Grinch2017 Posted February 9, 2018 Share Posted February 9, 2018 I have accepted me and my ex are finished he's moved on with an ex from his past. He says we argued loads to mutual friends; what he didn't consider or say to people that there was a lot of buiłt up anger on my side with him taking cocaine in front of me, name calling me a b"tch and c'nt on holiday where I was with his family, embarrassing me in front of his family shouting at me to go home, trying to cause a reaction from me and then telling his friends this is what he has to put up with, impatient with me looking for ingredients around Sainsbury's, pushy with me if I'm causing us to be late, controlling starting fights when I just wanted to put on the washing, not indroducing me to females whilst we're out him flirting, bringing druggy mates round in the middle of the night whilst I'm there with sex toys on show for them, sex toys then stolen by said mates, prioritising football/drinking over me. Making "jokes" that are hurtful, refusing to go out for some alone time on holiday, shouting at me for spilling water or a drink that I cleaned up. We were only together 5 months!! All the above happened in the last 6 weeks I just feel that his behaviour and telling people we were arguing is a get out clause! I think the only argument was I had to travel 1.5 hours to work the least he could do was drop me to the station on time but he would always get up late ( and work was noticing me always late). The only other argument I started was when he called me another girls name who was on holiday with us it's similar to my name but not my name so obvs I got annoyed I'm just sick of the whole thing and why some people's accounts of a relationship is so different!!!! Grrrr rant over 😒 Link to comment
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