Does he have a job now? Were you afraid you would end up supporting him?

Does he still live with his parents? Is the new GF supporting him?

You need to move on. You broke up for a valid reason.
In the future don't break up as a device for change. As you can see that never works. Instead he moved on rather than allow a breakup to change him.
Originally Posted by nobody111
He didnt do something bad. He was lazy and i coudnt see a future at that point. He didnt have a job, he didnt try to change even when i was talking about it. So yes the answer is i was waiting for him to change.