ApathyKid666

I would have to go with tan girls, nice legs, preferably blonde hair wearing tanktops, short-shorts, sandals, the usual wear for a girl in the summer I guess. That's one thing I'd like considering my private school background (it blows!). On the other hand I'd really like a girl that could pull off wearing baggy pants (or shorts)... and actually make it look good and again with the tanktops or tight-fitting shirts. None of the hip-hop dealio though, the punk-rock stuff And girls with lip, tongue, eyebrow, bellybutton piercings, that king of stuff... I'll bet you find it odd that the same person said both of those different ideas haha

Hah yeah, now that its mentioned it hasn't happened in a while... but there's this one girl I've always liked from school. Whenever this happens she always ends up being that girl in my dreams even though I don't usually talk to her and I don't see her much. Cruel indeed!

Ah this wonderful topic! Bottom line- ignore the people bagging on you and you're friends. I'm can relate pretty well to you other than you're height I guess... I hang out with a crude bunch of people about middle class as highschool groups go. I'm only 5'8" (small in the reality of many guys), but I'm in the vicinity of 175 pounds, though you couldn't tell, I look maybe 140ish? I have a few big friends too one about 5'6 and 190 pounds, another guy 6'4 and 230 pounds (all muscle sadly As far as I'm concerned I could be getting more popular if I just didn't hang out with them... I'm superier in the fact that I'm more physically fit than anyone and I'm just generally more intelligent than everyone besides maybe one girl. My point is the "popular" people aren't as popular as you think. Most of them are nothing but gossipers and backstabbers, and the reality of their friendships is ofton times blackmail and those related things. I chose my friends because that's what they are - friends. Did you ever put this in your head yet? - What makes the popular kids so popular? All the druggies and middle class people usually don't like them (from around where I am anyways). I guess they aren't so popular after all huh? You shouldn't worry about what they're gonna think. And if they do make fun of you at any time... just notice how they travel in groups so they don't look like idiots when they try to do it by themselves

Hi, So lately, I've been getting remarks about several people thinking I'm hot (sometimes 'sooo hot'), and that I'm cute. Its usually some of my friends that tell me that their friends that i was usually recently introduced are the ones saying this. There are also college girl in my sisters dorm from college that see pictures of me on her door that make comments. And usually its girls of a more or less significant age gap. I turned 17 two months ago and the girls mostly being attracted (if not always) seem to be 8th graders and freshman, or older girls like I said from college. This is so new to me! I've always been the not so attractive red-head kid. Granted my hair has changed to a light brown and my style has kicked up a bit the last few years. I just don't see why all the sudden I'm able to attract girls of these age gaps, but never anyone really my age. I've had one girlfriend my age and that was during freshman year. That ended horribly and we've been at eachother's throats ever since (only one more year and I never have to see her again I think the recent years of always being rejected and never really liked have taken their toll and given me a low self esteem about how I look. I met one girl online (yes a freshman this year, still a little young) and she finally put a picture I sent her and I was amazed at the score I received. I believe it's at 9.9 at the moment. Then again, I'm somewhat of a pessimist and I don't much trust HotorNot or those other rating systems; one reason being one picture of you make look good to someone, but another could send an entirely different message. My problem is my low self esteem and my need for a girlfriend as I feel thats the missing block in my life right now. This freshman girl I met online however; we've taken a high liking to eachother to the point we talk about what could happen when she can date (she can't until she turns 16). And we've estimated even when she can and even though we like eachother chances are slim. We go to separate private school, but live in the same town, and have seen eachother once outside of the internet since we both play for the same soccer club... it happened by chance we did see eachother though, and only from afar, its not like we talked or anything. The fact we met online and her parents being very, very protective and sheltering is mainly the problem. I mean this girl is great... she's 2 years younger than myself, but she is smart, intelligent, and wise beyond her years, as well as mine. Her heart is in the right place and it seems like we're copies of eachother on the inside. I guess my problem is what could I do about this girl? I've never met her parents, I don't think I ever will unless a miracle happens (which I pray for). And even if I do I don't think they'll like me too much for the way I dress and all of that fun stuff. My other problem is what can I do about this self esteem thing and applying that in looking for a girlfriend? I'm not used to thise whole becoming attractive in a sense, and girls my age still don't seem to be taking the bait, which is making me nervous. My brother was almost the exact same way... never that great and toward the end of highschool years BAM. Girls, mostly younger were all over him. He always had a thing that he had to date older or same aged girls though and has had a successful girlfriend for over 2 years. I'm not so picky and can tolerate a younger girl so long as they are mature enough to understand whats going on... what do I do?

Actually you can easily inlay two 15 inch subwoofers in the back of almost any car. My friend builds his own cars and custom made his 15 inchers, windows would rattle when he pulled that thing up. As for bigger vehicles like trucks and mini-vans, they can easily fit 10 or 12 inch subwoofers under the front seats and eight 8 inch subwoofers in the trunk area... all they need is a bit of money

ya... im sorry i was very unclear as i reread it... the matter is now my friend (christina) is not mad at me anymore. i tried giving her a call earlier today and she was still quite pissed and handed off the phone to the girl that likes me (andrea) who eventually hung up because of the friction there. christina called me back later and we got together for a bit and worked it out more or less. so tomorrow im taking christina out for her birthday and stuff trying to make up for it all. andrea however took a weird turn and doesnt think we're gonna hang out or anything anymore because of the age gap and other obstacles... it all works out in the end i guess. thanks for posting and telling me i need to be more clear.. im sure other people read and said what the heck is this kid trying to say without giving it a second thought

This involves two girls and me really, only one problem in the end... There's this girl who likes me, and her friend that I know from school. (They're both younger than me) But anyways, they called me up last night for generally no reason I guess, but the friend told me to ask her out, like right that second over the phone after a while of conversation and stuff, i didnt. So they got online later, she told me to ask her then (she's been bugging me to for a while) so finally I gave in and asked... That led to the girl who likes me balling all night and she got very stressed out, for what reasons I don't know - in the end her answer was no after a few hours of thinking about it. So I can live with that you know? It's her choice after all. Then I said something so stupid to the friend, who has been basically my best friend these last two weeks. Earlier in the night she said someone had rejected her and she always gets rejected, and even earlier in the week she was rejected by my friend that she adored. But none-the-less the words came out of my mouth "you know there's one thing we have in common? we both get rejected alot" and if you know her she hates being rejected... she was pissed to the point she couldnt talk to me and to the point she still cant because shes so mad at me. I figured maybe if we slept on it it would get better... not so. She still wont talk and on top of it the girl that liked me that I got things squared away with told me today to stop talking about the friend when i talk to her because its all i talk about and i never talk about her and stuff... i had planned on taking the friend out today to a movie or something for her birthday but shes so mad she said dont even bother cause shed be busy and stuff (she's really just mad at me obviously), one of her friends said leave her a rose on her doorstep saying sorry in a note and she'd talk then.... what the hell? i have no problems giving her a rose and saying sorry, but im the kind of person that likes to do things in person. my plan was to get her to let me take her out tonight and give her a rose then and ya... i dont know how im going to talk to her since her friend told me not to talk about her and she wont talk to me either... how am i supposed to go about fixing this? i used to like this friend until she introduced me to this other girl and now it seems like everythings falling apart, and i feel like such a bad person right now... what do i do?

I would say to bring it to her attention again, but build up your defense first. Figure out why you don't like it- are you worried it will portray her badly? do you think it offends your relationship with her in any way? Strong points like that along with a serious, but loving/caring attitude should sway her train of thought and see how serious you really are. Also be prepaired to get into an in-depth discussion about it... girls talk alot

I think it sounds perfectly normal. I wouldn't like it if my girlfriend acted dirty in that way. We all know us guys joke about the whole girl on girl thing, but in my head (and yours too it would seem) that's just not cool. It really just sounds like you're trying to protect her from getting into perhaps some bad habits or other things like that. It also sounds like you don't want other people to see her dirty side, which I can full understand too; I wouldn't want anyone else to see what should be kept private between two people that are together.

Thanks for the reply I'll have to set some time apart to write a few more in here.

I wrote this after I finished a math test earlier than I thought I would. We had a slam poem (poetry performed to a rythm, hip-hoppish) due the next day for my Poetry and Drama class and this is what I came up with. (By the way, I got an A+ Reminiscense Distilled rainwater Collecting in cracked craters On halved metal plates Shading over blood. No longer boiling. Hidden in rudimentary tin, Shielded from recognition. Sketches, contracts, lies In piles under discolored rags, Wet and withered. From the apathetic answer, To a slowly dying prayer. In the reflections Of countless shattered windows There were droplets of garnet, Descendents of mournful memories; Unreachable yet concrete Refracting directly in front of me Under its crimson rays. Page after page of hypocrisy Overturned by building exasperation Decomposed letter by letter Line by line, story by story. 'Til nothing remained but Charcoaled aspirations set adrift By liberating currents, Never to return.

I was 15 in my freshman year of highschool actually. So it was about 2 years ago... little less.

my girlfriend of 3 months dumped me with this original poem *cough* roses are red, violets are blue trash gets dumped, and so do you i'll never forget her reaction when i walked away laughing at her... i figured out later she dumped me to try for a guy who already had a girlfriend, and glad to find out he ceased any form of communication with her, then she spread rumors, which no one believed. to this day we dont get along too well, things are awkward, and generally no one likes her at my school... life is great isnt it?

I recently (month or so ago) asked a girl from school, who is also a grade lower than me out for a movie, or something else that would peak our interest. Not only did I ask her out, but I did it over the phone (idiot, I know), but at least it wasn't over the internet as so many people do these days. The main reason for doing this I guess is the simple fact, she is a very hard person to get to talk outside of 'hi' 'hello' or some other formal address unless im specifically speaking to her question by question, or over the phone I feel she sensed an awkwardness and did finally ask a few questions, beyond the point though. I never got to know her too much last year, though I did talk to her quite a bit. Anyways, I asked this girl out, and she typically said yes, not so blatantly though, she morely said sure, as if she wasnt sure what i was asking, or she wasnt sure she wanted to it sounded to me. So as always, I waited a few days to get in touch with her again and find a time that would work, as I got ahold of her my speech kind of went down the drain, but when I did get it out, she had reported that she would feel uncomfortable going with me for the fact she doesn't date much. As much as I wanted to say 'if you don't start now, you never will' I didn't, since I didn't want to pressure her into something she didn't want to go through with. She said as well, "maybe later on in the school year or something". So we hung up, and went about business. I went on vacation, then a few weeks of soccer practice followed, so I never saw her until a week ago, when school started. I've managed to talk to her once since then and it was only a quick 'hi' as I was late for soccer practice. My question is, did I screw this up? When she said "maybe later" did she mean that as a gentle let down - that she just didn't want to and hoped I wouldn't bring it up again? And how should I go about talking to her now? I never see her since I'm not in her classes, don't see her at soccer practice, and I'm afraid to approach her when she's with her friends. What to do?

I guess I can't say much more than Rage... just ponder on it while he's gone. To me it sounds like he's just trying to get at something... it's not every day a 23 year old is dating a teenager still in highschool if you get my drift. Something just doesn't seem right about it.