shamyprecious Posted February 3, 2013 Share Posted February 3, 2013 WE BEEN TOGETHER FOR A YEAR AND 8 MONTHS !!!! - I invited my boyfriend to go out to eat with me and my best friend for MY BIRTHDAY, But he goes .. He already made plans to go to his friends birthday party he says its like a gathering semi party or w/e . .. So I'm like okay? Your going to pick your friends over me I will go with my other friend that is available for me (Its this guys birthday as well) So I went out to eat with My best friend and this other boy (All three of us are friends ) I don't like this guy like that. Honestly..( He doesn't try anything on me either he is very respectful ) But this guy really likes ME... In fact he paid for my dinner & bought me a few gifts (With his birthday money) Isn't that crazy? Well my BOYFRIEND DOES NOT say happy birthday to me when I texted him in the morning ( He seem like he really didn't want to talk to me) ... But all this week he said he doesn't have a problem with it. So whats going on? Yesterday ( My birthday) at 7pm he goes "Btw Happy birthday" SHOULD I ASK WHY HE DID THAT? Or... SHOULD I LEAVE IT ALONE? [ I'm starting to wonder if he legit cares about my feelings..] ( Some back round) I want to ask him about it but im tired of showing I care about him so much and blah blah blah... I used to always want to talk on the phone Since he doesnt really want to (I stopped asking) .. Relation ship therapy time ( I stopped trying to do that...) he did that recently because HE wanted to which is unfair to me... IF I wanted therapy time it wouldn't happen ... The most problem in our relationship would be my jealousy and his lack of communication. Link to comment
Captain Obvious Posted February 3, 2013 Share Posted February 3, 2013 Im not saying your boyfriend was right but wouldnt you be upset if your boyfriend had a birthday meal with his best friend and a girl who he knew really liked him, who got him gifts? It sounds like he only came so you could get back at your boyfriend. Link to comment
lavenderdove Posted February 3, 2013 Share Posted February 3, 2013 So you've been together almost two years and he stiffs you on your birthday to go for a party/weekend for someone else's birthday? Sorry, he's just not that into you... i don't know your age or how serious you are, but i wouldn't be too serious about him because he is leaving all his options open and treating you like a casual date rather than a long term GF. If you want someone who is really interested in you, it sounds more like they guy who did accept your invitation for a birthday party. btw i don't think you were wrong to go out with other friends if your BF refused to go with you. In fact, it is probably a good idea to find a new BF if he can't be bothered with your birthday. Link to comment
Furbys Posted February 3, 2013 Share Posted February 3, 2013 My ex didn't bother with my birthday. What did i do? I left him. If my partner was not going to show that he cared especially on my birthday then i have no time for him. Im glad i did it. Link to comment
annie24 Posted February 3, 2013 Share Posted February 3, 2013 yeah, a guy who makes plans with others on his gf's birthday does not care about her. sorry. time to just break up and move on. Link to comment
itsallgrand Posted February 3, 2013 Share Posted February 3, 2013 I'm also having a hard time with the fact that he didn't make any attempt to see you on your birthday. Even if it was for part of the night, and then you all went to the other guy's party for a bit. Why make it divisive, when it could have been a big old party with everybody? Had you two been fighting prior? Link to comment
RedDress Posted February 3, 2013 Share Posted February 3, 2013 Did he invite you to that other party? If not, I would most definitely break up with him. Link to comment
agent1607307371 Posted February 3, 2013 Share Posted February 3, 2013 His lack of communication really just sounds like a lack of interest. Move on. Link to comment
DN Posted February 3, 2013 Share Posted February 3, 2013 I think he was wrong to ignore your birthday but making him jealous was not col either. Link to comment
DN Posted February 3, 2013 Share Posted February 3, 2013 This relationship has been under strain for some time: Link to comment
OptomisticGirl Posted February 3, 2013 Share Posted February 3, 2013 Wait, was this dinner actually on your birthday or the night before your birthday? Link to comment
HeartGoesOn Posted February 3, 2013 Share Posted February 3, 2013 It sounds like your relationship has run its course. I can see the "immaturity" (no offense) on both sides, and it's time to bow out sooner rather than later. (imo) Link to comment
oldenoughtoknow Posted February 12, 2013 Share Posted February 12, 2013 So you've been together for a year and 8 months. Has he been a jerk the entire time? He'd rather go to someone else's birthday party than yours, and he can't even send you a text until 7pm to wish you a happy birthday? That's not showing you much dedication or devotion, or interest, for that matter. I celebrate my dog's birthday, FCS. Why do you want this relationship to continue? BTW, what's this relationship therapy time? Link to comment
Heather Dawn Posted February 14, 2013 Share Posted February 14, 2013 Leave him, he's a jerk. Link to comment
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