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  1. but when i made no contact with her for a month my feelings for her grew...its liek that old saying where ppl say that you dont realize how much you love somone till there gone...i thoughti loved her with al my heart but i realized that i didnt even know what love was until she was gone just keep loving her more an dmore
  2. well my gf and i broke up a month ago after 11 months of going out cause she grew apart from me...i went no contact with her for about a month and each and everyday i loved her more and more....and then i asked her if she liked me at all and she said iw asjust a friends to her now/... what do i do??i love her soo much...im jus a big mess now and i feel all depressed all the time...ive been smoking weed more and more everyday cause it helps me forget her and i cant think of anything without her...nothing i do is the same with out her....ineed a reason every morning to get up and i wish i would jus fall asleep and never wake up....please help me
  3. i dont know the way it worked for me i broke up with my gf then went nc for amonth she got over me and i didnt and i feel like im slipping in to depression
  4. no i was very very sensative...i broke up with her because she said she loves me but she doesnt know waht kind of love it was
  5. i know that i should try and move on but i love her so much and want her back so badly i cant think straight at all or anything anymore...im becoming a bigger mess everyday and ive been drinking and getting high very very frequently because it helps me forget for the little while...when ever i think of her telling me that shes gotten over me i feel like that i dont know what to do and im getting more and more desperate everyday everyday i have to ask myself why i should even get out of bed what should i do??i dont want to tell her this because i dont want any pity dates or i dont want to come off as desperate or anything i do not know waht to do...
  6. yea were both 15 and we went out for 10 an a half months and thats along time for jus kids and ive just become so attached to her
  7. but i dont want to move on i still love her so damn much it jsu kills me to even think about being without her
  8. hello... well me and my gf broke up a month ago and we were talking a couple days ago and i said that i still liked ehr but she said that shes sorry but im just a friend to her now...and i really want her back so ive been talking to her when i got the chance and if there was a gathering where both of us are going i would ask her to hang out wit me and stuff my question is that does that make me seem desperate?is taht a bad thing for me to be trying to get closer to her like that?
  9. well i broke up wit my gf about a month ago an i still love her so much and im just a mess what can i do?how do i know if i can get back togethjer with her?
  10. about amonth ago my gf and i broke up...we are 15 and we went out for almost 11 months and when we broke up i was totally crushed....well when we talkedabout a week afterwards she said that she still liked me and i continued to ask her every week or so to see what she felt and she kept sayin that she doesnt know...now i feel like im jus left hanging and i need closure and im jus a total mess latly...what are some ways i can see if we are going to get back together or if we are really over??
  11. well we were doing really really good up until now we would get in fights like normal couples but we always made up and stuff and we hung out lots and such too i dont knwo why she just decided that all of a sudden she hasnt cheated on me or lied to me or anything liek taht so we have decided to talk again some time next week
  12. well this morning i was talking to her cause we had a fight last month and it got to her saying that she doesnt think she loves me as much asi love her and i said do you love me and she said she doesnt know and i said do you think you ever will and she said she doesnt know and then i said i think we should start seeing other people and i walked away but i still love her so much weve been together for 10 and a half months and shes just become such a big part of my life that i cant imagine my life with out her what should i do?
  13. no no im trying to keep her away from my friends cause they do stupid things
  14. me and my gf have been going out fo r11 months now and were dealing with some issues well we got in a fight tonight and it started off about how she doesnt get to hang out wit my friends very much and i said that she never made and effort and also because my friends drink and smoke weed so i dont want to her be around bad influences and she said that she doesnt want me thinkin for me and all taht but thats jsut a short summary of it. well the thing is i still love her...i cant picture my life with out her its like w/e i do i want to be doing it with her. if im jus sleeping i wish she was sleeping next to me and if i was just eating i wish she was eating something beside me and all that kind of stuff but shes not quite the kind of gf i want. maybe im wanting too much from her??i want her to act like she really likes me rather than just giving everyone else her attention and just giving the left over to me cause shes jsu got some left...i dont quite know what to do... what do you guys think i shoudl do?should i try to work it out more??or should i break up with her now?but i really dont want to
  15. well when we hang out we are together for about 7 hrs or so...how many activities should i be planning or w/e?
  16. well me and my gf hav beengoing out for 10 an a hald motnhs or so now and were great!the only thing is when we hang out we do alot of sitting around and doing nothing. what are some things we can do that is easily do able in most places?
  17. soo heress some background info. well im 15and before i met my gf i was quite a "rebel" i guess u cud say. On a night out with my friends we would have a couple beers and and such just like regular teenagers. we didnt get too hammered exept for the accidental acceptions every here an then say some once drinks too much and they pass out. that would happen say once every 3 months but never too the say ppl. well anyways since i started hangin out wit my gf more i stopped drinking because she said she worries wen im drunk. well the thing is i started drifitng away from my friends. the thing about me is that when ppl drink around me i dont care if i dont drink but i just dont want to be around that when things liek that happen unless im a part of it if you know what i mean. so i talked to my gf abouth it and she says she doesnt care but i know that the only reason she says that is because she doesnt want me losing my friends because of ehr. my friends are very understanding so they are 100%fine with me not drinking. but its hard to be friends with ppl with such different beliefs. and now i dont know waht to do?i love my gf as much as a 15 year old can love and i dont want to berak up with her but then again i dont want to have know friends...waht should i do?
  18. i hatehow when a girl doesnt want to have sex teh guy has to wait and if hes frustrated then he comes off as a jerk but when the girl complains about the guy not having a strong sex drive its all understandable...
  19. well i looked into the recording thing and there is only one recording studio in my town and it costs me 130 dollars and hour and i cant quite afford that...so what else?what about some gifts?
  20. she likes to sing...thats how we met, through music....she sings i play gutiar so maybe i can do something about that
  21. i gave her a small diamond necklace on her bday so the necklass is out... what are some things we could do on the special day?
  22. so my gf and i ahve been going out almost an year...and year in a month or so and im preapareing early...but whats a nice present i can get her???and a nice way to spend teh day and make it special?i thought about a promise ring as a sign to show that were dedicated to eachother...but she told me a acouple months ago that she believes that a ring should be for marriage...so what do you guys think?
  23. 16 in a month for me and for her in a couple more months
  24. well my gf and i have been going out for 9 and a half months and all weve done was i fingered her say 5 times and she kinda gave me a hand job underneath my pants for like 5 seconds before she stopped and shes done that about 3 times well the thing is i love ehr i really doo and i think she loves me but i cant help being frustrated sometimes and ive talked to her and asked what it was tat was bothering her about it and she just says she doesnt know and i dont want to presure her or anything....is there anyone thats had the same problem??what did you do?
  25. hey my gf and i are hitting 9 months on monday...but we fight often say once every 1 weeks and stuff...we start fightin from something small but then it gets in to something big...i love her and i think she lvoes me but we keep fighting and i really dont want to...why do couples fight after they have been together for a while??
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