musicguy Posted January 8, 2006 Share Posted January 8, 2006 Has anyone ever met their SO or have ever dated anyone from this site? Link to comment
Mun Posted January 8, 2006 Share Posted January 8, 2006 I know that some have, I don't know if they've stayed together. Link to comment
dpressedone89 Posted January 8, 2006 Share Posted January 8, 2006 i found the girl i believe to be my soulmate on this site but the fact im not 18 and the distance made the situation unworkable. so yes -sTitches Link to comment
DN Posted January 8, 2006 Share Posted January 8, 2006 I know of one couple that had an ldr that did not last and one couple that are in a current relationship. I believe there have been others. Link to comment
yeawutever Posted January 11, 2006 Share Posted January 11, 2006 That would be interesting. Link to comment
RayKay Posted January 11, 2006 Share Posted January 11, 2006 There have been a few that I know of, yes. I am not aware of any that has worked out long term yet though. Link to comment
quietgrl Posted February 4, 2007 Share Posted February 4, 2007 That would be interesting. i agree Ailec Link to comment
anggrace Posted February 4, 2007 Share Posted February 4, 2007 Although weve had some ups and downs and broke-up for a few weaks, my bf and I met on link removed. Its been two years. His dad married a woman he met on that sight as well. Link to comment
bigheart09 Posted February 4, 2007 Share Posted February 4, 2007 I havent had any luck on dating sites, but I know lots of people who have gotten married from them. Link to comment
SquareWheel Posted February 4, 2007 Share Posted February 4, 2007 This site seems to actively discourage direct contact between members. I once posted about IM chatting and received a polite but firm warning for expressing my openness to receiving IMs from other members. Another member was banned for setting up a chatroom and posting the link here. That said, I have successfullly exchanged PMs with a few other members, and I was once messaged on AOL messenger by a member from here, so I guess it'd be possible for two members here to connect. They'd just have to be located geographically near each other. Link to comment
quietgrl Posted February 5, 2007 Share Posted February 5, 2007 This site seems to actively discourage direct contact between members. I once posted about IM chatting and received a polite but firm warning for expressing my openness to receiving IMs from other members. Another member was banned for setting up a chatroom and posting the link here. That said, I have successfullly exchanged PMs with a few other members, and I was once messaged on AOL messenger by a member from here, so I guess it'd be possible for two members here to connect. They'd just have to be located geographically near each other. Square, I don't think i'll be finding any romance on enotalone because i don't think no man on here can handle my stong minded self. .I get Pm from men but not for romance.I haven't found a bold man yet . Link to comment
karvala Posted February 5, 2007 Share Posted February 5, 2007 Square, I don't think i'll be finding any romance on enotalone because i don't think no man on here can handle my stong minded self. .I get Pm from men but not for romance.I haven't found a bold man yet . LOL! Now there's a challenge. C'mon guys, don't let the side down. Link to comment
rocio Posted February 5, 2007 Share Posted February 5, 2007 I don't know about you guys, but I couldn't hook up with a guy on here. He would just have way too much access to personal information about me! I like to get to know people gradually... I don't need you knowing about my demons before you've even seen my boobs! Link to comment
jengh Posted February 5, 2007 Share Posted February 5, 2007 I don't know about you guys, but I couldn't hook up with a guy on here. He would just have way too much access to personal information about me! I like to get to know people gradually... I don't need you knowing about my demons before you've even seen my boobs! oh, i know, right? I wouldnt want someone im interested in knowing about all of my delightful health problems (like when im sick, get a yeast infection, etc...) and my scandalous romances... eek Link to comment
Aurian Posted February 6, 2007 Share Posted February 6, 2007 Its nice to have a place you can go and ask anything, eh? You would lose that freedom if your SO was checking out the site too. (Heck, what if you want to ask questions ABOUT the SO? Link to comment
quietgrl Posted February 6, 2007 Share Posted February 6, 2007 LOL! Now there's a challenge. C'mon guys, don't let the side down. Karvala, You must be new around here because most men on enotalone can't stand my strong views. Link to comment
karvala Posted February 6, 2007 Share Posted February 6, 2007 Karvala, You must be new around here because most men on enotalone can't stand my strong views. LOL, well I've been away for a while, so I've missed some of your strong views. But strong views, supported by reason and evidence , are fine. Many men like a strong woman, so don't be afraid. Link to comment
Iceman26 Posted February 6, 2007 Share Posted February 6, 2007 Yeah, I know of a couple that got married from here. Link to comment
shes2smart Posted February 6, 2007 Share Posted February 6, 2007 Given that so many posters here are in various stages of shock/recovery after a relationship has gone bad, you'd be searching among the walking wounded for good relationship material. I liken it to looking for good food in the dumpsters behind the grocery store instead of going in the store itself. You may find some salvageable stuff out back, but for the most part you won't want what's there. The other thing is this was never intended to be a dating/hook-up site. There are plenty of other places on the net that are set up for that purpose, and you'd be better off looking there. All that being said, I know of several folks who developed a relationship through their initial interactions on this site. Distance was a big factor for several of them, and in most cases ended things sooner rather than later because that issue could not be resolved. For a couple others the fact that one or the other or both wasn't really ready to be in a healthy relationship was their undoing. They came here looking for help and instead found distraction in flirtation/romance. But the underlying issues that brought them here hadn't been resolved...and that set up for some rather messy/exlosive/dramatic situations. In those cases, it not only ended...but it ended badly. There are 2 couples I'm aware of that seem to be doing ok from what little I know. Then again, I only know a very little bit of their stories, so they may or may not be fine. Link to comment
quietgrl Posted February 6, 2007 Share Posted February 6, 2007 LOL, well I've been away for a while, so I've missed some of your strong views. But strong views, supported by reason and evidence , are fine. Many men like a strong woman, so don't be afraid. Many men like strong women.where!!(looking around) Link to comment
sidehop Posted February 7, 2007 Share Posted February 7, 2007 Well if more forums, not just relationship forums had as mature & understanding members then I would've probably ended up marrying one of you! haha j/k but seriously. It's a nice place to be with people that can understand and relate. Things like that don't happen in this world often On a side note, I'm sure if my g/f was on here...I'd go after her LOL Link to comment
Cyprian Posted February 8, 2007 Share Posted February 8, 2007 I know of several folks who developed a relationship through their initial interactions on this site. Maybe you and I could "develop a relationship", shes2smart My night elf could date your WoW char as well...I wonder what server you are on Link to comment
quietgrl Posted February 8, 2007 Share Posted February 8, 2007 Maybe you and I could "develop a relationship", shes2smart My night elf could date your WoW char as well...I wonder what server you are on I think we might have a match Link to comment
shes2smart Posted February 8, 2007 Share Posted February 8, 2007 Maybe you and I could "develop a relationship", shes2smart My night elf could date your WoW char as well...I wonder what server you are on Madoran. Although the human warrior I am already married to might object. Link to comment
Cyprian Posted February 8, 2007 Share Posted February 8, 2007 Hey - we could have an affair. After all, we would know where to go to get some relationship advice... Link to comment
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