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If it makes you feel uncomfortable, then you should tell her. On the other hand if you were just a little shocked but willing to experiment, then just relax and go with the flow. From a female perspective, I find a guys butt very sexy and find combining oral sex with anal stimulation a real turn on for both of us.

if only it was that simple, would make my job a lot easier, they are entitled to the same benefits as a woman any age in the same situation. The vast majority of teenage pregnancies are not planned. So it may be seen a little harsh to tarnish all young mums with the same brush. Anyway, I'm sure Postie is not planning on going down that path so soon with his young lady

In the UK, the legal age for drinking, voting, betting and buying pornography is 18. However, at 16 like you say, they can finish school if they want, can legally smoke, have sex, get married (with parents permission), get their own place and work full time. So I think the issue is definitely divided by the cultural differences. A 16 year old in the UK is very much, not seen as a child. In answer to the original question, I don't see a problem with the age gap if you are both sensible. I remember when I was 16, I had my own place, worked and did collage and dated a 26 year old . I think because I was seen as responsible enough with all other aspects of my life, it wasn't really a problem for anyone. But just a word of warning - the UK has an appalling teenage pregnancy rate

Isn't it great that I feel exactly the same, And I get as much sex as I can - works both ways 8)

Hi Kittengirl Many congratulations Flying really depends on the airline, they all have different cut off points. I'm not sure how long your flight is but be sure to take precautions to avoid DVT. Which you are more at risk of during pregnancy due to your clotting mechanisms. Eg, wear support tights and go for regular walks, keep your feet moving. Try to enjoy your pregnancy, remember that by about 33 weeks, you will be the same as if you were a full term singleton mom, so bear this in mind. Also a good majority of twins will be born before 38 weeks, so don't leave things till the last minute. I'm not sure where you are from but there is an excellent website called Tamba, which is The Twins and Multiple Births Association link removed You will find loads of useful information at Tamba, and it's a great community. HTH

As sweetchick said, there are a lot of "life style" habits that can impact on your menstrual cycle. Eating habits can have a big impact. As has been said, birth control pills will regulate your cycle and also make the bleed lighter. You mention that sometimes "it's really bad" I assume you mean heavy or just painful? If heavy, it is worth speaking to your doc as this could cause other problems ie anaemia. There could also be an underlying condition, such as platelet disorders. Do you experience nose bleeds or bruise easily? These conditions are easily rectified, so mentioning it to the doc is the best advice. HTH

I am really shocked and pretty much disgusted with the recent comment. Nobody is here to judge anyone else. If people can't give helpful advice or respectful comments, they should refrain from posting in that particular thread. It is rather shallow to judge someone from a couple of posts and a username Anyway, regardless of if you are who you say you are. From reading a lot of stuff on here, I'm sure the advice offered will come in handy for many young ladies 8) Having an orgasm is a very unique thing, it builds up in people in many different ways. Having warm feet and maybe a tingling sensation could indicate you are giving yourself pleasure, but not necessarily will end in an orgasm Rather than going straight for the clitoris, spend some time just gently rubbing your hands over the rest of you body, when you feel relaxed, try gently just stroking over the labia without parting it for a little while, when you feel the urge to part it, don't, return to another part of your body, maybe cupping your breasts or just rubbing gently on the inside of your thigh. Before you go straight into clitoral stimulation, get used to working your body up first. Then when you feel ready, again don't go straight to the tip (most sensitive part of the clitoris). Part the labia and using your index and middle finger, make a "V" shape and rub down each side of the clitoris, varying in pressure and speed. If you feel dry, either lick your fingers before or use some lub. Again don't rush, see how that feels before changing the direction of your fingers. HTH

Sorry you feel like this Lottie, but as jaiva suggested, why not bring oral sex into your foreplay. Let him bring you to orgasm before intercourse. You say you have cried following sex because you felt rejected, was your current bf aware of this? I think unless you are able to communicate your feelings, it is going to be hard to rectify. Again jaiva is right, you need to bite the bullet and sit down and talk to him. Not when you are in the middle of sex, but maybe warn him that you need to sit down a discuss some stuff at a particular time.

I'm with Jecto, I love taking an extra long lunch break from work, meeting up with a guy for an hour or so and returning to work all red faced 8)

I agree with DN. I don't divulge every detail of my past experiences (it would take to long ) and to be honest I am not that interested in a partners past either. However, I think that if I ever found the guy I was going to settle down with, I may be more curious to know more and be happy to divulge more about myself. But even then, discretion isn't a bad thing.

I would consider any sexual act involving the genitalia as sex so yes.

Both my parents were very open about sex so I don't remember a certain age when I found out, I was brought up with the knowledge and because they were very approachable, I could always ask without being embarrassed. I remember when I was about 8 or 9, I'd heard someone in the playground at school say "blow job" so I asked my mom what it was, and she told me straight. I remember thinking, "why would anyone ever want to do that" lol

You are right to think that a person could contract the genital herpes infection through oral sex with someone who has a cold sore. It used to be thought that the virus responsible for 'cold sores' was different from the one responsible for genital herpes, but it is now clear that in almost half of people who have genital herpes infection the virus involved is the one that usually causes 'cold sores'.

If you take your fingers just inside the vagina, slowly run one, two or three up the anterior wall, to just behind the clitoris, and stimulate with a slight "come hither" movement then you will be in the right area for the g-spot. Doing this while stimulating the clitoris with your thumb or combining it with cunnilingus will usually give her a more intense orgasm than penetration alone

I agree with tinkerbell, going straight in with the finger, probably would hurt. You need to work her up a bit, not only to relax her but to also encourage her natural lubrication. Loads of foreplay, and teasing around the genitalia, concentrating more on stimulating the clitoris. Take your time, there's no rush. If she enjoys this, she will be more able to enjoy your fingers.

hahaha, it can be quite erotic putting a condom on with your mouth, my personal favourite is champagne flavour. Seriously though, it is actually the receiver who is more at risk of catching a nasty from oral sex.

No, using spermicide on a condom while pregnant will not harm your baby. There is no problem with having intercourse during pregnancy, as long as your pregnancy is not high risk. You should refrain if you have a history of miscarriage or experience bleeding. And of course if it's uncomfortable.

With reference to abortion, there are very strong views and I hold my own. However, as a professional I believe in a woman's choice. So in answer to your question, I can only speak for the UK, where you can legally have an abortion up to 24 weeks. However, it is advisable before 12 weeks. But as has already been said, it is very unlikely that your gf is pregnant, however not impossible. A lot of the pregnancy tests these days are more sensitive in detecting the rise in pregnancy hormones released, thereforeeee she can take the test at the time a period would be due, rather than waiting a couple of days.

You're welcome hun, take care 8)

Yes, the mini pill is continuous with no break, whereas the combined is 21 pills and a 7 day break, which is when you have your period. If that is the case, you should be fine, as you took the pill within a couple of hours. Make sure you sort out getting another pack to replace the one pill you lost, as missing a pill completely would leave you unprotected

It depends greatly on which pill you are taking. If you are taking the combined (progesterone and oestrogen), as long as you take it within 12 hours of your usual time, you should not need to take any other precautions. Then return to your normal time the following day. However, the progesterone only pill, (mini pill) needs to be taken within 3 hours of your usual time and if not, you need another form of protection for the following 7 days. HTH

Though there's admittedly less risk of STIs in oral sex than in vaginal or anal sex, the risk still exists. You can get a bacterial infection of chlamydia, syphilis or gonorrhea in your mouth and/or throat, and in some rarer occasions, can develop genital warts in the mouth. Herpes is commonly passed between the genitals and the mouth, and HIV can be passed through cuts in the mouth or small abrasions and you may have cuts or ulcers in your mouth that you may not be aware of. Gum or teeth diseases are an open door to receiving STI's, the risk of transmission would be much lower if your gums are healthy and if you do not let the man cum in your mouth. Avoid brushing or flossing your teeth right before you have oral sex, as this may tear the lining of the mouth, increasing your exposure to viruses. When using a condom, most people prefer using the ones without spermicide for oral sex. You can also buy flavoured condoms or a condom that is thinner. HTH

Here's a few for you Oral Contraception "If I take a pill after intercourse I won't get pregnant." "If I stop the pill in mid-cycle I won't get pregnant." "You can start the pill anytime and it will be effective immediately." Vaginal Spermicides "Vaginal deodorants are effective contraceptives." "Vaseline is a good contraceptive." Condoms "The condom is a foolproof method of birth control." "It can be put on just prior to ejaculation." "Vaseline is a good lubricant to use with condoms." Withdrawal "The withdrawal method is full proof." "If I don't penetrate all the way, she won't get pregnant." "If I ejaculate near the vagina but not inside, there is not danger of pregnancy." Diaphragm "It is so big. It must be painful to insert and it may block the urinary passage so that you cannot go to the bathroom while it is in place." "The edge can hurt the penis." Periodic Abstinence "You can get pregnant only towards the end of the menstrual cycle." "I can become pregnant only on the 14th day of my cycle." "A woman is fertile only during her menstrual period." "I am safe 7 days before my period starts and 7 days after it ends." "Ovulation is always 14 days after menstruation." "My menstrual periods are irregular so I cannot become pregnant." "I can't get pregnant the first time I have intercourse." Douching "Douching with Coke (Pepsi, vinegar, Dettol) is an effective method of birth control." Positions "I can't get pregnant if we have intercourse standing up." "Pregnancy is impossible if the woman remains uppermost during intercourse." Orgasm "To become pregnant, it is necessary for us to reach orgasm at the same time." "If a woman doesn't have an orgasm, she won't get pregnant." Abortion "I can induce an abortion by drinking a bottle of gin and taking a hot bath." "I can induce an abortion by taking quinine tablets." "I can induce an abortion by taking aspirin and hot mustard." "I can induce an abortion by taking a hot milk douche." "I can induce an abortion by taking an herbal douche." "I can induce an abortion by taking a mustard bath." HTH

I was 16 and my bf was 18

This is very interesting, as in my professional life, I deal with a lot of emergency situations and thrive on adrenalin. Haha, yes I do change my car quite a lot. I know it's down to my personality and the need for excitement and change, I have looked closely and realise I do go for men who are similar to myself. I am a very independent woman and I suppose the dependency you describe is a very frightening thought. I think I need to change the kind of men I go for. I have tried in the past putting off the physical intimacy and failed miserably. I will persevere though, as I know I need more even if I don't think I do at the time. Cheers for the advice guys, plenty of food for thought