parisian_pink Posted July 27, 2004 Share Posted July 27, 2004 I am a C-cup, and none of my boyfriends have ever complained about my breast size, but recently, my boyfriend has started to mention sometimes that he finds larger breasts attractive. Sometimes when I look on my computer's browser history, I see porno websites dedicated to huge breasts that he has been visiting. I don't mind him looking at porn, but lately it seems that he has been less and less satisfied with my breasts. He has even asked if I would consider taking some kind of pill to increase my bust, although I told him that I doubted that those "supplements" even work. Then I found information in the mail about breast augmentation surgery that he had requested in my name! I have never told him to change any physical feature about himself, nor have I ever expressed dissatisfaction over any of his attributes. I love him very much, but this is worrisome. Is it my responsibility to try to satisfy these urges? Should I look into any of these breast enlargement things? Is a c-cup really too small? My friends have told me that my breasts are large enough, and I get attention for them all the time now. Am I wrong? Link to comment
dotneter Posted July 27, 2004 Share Posted July 27, 2004 You know you could be -C cup (even though that's not possible... I think?), your boyfriend has no business requesting breast augmentation surgery paperwork in your name. That's just going too far. He needs to know that when he takes you, he takes you as you are. Guys like him are the reason there's a lot of beautiful women out there with terrible self esteem and an ex-boyfriend's name tattooed somewhere on their body. And by the way, I wouldn't worry too much about the breast size--C cup is plenty big 1 Link to comment
kate111 Posted July 27, 2004 Share Posted July 27, 2004 Your breasts are definitely not too small. Your boyfriend seems to have a fetish for huge breasts. I can't believe that your boyfriend actually sent off for info on breast augmentation without first consulting you. You need to let him know that a pill is not going to make them bigger and surgery is not without risks. You should also tell him that it hurts you to hear that he doesn't love you the way you are. If I was you, I would point out to him that you have never complained about his penis size. Maybe he should have surgery to increase the size of his penis too. Most men would be more than happy with your breast size. Don't have surgery juset for him unless you want it too and he pays for it! Link to comment
goddess23 Posted July 27, 2004 Share Posted July 27, 2004 hey. first of all let me just say, he is damn lucky to have a gf with C cup breasts. thats like perfect! and if he is dissatisfied to the point that he finds your body no longer arrousing then thats a problem. you should really ask him how he feels and if he would break up with a girl because of something like this. tell him that its really bothering you and see how he feels once and for all. Link to comment
niceG Posted July 27, 2004 Share Posted July 27, 2004 Some men really go for large breasts. I know that when I was in my 20's, bigger breasts were what I preferred. But now, I'm not concerned about breast size at all, but rather the aesthetic quality (ie: form and shape). Like, I find those Baywatch blondes' breasts too big and blobby. I wonder about your bf, though. Is he dating your breasts, or you? I find it disturbing. Some guys aren't as lucky as he is to have you. If he gets out of line, tell him you're putting up with his penis size, so why won't he put up with your beautiful c's? 1 Link to comment
little242 Posted July 27, 2004 Share Posted July 27, 2004 He's complaining about a C-cup?! There is nothing wrong with your breasts, I wish I were a C-cup, how ungrateful of him. Anything more would give you back problems and other problems down the road. If he's going to be that hung up on such a silly point rather than consider the whole picture then maybe you should tell him to hit the road. Link to comment
nturner199 Posted July 27, 2004 Share Posted July 27, 2004 Hey C-cups are a perfect size. Like others on this post have said your boyfriend seems to have a fetish for huge breasts. What you should do is tell your boyfriend that you are happy with your breasts and what your God gave you and you won't change them. If he is not satisfied by what you have to offer than the relationship can't go any further, make sure to instill in his brain the fact that people should not have to change there physical appearance for someone else, you should be happy for who you are and what you got. I know this maybe hard to do expecially since you love him so much, but you must confront him again about this.... and agian a C-cup is perfect you can't get any better than that, and if he isn't happy with them I know a million guys who would be (including myself hehehehe) Best luck to ya! 1 Link to comment
Azure13 Posted July 27, 2004 Share Posted July 27, 2004 Thats horrible.. trust me, a c cup is plenty big! I wish I was a c cup He shouldn't be complaining or trying to tell you to change your body like that.. he sounds like a creep to me, I would seriously wonder about why its such a big deal to him.. Link to comment
ComputerGuy Posted July 27, 2004 Share Posted July 27, 2004 C-cups are a nice size, and there is no reason to go changing your body. He should love you for who you are, whether he likes bigger breasts or not, is irrelevant. Link to comment
kate111 Posted July 27, 2004 Share Posted July 27, 2004 Personally I think that you would be crazy to change what you have now. Most men would choose c cup above all sizes. Most of the girls in Playboy etc have c cup breasts anyway. Im only tiny tiny flat as a boy but I have never found a shortage of men who have been attracted to me and planted many a kiss on my little bee stings! If he is so focused on this that he orders surgery info then I would say it is him that needs a shrink not you that needs surgery. Be proud of what you have and don't listen to him. Link to comment
JonnyG Posted July 27, 2004 Share Posted July 27, 2004 From what u have posted pink it sounds that u and your bf enjoy a great sex life and u allow him to do pretty much whatever he wants to please him. Seems he is expecting a bit much expecting perfection in everything Especially as like u said, u havent gone about complaining about him. Is he a bit domineering? I hope it doesnt get out of hand in all his fetishes and what he wants u to change about yourself. Don't do anything u don't want unless your certain u want to do it. Link to comment
parisian_pink Posted July 28, 2004 Author Share Posted July 28, 2004 I really appreciate all of the advice that you have given me. I hate to say anything bad about my boyfriend, because we really have a lot in common, and in most ways, he is really great to me. This issue has not been something that has been a problem throughout our relationship; it is something that seems to have sprouted up overnight, and I can't exactly figure out why. When we first started dating, he told me how beautiful he finds me and even told me specifically that he finds my breasts perfect. Because I figured that all of your advice couldn't be wrong (you all seemed pretty unanimous), I brought this issue up with him tonight. I told him that it hurt me that he was pressuring me to change, and I asked why he liked bigger breasts. He really didn't have much to say; he said it's just been something that he has been attracted to lately, and after I pretty much told him that I wasn't going to change myself for him and I don't think he should expect me to, he told me that he could see that I was hurt by it, and that he didn't mean to imply that he didn't find me attractive. Well, as for that, I can't see how he WOULDN'T see that it implied his disatisfaction, and it seemed like an easy-out to me, but I am at least glad that he apologized. Anyway, I guess I just want to say thanks for the thoughtful advice and words of encouragement. It really gave me the guts to say something to him about my hurt feelings. As for breaking up with him over this, I don't think I'll be going that far because otherwise, our relationship is great, but I will be a little less likely to take that crap in the future. Fortunately, though, I really think that after he realized it hurt me so much, he did feel badly about it. Again, much thanks. Link to comment
teenresearch Posted July 29, 2004 Share Posted July 29, 2004 Wow, he complains about C-cup? Let's just say I am way smaller than you and cannot see how one could want more than C anyway - talk about the backpain... Link to comment
Day_Walker Posted July 29, 2004 Share Posted July 29, 2004 The question you have to ask yourself is, if your bf is dissatisfied with your breast size does that mean that you are dissatisfied with them also?. If his opinion of your breasts has a direct effect on you it would seem that you have some doubt yourself or that you are confident enough about your breast size otherwise this would have been very simple for you. remember that breast size is relative it doesnt only have to do with the cup size but also the bust measurement for example a 32C (thats inches for those who think it might be metric) will look noticably different than a 40C. Just keep that concept in mind. Link to comment
jaiva Posted July 30, 2004 Share Posted July 30, 2004 Your breasts are on your body. If you don't want to get any augmentation surgery then don't. It's your decision, not your boyfriends. If he has a problem then that's his problem. You shouldn't change the way your body looks for him. I'd understand if it was a weight problem and he was concerned about your health but this would be a cosmetic surgery and I dont' think its necessary especially if you don't want to do it. Hope I helped. Jaiva Link to comment
hammett Posted July 30, 2004 Share Posted July 30, 2004 Just walk around talking about how much you love big penis'. Ask him if he is 100% the condom wont slip off or maybe even suggest that he use a smaller size. That'l teach him. Link to comment
ComputerGuy Posted July 30, 2004 Share Posted July 30, 2004 LOL, I say do that ^, he might be nicer after that. request some penis enlargement brochures, LOL Link to comment
under_the_pressure Posted July 30, 2004 Share Posted July 30, 2004 What Hammett said would be pretty funny and it would definitely teach him. Another thing, I'm only 14 and have a breast size of 38c. And nobody has ever complained except me about them being too big. and my boyfriend absolutely loves them. (lol) i mean if he cared about you he could look past something you can't control. this really irritated me reading this...because how could you not love C breasts. I don't like mine because I'm only 14 but they definitely have to fit you good and most guys would like them. grrr....lol...good luck. I agree with Hammett and ComputerGuy. under Link to comment
Thundermerwe Posted July 31, 2004 Share Posted July 31, 2004 Believe me, if you are 38c, you are big enough !!!! Big tits is a fantasy, your tits are for real !!! My god, maybe he wasnt breastfed enough as a baby and now he longs for a bit of tit !!!! Bigger tits is impractical anyway. They might be sexy when your younger, but they are gonna be a nuisance when your an older woman one day in the distant future !!! Link to comment
JinG Posted July 31, 2004 Share Posted July 31, 2004 DAMN 38C.. nice nice, my fattest friend dont got tits that big Link to comment
Mr.Smith Posted August 1, 2004 Share Posted August 1, 2004 Hey, why not just go ahead and upgrade the chassis a little? The rest of us guys would really love to oggle you and give you 1000% more attention than you already get. I think it would make him happy to see alot more strange guys trying to hit on you. Sarcasm. Link to comment
Rangoo Posted August 7, 2004 Share Posted August 7, 2004 My lady, as Frank Zappa once said......anything over a mouthfull is wasted.....So you are fine! Link to comment
black_magic Posted August 8, 2004 Share Posted August 8, 2004 Heya, i wouldnt worry you sound find to me, im a nice b cup, and well as i always say, im in proportion, anything different and id look false, sure ive got time to grow but im happy with my structure as i am, most men have a preferance but you have what you have right? i really wouldnt worry about it, and if it becomes a major issue about the porn or pictures then confront him, i know ive thought for a long time that as long as my boyfriend was happy that was great, until i guess i felt a little uncomfortable with him pleasuring himself with the thought of another girl when wed been together so long, which doesnt really bother me as much, but if thats the case or him enjoying other women just because they have bigger boobs then sort it out. i asked my boyfriend how he would feel if i was to be touching myself and getting off on the thought of another man and i can assure you he didnt feel good about it when he thought in depth about what was happening, still, that might not be the case, black magic Link to comment
sweet_butter_coke Posted August 8, 2004 Share Posted August 8, 2004 there seems to be absolutely no prob with ur size ur bf is just obsessed by large boobies.. a true relation is based on true love and what u are rather than any thing else.. one thing u can do is complain about his dick!! that will get him going... love and trust matters in a real relationship, not dicks or boobies.. lol Link to comment
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