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it seems to me like he is joking although he may be into asian girls it is his way of flirting with you and trying to make you laugh maybe like an inside joke. im sure he does like asian girls but thats not a reason to dump someone u guys are overreacting, if he loves u than thats all that matters...by that conversation u typed it seems as if he was doing it to annoy u as a joke, do u actually think he thought the song was good because of an asian girl? saying that she should dump thats like saying a married man cant think that a supermodel is attractive, or cant be generally attracted to a certain ethnic group thats not his wifes...thats so stupid.

Well there's good news and theres bad news for you. Basically all girls like a guy who is taller than them, even if its just by an inch or two. Shorter is a no no to them. So while your not tall for a male, your also taller than the majority of females so it shouldnt be a problem for a girl who is 5-5' or under i dont think theyll care. i am 6'3 and i dont like being that big but girls seem to like because it provides security and such i guess, and they dont like looking down to their partner

i still love her, but she is confused and doesn't *love* me but really likes me and likes spending time with me and being in my life, but i guess in a way turned me down considering she knows i really liked her. i have a great deal of pride and once i heard this i blocked her out and didnt want to deal with her because for one it hurt to be around someone like that and it made it harder to move on, and in two i was kinda disgusted with her because she had no reason to not give it a shot and "doesnt know how she feels". ive ignored her and basically blocked her out of my life and she seems to know this. i still really have strong feelings for her and i wanna know is what i did wrong? i mean i want to be in her life and be close with her and then maybe something will respark or we can just be friends, but i have so much resentment and pride that i feel stronger living life on my own and completely pushing her out of my life to show i am my own man and i can get other girls. i don't know what to do. if i go back into her life things will be weird for sure, but yet again i think she is a great person who i actually do like to be around. confused how i can resent her but yet love her? i dont know if i should move on, exit her out of my life, or be understanding and be friends with her in hope that feelings will respark, or maybe just be close friends in general. what should i do? what would be the best thing remembering pride is a huge factor as well as i am annoyed with the way she handled this situation bcause she doesnt have any other guys in her life and i dont know why she w*ouldnt give me a shot considering i always nice to her and she also thinks im attractive. what do u think...?

From what you've told me, as of now it doesnt seem like she's interested in you. She doesn't IM you, and she says she likes you as a friend. However you never know with girls and sometimes they play hard to get and they want to make it seem like they don't like you, and that might be the case considering i dont know the situation very well. I think you should ask her, say honestly, would you ever wanna be more than friends and you know go see a movie just the two of us, and do it in a clever way. See how she reacts. You w/ill know immediately where you stand, trust me. Judge her reaction, look at her face, take a mental note. You have nothing to lose and even though she probably just l ikes you as a friend, you might still get a chance with her on a date and she might fall for you, you never know. Just give it a shot.

Uhmmm, what are you talking about here? Was it my illusion that you said you were both married? You don't have flings with other people when you are married, ya know. Ever think that might be the reason he's not interested?

Well although I persoanlly think it's wrong to stop someone from dating when they want to, you are only 13 man. I find it hard to believe you are in love with this girl. You are 13, and probably immature. I dont blame your parents for not letting you date now, but they should let you start around 14 or 15...this college thing is a little stupid i mean when you are in high school you can't date? thats the best part of school...i think you should try to prove your responsiblity and dont try to date this girl and go behind there backs. Then maybe theyll let you date at 14 or 15 when you are more mature. Besides, this girl probbaly wont be in the picture in a year or two, so dont stress too much about her. Try to prove you are responsible...

Thanks for the responses guys I appreciate them. But can someone elaborate on how I should go about starting to talk to her if i do decide to go for her?

Okay well I have just started to get over this girl that I really liked, and my attention is starting to shift to a different girl. I am not sure if this is my bodys natural need to rebound and feel fulfilled, or if i really like her, but i have my attention on her. I know from a mutual friend that she thinks im good looking and will hook up with me but she isnt the type of person to want to be with one person and i have heard that she hooks up with a lot of different people. She is also very outgoing. I havent talked to her even though we both know of each other and both think each other are cute. I have heard that she likes someone else, but is wlling to hook up with me but i had to act quickly and start talking to her soon. i was introduced to her friday, and it was a quick simple this is, this is. i just said whats up and didnt really talk to her cause she went off and started talking to other people. im on break now so i havent talked to her but i have her screen name and i was wondering what i should do next. should i just randomly im her, or should i wait til i see her again in school? can somebody give me some good ideas on how i should go about talking to her and becming close to her?

this is no dude man

This post was obviously a joke.

Well she either has a naturally deep voice herself..... or she was mocking you bigtime. Probably the latter, sorry.

Okay well I purposely haven't talked to this girl I still like for about 2 weeks now. We are both 16 and go to school together, and used to hang out and talk frequently. She knew I liked her, but she didn't know how she felt and was confused and 2 weeks ago decided we should be friends for right now because she doesnt want to hurt me in the future and she loves hanging out with me and doesnt want things to get weird and wants to stick with that. She says she doesnt know how she feels but she doesnt like love me and cant see the boyfriend/girlfriend thing right now. up til about a week ago, she was constantly trying to contact me thinking i was ignoring her. Well, I kinda was. i was hurt and i cant see myself being friends with her because the only way to move on is to stay away. we havent talked, and it seems as if any relationship at all even friendship might not happen because i am making no attempt to talk to her. she really hurt me, she just doesnt know it. I cant stand the fact that "she isnt sure". I mean, she really likes me and she thinks im real good looking too and she says there might be something in the future possibly but she doesnt feel it right now. heres the thing, ive tried to move on. i cant stop thinking about her. i love her. ive come to three roads. one, continue the way im going, leave her alone, shes out of my life. two, become close friends with her, not going to be easy. third, catch her off guard for valentines and think of something really cute and witty that might spark something again. not sure what it would be, but i would make it good, soemthing in the form of a text message or voice message or letter or card or something of the sort. i dont know what to do. i know you guys are gonna say i know its hard but move on, but you dont understand i have no problem doing that, its just that ive never felt like this for anyone before and i cant stop thinking about her. i think i love her. what should i do? should i leave her alone, keep her as a friend, or use valentines day friday to think of something good. please guys, any help would be greatly appreciated. --John

It's much easier to get sexually stimulated when drunk, but to cum, MUCH harder. Still don't know why...

Okay well me and this girl started hanging out about 3 months ago. Things were great, she knew I liked her and introduced me to her friends and i got to know them as well. she seemed really interested in me, however over time things got weird. finally we talked about it and she said for now she wants to be friends because she doesnt want to end up hurting me and she is confused and doesnt want things to get weird and she things im a great person and doesnt want to lose that. it hurt me alot, but now she expects us to be friends and is constantly trying to talk to me but it hurts too much for me to be her friend right now. would it be wrong for me just to cut her off for a while, i mean she is a really really nice person and she really does like me in at least some way, but i am kinda annoyed by the fact that she just wants to be friends for right now because i cant see why she wont give it a shot, and i cant be friends with her because it will be weird bcause i still have feelings for her and the only way i can get over her is time away. would it be wrong for me to like cut her off for a while, or maybe forever? i feel no obligation to be friends with her.

wow touchofheaven i am surprised to how well u understood my situation considering u could of interpreted what i said in a few different ways but u nailed it. the thing is, i really really like her, but there is no chemistry between us. i dont know how its possible to have feelings for someone if there is no chemistry, but thats how it is. and i am near positive that thats why she doesnt want relationship or anything like that with me right now. but i am confused to why she said she doesnt want to lose what we have, when she knows damn well that we are only going to grow apart now that i know she wants to be close friends/ whenevr we talk about this, she stresses the fact of how she feels, and she doesnt know right now, and that there is nothing wrong with me and she loves hanging out with me, she just cant control how she feels, and she wants to be friends for now. she cant come clean out and say that i dont like you in that way, no questions. i cant tell if she not trying to let me down, or she really isnt sure. she says that she isnt sure and that there still might be something, but she says she doesnt want her to be the one who holds me down when i can move on. and after that conversation i had my mind set on just forgetting about her, as well as a friendship for now because in order to get over her id have to be away from her.....but she calls me on weekends expecting us to be close or something. she must really not want to lose me, and if thats the case, i dont understand why she wouldnt want to give it a shot. i dont know what to do. im not depressed or anything because i know i can get other girls and everything is fine, but i really have feelings for this girl and i wanna no if i should just move on or if i should continue telling her i feel and trying and trying to break her in, because i know she likes me, at least in some way. WHAT DO I DO? WHAT WOULD YOU DO?