melancholy123

Just let it go. He never replied to you, ever, so that should tell you he's never been interested in you. Move on.

This guy has far too much baggage to del with and you were wasting your time trying to create something out of nothing. He's not interested in you. Block, delete, move on.

She sounds looney to me, so good thing to block and delete. Better luck next time!

We bought our son a house almost 6 yrs ago and we are on the deed as 1% owners, at the lawyer's suggestion. Fine with us. He paid us back in 5 years. Yes it was concerning that he may not pay us but being even a 1% owner gave us protection that if he failed to pay us back we did have a stake in the house. I'm glad we did it. He could never afford a house on his own, prices in Ontario, Canada are thru the proverbial roof. It's worth 5x what he paid for it now in under 6 yrs. I'm not agreeing with your reasoning as to me it doesn't make sense. But it's not my decision. It's so hard for young people to get into the market that if someone offers to help, you should take them up on the offer and be sure to have a lawyer on board and understand the details. If you dont want to be on the deed, then tell them that. Let them and your fiancé own it and you pay an agreed share per month.

Dancing Fool you nailed it.

I say get your licence and give it a try, it may or may not be for you. You won't know unless you try. My neighbour is a very successful real estate agent and has made a lot of money over the years as many have. I say go for it.

There's a lot of reasons why he won't have sex with you as mentioned above. I'd be gone Iif I was you. You two are not compatible. Do not move in with him.

At 18 what kind of position are you in to take care of another human being? Never mind what he wants, what do YOU want? This is my opinion so here goes. I'd be having an abortion asap. I would not want to mess up my life and future at 18 with an unplanned pregnancy with some random dude who's popular and good looking. The does not make for a solid relationship or future. You'd be on your own to raise the child. Get yourself on some good birth control.

Why push the guy to talk on the phone when clearly he isn't feeling well? This isn't shooting you down, it's telling you he feels like crap! I think you are being too pushy and need to back off til he feels better.

I think he's acting like a big baby because he got covid. He could have gotten it anywhere. You need to stop apologizing for no reason. This is not your fault. Leave him alone, stop texting him, let him recover and take it from there.

Do you think she's got something going with someone on the phone? It sounds suspicious to me.

Have you thought of starting your own business and using your skills that way? Starting our own biz was the best thing we ever did.

Give the model car to a local kid who would like it or take it to a thrift shop to be sold. This guy is full of sh1t and you need a lawyer.

Why have you endured this for 5 years?

I wish you luck as you are going to need it. i dont see this working out well in the end. She is interfering and he's a momma's boy. Right now all looks good and fine but reality is another story. You should rethink this.

Just back away from these people, you dont need to make some sort of formal announcement that the friendship is over. People come and go from our lives all the time. I've backed away from people who I no longer hd any interest in being friends with.

More details would help!

You have plenty of reasons to block and delete. How many more do you need? What's so wonderful about a guy you cant trust or believe? Nothing.

You are wasting your time trying to make this guy do someone he doesn't want to by pestering him to contact you more. I think you like him much more than he likes you. Also, he may still be with his wife and he has lied to you, you dont know that what he's told you is true. You'd be better off to block and delete him and find another guy who is more straightforward than this guy is.

She should have a different cat sitter than the guy. There are also kennels that take in cats/kittens. I think she is not over him and this is a way for her to remain in contact with him. I would not like this at all if I was you.

Block and delete, problem solved.

Block and delete and move on. Dont waste your time on this guy.

You said he was drunk, that's probably what caused this. Do you want to continue the FWB thing with him?

What a d1ck. Tell him to hit the road.

Why hasn't someone hired a caretaker for Nan so that your bf doesn't have to b e there all the time? Perhaps it's time for Nan to be in an old folks home.