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hey, practice makes perfect let him know this is all new to you and you want him to tell you what he likes, he will prolly say ok, and then say nothing because he is soo happy and in shock that you are actually doing something, but, in time he will...lol.. just study his facial expressions, and see what drives him wild, and what he doesnt give no reaction to at all... learn by doing is my motto

pretty soon hillary duff will be legal!!!!!! and she will be all mine....

frist off, i do not compare the girl i am with to the girl i am watching (though picturing the 2 together has sometimes crossed my mind...lol) but we are happy with you, otherwise we wouldnt be with you... anyhow, i really could care less if the girl i am with digs porn, i think it is great that she can get her rocks off, hell, i think it is hot to watch a girl pleasure herself, as far as toys go, or looking at incredibly endowed guys, well, i know alot of women who like toys, and enjoy them being part of their sex life, thats cool, and if she is checking out a guy with a 2 foot rod, well, she is still with me so i must be doin something right... it really would not bother me... if she checked out lesbian sites, well, then i would be taken her to clubs to pick up chicks...lol.

when she has her back to you one day, pinch her butt (not hard enough to bruise...lol) if she turns in surpise and smiles, go for it... if she turns and has a mad look on her face, apologize and say you were just playin

before i got to your last post i was gonna say maybe she likes woman, now that i read your last post i am almost sure of it...lol... cmon she prolly thinks she wants to be with a man, but she really doesnt find them attractive, you may be nothing more than a tool for her, and your prolly really nice too i bet so why not keep you around, have you met her parents? if so maybe they like you to and she is keeping you around for that reason... you know, you may be the kind of guy a girl can bring home to mom...

hmmm.. if you are in the shower conditioner is awesome...lol. just dont mix it with the water otherwise it runs off, but just putsome conditioner (the more the merrier) in you hand evenly distribute it to both your hands, use one hand to rub and massauge your balls while they other goes to town, and switch it up with the hands, its cool because when you switch at first it is like a stranger doing it...lol

towel... or what you first said

ypu, dont just thionk she is a light switch, maybe set the mood and everything... candles aroma therapy, massauge oils, smooth music (i dig the kenny g, or michael bolton stuff to get the girl in the mood... ) you gotta work it boy!

you will grow hair on your palms!

the best thing i can say (which will wind up being something that will help you years from now with lots of practice) is talk to her and see 'whats up' let her know you are feeling this distancing feeling with her and want to know if everything is ok... communication, it is the most simplest and basic way to understand somebody and yet so few people use it, instead we all try to 'figure out' what the person is thinking rather than just asking.

Panties or thongs: thong Painted nails or not: dont care Regular or sports bra: regular Bra straps showing or not: dont care Cute n' mysterious or wild n' sexy: both Dark or blonde hair: dont care Long or short hair: dont care Curly or straight hair: dont care Dark, light, or crazy cool eyes: dont care Long or short nails: short nails Hat or no hat: depends on what we are doing...lol Good or bad girl: both Hair up or down: dont care Jewelry or none: dont care Tall or short: dont care Accent or no accent: dont care Pants or dress: dont care Tan or fair: dont care Glasses: dont care Pretty indoor chick or crazy party chick: hmmmm.... not sure Freckles or none: dont care Shy or outgoing: outgoing, but shy a little bit Funny or always cool: cool and funny Talkative or shy: somewhere in the middle, i dont want to be the only one having a conversation, but at the same time i would like to put in my 2 cents.

hey redfire, i thought you all were going out..lol.. he is probably finding your shyness attractive, even challanging... i wouldnt be surprised if the less interest you show in him all of a sudden causes him to want you more... it is true that guys usually judge a woman by different clothes, as though it has something to do with who they are i work in a bank, and for some reason when i see the girls at work i think of them as professional and not into the stuff i like, but i have hung out outside of work with a few of them, and when i see them in their home get up it sends a complete different image in my head..lol.. it is not right, but it does happen... he prolly saw you natural and totally dug the look, you are no longer 'just the girl he works with' you are some chick he would check out if he was with his guy friends...lol. but maybe the reason he doesnt want to actually go out with you may be to an insecurity with himself... has he dated before? do you know of other girls he has gone out with? he may be shy, but with you acting more shy than him is giving him the courage to be daring... thats just one to grow on..lol. it is really hard to draw a conclusion from these situations simply for the fact that all we get is the one persons view point.

hey SexySadie7, i think what he may be going thru (which is the same for me at this point) is that deep inside he does want to have some fun, and probably really enjoys what the 2 of you have done, but on some psychological level he may feel like doing this is putting him back into a place where he doesnt want to be ...ie: a relationship... even if you just want to have fun and you tell him, somewhere deep inside he probably feels like you are going to get attached to him and he is trying to avoid it, so rather than talking to you about his fears he is avoiding you all together... but i could be way off...lol

just let him know you are not ready for a relationship. dont say anything like about leaving and stuff like that, let him know everything that goes with a relationship is something you want to save for a few years until you feel you are ready for them... if he cares he should understand, and appreciate your honesty... if not you know he is selfish and is only looking for you to pleasure him.