levie Posted February 17, 2018 Share Posted February 17, 2018 I put down different age in my dating profile- I look very young and I take of myself, somehow my age causes me anxiety - always and irrationally. I'm a late bloomer and haven't dated until 7 years ago. So I am 40, I put down 34, I look 32 like a model - still take part in runway shows. I saw this man whom I really like for two dates. And for third I suggested we go to an exhibition he mentioned. This is what he wrote me back: "Hi Levi. It's a good idea, but I already made plans with a friend to see that exhibit. Separately, I should ask you a question. From something you said the other day, I inferred that your profile might have understated your age. It's important to me to understand that. Please forgive me if the profile is right; but I decided I should just ask you." If I reply and say my profile is incorrect- he will be put off - I feel what he wrote .. he is rejecting me so I'd be in a better spot not to reply at all... I don't really know what to do.. he himself is 47.. so 7 years my senior, yet he may want someone a lot younger. Link to comment
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