how much sex is enough? FOR YOU

[astaro]

well, lots of topics about this, people frustrated about frequency. lets try and see if there are any number that most agree on (this is a very personal matter after all).

 

for me i would i have to say 3-4 times a week is the sweet spot, more is always nice, but if it gets lower then that it might trigger some issues in the long run (with me anyhow)

[JoeWho]

I think for me 3-4 times a week is enough. Ideally more would be better but life is sometimes too busy to find the time to do it everyday.

[jengh]

I always seem to want it more than the guy I'm dating. I guess I just have a high sex drive. If I had it my way, it'd be about 5 times a week. With my last relationship it ranged between 1-3 times. He had a low sex drive.

[Emmiebaby]

Eh i think we usually have sex about 4-5 times a week but if we lived together it would be a hell of a lot more!! We cant get enough of each other ha ha!

[MrCrazy2u]

I guess I could be happy with 3-4, but honestly I could find time everyday for sex... I need a girl who thinks the same way

[luvursmile]

I always seem to want it more than the guy I'm dating. I guess I just have a high sex drive. If I had it my way, it'd be about 5 times a week. With my last relationship it ranged between 1-3 times. He had a low sex drive.

 

I agree...the more the better for me too...

 

If you think your sex drive is high now,

just wait till youre may age

[answersguy]

4 days would be ideal but I'd like a round two on a couple of those days so 4-6 for me and I'm currently getting 1-2

[bigheart09]

I agree with 3-4 times a week. Right now it is down to once a week (if that)...frustrating

[jsx730]

I'm a guy, so I'd never say no to more, but 3-4 per week is a pretty good spot.

 

Less and I start to get bothered by it unless I'm really busy.

 

Unfortuneatly, ebtween Full Time work and Half Time college, I cound my blessings when I get it 3 times a week, usually happens 1-2 time atm.

[lunatic]

Well in my past relationships I was always ready for action if you get my drift. I would want it twice a day but, as I have aged I would say that once a day is good for me. Although I have to admit that I would be happy with 3 or 4 times a week.

[arwen]

I am on antidepressants so my libido is down for a bit. We can only see each other in the weekends, mostly we have sex 3 times then. When we are together for longer periods of time and if I am not on these meds.. I think around 4-5 times a week. In busy times I think 3 times is good

 

Arwen

[eliza]

Hmm.. during holidays about 5-6 times a week (I can't wait till term finishes!!! ) But usually 2-4 times during term time..

[Dako]

When I was younger, that would be 10 times a week, but I'd say 3 -4 times a week would be cool. Age slows you down.

[heloladies21]

How often you have it is not important. It's how often you want it, and if you're a guy, then how often your girl wants it is a sign of how into you she is. Sex is very much emotionally triggered for women and tied into how much she's into you. Guys on the other hand are very physical beings. Our sex drive is only partly controlled by how we emotionally feel about our partner, but also how physically attracted we are, how we physically feel (energy wise).

[CarnelianButterfly]

As much as I can get, horniness will happen at several times during the day and night.

[Newo Ikkin]

Note to self: Newo, there must be something wrong with you.

[CarnelianButterfly]

Note to self: Newo, there must be something wrong with you.

Why? You a frisky girl?

[Dako]

How often you have it is not important.

 

Since you often speak for all guys, let me say I disagree with you on this point.

 

Women are also physical beings.

You may have physically been manufactured and expelled from one.

[renaissancewoman101]

If I could, I would love to have sex a few times a week, but haven't had a bf in a long time so that doesnt happen. When I was with my ex, we would probably have sex 1-2 times a week, based on how often we hung out with each other. My sex drive was a lot higher than his, so sometimes that was a problem.

[crazyredhead]

Depends of course, on how the day is going, etc...but lately the hormones are in overdrive and if I could get it at least once a day, I'd be a happy girl.

 

And being in an LDR...yeah - it doesn't help matters much!

[Newo Ikkin]

Why? You a frisky girl?

 

Quite the opposite.

 

Perhaps its just my meds. Lets hope, for HIS sake.

[Cyberchick]

I think that 3 - 4 times a weeks is about enough for me. We do it about that much. Sometimes I'd like it more, maybe do it twice in the same night. But 3 - 4 is about good. Right now we haven't had sex in a week and a half because I was on my period ( sorry, tmi ) and he;s been super tired and stressed out. But I think we'll get back on track soon.

[CharLit]

Three times a week is enough, more is better

 

And heloladies, I've seen you say so many times that how often a girl wants sex is directly related to how we feel about the guy we're with. I have to disagree.

 

While yes, for both men and women, if you don't like or feel attracted to someone physically or emotionally (anymore) you're unlikely to want sex with them. However, shockingly, women do actually have sex drives determined independently of how we feel about the men we're with. Why do you think we masturbate? We also just have built-in sex drives that have nothing to do with our partner, and everything with hormones, age, upbringing, emotional wellbeing, stress, and basically everything that also affects men's sex drives.

[BellaDonna]

I think 3 times a week is ideal.

 

Anything more would not give me adequate time to build up desire.

 

It depends on a lot of different factors though. Some weeks might be more- some less. We try not to keep count....

 

BellaDonna

[EvaGina]

I cant keep my hands off him

I have no idea what "enough" is with my bf.

 

I happily went 2 months without with my ex tho.