melancholy123

If he gets out is he required to get any type of therapy or does he just go and do as he pleases?

Wow I thought you were maybe 14. My advice stands. Stop flirting with this boy!

How old are you? You need to stop sending messages to a boy who has a gf. Your own bf would not be happy to know you are sending messages to another guy.

Yes!

You dont need to worry so much about what others are thinking. Spend your energy on yourself. I dont know anyone who has a Norman Rockwell life, that's all just fantasy.

I think many of us were jerks as teenagers and I can honestly say I was in many ways. A lot of us were know it alls too, as was I. It comes down to the immature brain of a teenager. Some kids act out in odd ways and the immature brain is often what is behind it. The male brain doesn't stop maturing until age 25 so this guy had a long way to go at that time.

It did take a toll on me, wondering about all these relatives I never got to meet. In the past few yrs I have met a cousin I never knew I had (on my dad's side) and made contact with several others, one of whom doesn't live far away. We do plan to meet.

That's some interesting theories you have but what proof do you have? Also, what does it matter now???

You'd ave to know my mother to really answer that. My guess is she thought my dad's family all drank too much and she was about as anti alcohol as you could get. Very Victorian in her ideas.

My mother had issues with my dad's family and I knew almost none of them. He had 13 brothers and sisters and I couldn't name more than 2 of them until recently when i got into genealogy and found his family and all the names and spouses and kids! No photos of anyone yet, but maybe one day. Mother did me a huge disservice by keeping me from knowing these people. I'm just putting this out there too.

Dont sign anything. Get a lawyer asap. What he wants to do cant be done in Canada, it has to be fair meaning 50/50. I dont know where you live so you need to know the law in your area. He's trying to swindle you.

Dont give sis the power to make you miserable. Rise above her comments and live your life as you see fit. Dont let her keep you from your relatives and friends. Nobody should have that power over anyone.

Seek out a parrot forum, surely there is one. Find a parrot expert who can help you.

It blows me away that this made you angry. An over the top reaction to some chick you briefly met in a bar. She just didnt seem interested in you. So what? Move on. Hopefully the next girl will be more receptive.

I don't think she's into you. I'd move on. My callous side says she used you for a night out where you paid for drinks and she could go dancing with others.

I hope you do step back, it'll be better for you mentally and emotionally if you do. You sound like you are trying to buy friendships by doing all sorts of things for people who dont really seem to care. Time to stop that.

OP you should back off, you are way too involved and take thing too personally and are over the top trying to be in the middle of everything. You'll feel much better if you calm down and just either be a polite guest or stay home and send the gift.

Are you sure he's not married or living with someone? I think you need to let this go.

What happened to the days of when a shower was a surprise? Baby and wedding showers used to be surprises for the mom or bride to be. Life was much simpler then.

I've been going to a chiro for years and have not had to get down on the floor for anything. I would have said - tell me what to do and I will do it when I get home, on my own floor or carpet. If they persisted Id have said I dont care to get down on the potentially germy carpeting. You need to stand up for yourself if you are put in a position you dont like!

But you dont know that it happened as she says it did! Things change over time, memories fade etc.

After all this time there's no proof that what the OP says now is what the teacher said then.

I dont think he had any problems. I think he was an immature teenage kid. Why does it have to be any more complicated than that?

Then he needs to shape up or ship out. This is not love when you are unhappy.

My MIL treated me like sh1t til the day she died. I avoided her at all costs. Now I am a MIL and I love my SIL and he calls me Mom which makes me happy. I have zero reason to ever complain about him as he is a good person. My son has a lovely gf and we get along well. I've always made an effort to be a good person to these two people who have come into our lives after the BS I dealt with with my own MIL.