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Everything posted by melancholy123

  1. Why are you bothering with this guy? An ex is an ex and for a reason. You cant go back. Move forward in your life, not back.
  2. I think it was all too much too fast for her, she is only 23. You also sound rather needy to me and an over the top kind of guy with all of the things you did for her. I too think she has one foot out the door.
  3. Just do it, block and delete her and move on. There is zero reason to tell her you are doing that. You wont get past her until you have done this.
  4. I too think he's still hung up on the ex and I too would've put on that new dress and told him I was going to the party. He'd have gotten ready to go in a flash if you did that! Something is up with him, so you need to pay close attention.
  5. I had been diagnosed with low iron 2-3 times in my life and was put on iron supplement tabs, 3 a day for a while then 2 a day then 1 a day and eventually my level was where it should be. Is that an option for you?
  6. I at first thought this "friend" had to be about 12 years old, not someone married with her own kids. Talk about a drama queen. There's something wrong with her to react as she did. Also, did anyone ever tell her that phone lines run both ways? She could have phoned you if it was so important to speak to you. I'd separate myself from her after this childish reaction to you not being able to call her at an appointed time. She would suck the life out of me with her drama.
  7. This guy was obviously hammered when he did this, what a jerk. Do NOT ever send nude pix to anyone, they are then out there forever and you dont know where they will end up. Bock the brother and delete his info from your phone and social media. He's the one who should feel guilty, not you.
  8. It's interesting he's mad at you yet he's gone back to hanging out with his friend! Seems like a double standard to me. If you want to be a better person, stop drinking to the point you get hammered and do stupid things. Either he gets over it or he doesn't but you need to learn from this.
  9. If you go to Settings and then Privacy there is a huge list of things you can check or uncheck to control who has access to you. I do not show up in a google search or facebook search as I set myself to Private several years ago.
  10. *****the REAL ISSUE right now is the fact that this girlfriend is the worst thing for her -- she is volatile, emotionally manipulative and does not have her mental illness in any form of control - the OP is in danger of emotionally and mentally crumbling apart. If she gets rid of the property, it won't solve the problem.***** Bingo! In a nutshell this is the problem here.
  11. Yeah, what's an r complex? Why not just say - thanks but no thanks - and walk away? When you get into situations like that you sound like a right fighter. You'd rather be right than happy. If you dont want an argument, you have to practice not saying anything and moving on.
  12. I'm really sorry tihis happened to you. Good on you for calling police and reporting him and doing a rape kit and STD tests/ I'm glad you are set up for therapy as you sound like you really need it. Do you have a trusted friend or someone you can talk to before you start therapy?
  13. If your FB is set to PRIVATE he cant reach you. I dont know what you are doing, but private is just that. You dont show up if he searches for your name. I run several FB pages and sometimes have to block people and they cannot come back and rejoin. Changing to private removes you from the Search feature.
  14. NO jewelry! Get her a book or even a gift card to a book store or one for a coffee shop etc. Jewelry is waaaaaay too personal.
  15. This is not going to work. You anent selfish, he is, making you do what you know is wrong. Find a guy your parents approve of.
  16. Make your facebook account private then he cant find you. Dont ever reply to him in any way. Make sure he's blocked and deleted from everything possible.
  17. I'd tell him to hit the road. He's already got one foot out the door.
  18. Oh brother have you ever been used by this piece of work. She is surely involved with another guy in some way. Why have you put up with this for so long? Dont tell me you love her, you know that's not love. Then she turns it around on you and blames you for the issues? I hope you told her to F off and then blocked and deleted her from your phone and social medial. You can do so much better.
  19. Why are you letting an unmedicated bi polar person make such big demands on you for no valid reason? An investment can make you money, if it's a good one. Keep it and ditch her. She's trying to control your life. You know you dont really want to sell your investment and you should not be bullied into doing so.
  20. Yes I think you need therapy. You are far too anxious about everything to do with this girl and you need to lean how to calm yourself. Also you are far too co-dependent with her. Take that 1 week beak for now but over all I think you need to sort yourself out and then find someone who lives near you. LDR is the hardest way possible to have a relationship.
  21. Yes I did that a few times! I had general crew I hung with and there ws usually something going on somewhere and we'd go to whatever it was! So glad to be past that stuff!
  22. Change your phone number and be careful who you give it to.
  23. Oh buddy, you need to lighten up! You will indeed chase her away if you dont learn to chill out. It's only a week that she will be away! You need to hang out with friends, go to work if you have a job, go to the gym etc do things that you like. Dont be apologizing for anything, as you didnt do anything wrong - yet. But you will if you dont get a handle on your emotions.
  24. When I was a teen it was vital for me to be in the middle of everything and everyone like many teens are. I was so afraid of missing out on something! Now, I dont give a rat's patootie! I have enough acquaintances and not many actual friends and that is ok. I dont need to see or know or deal with all that goes on around me. I am content with me. I love my big property in the woods and am very happy here. I dont feel a need to get out there all that much. I am very sociable but I am fine with my own company.
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