SashaP111 Posted October 18, 2017 Share Posted October 18, 2017 My boyfriend and I have been together the better part of 7 years. We took a break around 5 years ago for roughly a year or 2 but found our way back to each other. In the past year we have been talking a lot about marriage and our future. I was ready to marry him and build my future with him up until he told me something that I think might break our relationship. About 4 months after our breakup he had a hook up with a random girl he didn't know. He got a call from her about 2 weeks later saying she was pregnant. Without getting into details he didn't believe it was possible for her to be pregnant and told her if she is she needs to get an abortion but thought she was lying so he blocked her number and never heard from her again. Years went by and he thought it was definitely a lie an attempt to get attention, etc. and over time he forgot about it. All this time we are getting closer and eventually start dating again and becoming closer growing our future together. I truly love him with all my heart but I don't know if I can live with his ghost. He then got served papers to take a paternity test and it was positive. He is now ordered to pay child support for the next 14 years. He says he doesn't want anything to do with the child or mother and I agree with him. I honestly wouldn't even think about being with him if there was going to be a child in the picture at this point. He feels horrible as he should for robbing me off the future I dreamed with him. After 7 years I can't imagine my life without him and I don't want to but this is haunting me and I feel like I don't deserve this. He wants to plan our future together and get married but I don't know if I can. I feel so cheated. I was supposed to be the one to have his children and now I feel as though I will never have the special future with him that I should have. I don't know if I can stay but I love him with all my heart . Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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