ago. That she cant see us having a relationship at this point of time. She keeps persisting on me being friends with her which I dont understand. Well, later on I find out that she likes this guy, but he lives in a different state. She tells me, if she goes out with this guy and finds out if she wants to be with me. she doesnt know if she misses me or my company. So now i dont know what to do.
  24. iamconfused5302
    thanks so much superdave. time to move on.
  25. iamconfused5302
    Well, i just found out she likes someone that lives faraway. She says if i dont be friends with her it'll be a .0001% for us to be together again in the future. Plus, she goes she doesnt know if she misses me or my company. Lastly, she says if she goes with this guy, what if she wants to be with me. I said you have to figure out that one. Thanks
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