greywolf Posted July 23, 2009 Share Posted July 23, 2009 this and stop blaming yourself. it coudl happen anywhere and it's not helping if you keep blaming yourself for it all. Yeah. It happened. It sucked. and now it's time to move on. Link to comment
Carnatic Posted July 23, 2009 Share Posted July 23, 2009 OK the stuff I've made could have serious health issues for anyone unlucky enough to have it in their eye. Alcohol English Mustard Devil's Ivy Leaves Dried Birdseye Chillies Jalapenos Chopped Fresh Red Chilli Chohula Chilli Sauce Detergent Olbas Oil Citalopram (its an anti-depressant I no longer need, give it to someone unused to it and they will have a guaranteed anxiety attack within hours) Lemons Lemon Juice Salt Caustic Soda Windmill super super spicy Baraduan Sauce hopefully Jenn will feel safer with this... I have a small secure spray bottle for it Link to comment
hers Posted July 23, 2009 Share Posted July 23, 2009 i don't think you have to load it up with that much stuff. just some lemon juice, water, and red pepper flakes should do the trick. Link to comment
Snoopy24 Posted July 23, 2009 Share Posted July 23, 2009 oh Jenn, i'm so sorry Thank god for the homeless man! and don't blame yourself Will. You shouldnt have left her alone...but it's not your fault at all! Just be there for her right now. Link to comment
Carnatic Posted July 23, 2009 Share Posted July 23, 2009 It's difficult, I shouldn't have left her, no matter what we were arguing about, it's so petty we've both forgotten. Now because of me she is traumatised... she fell asleep last night after 3 klonopin... I took 2 because they are her meds and I don't have the tolerance she does... but nothing. So I took 3 more, then went through the living room and lit up a bong... still nothing. So I spent the entire night ringing whatever services (police stations, council hotlines etc) were open 24hr trying to find out how you track down a homeless guy. But I was getting beyong stressed and low myself and ended up making 2 separate calls to the Samaritans. Now Jenn's asleep again, feeling traumatised but tired... and I'm desperate to do something to put right what has happened and make amends for my own failing. I pulled a sicky today, but wil have to go in tomorrow. Link to comment
greywolf Posted July 23, 2009 Share Posted July 23, 2009 OK the stuff I've made could have serious health issues for anyone unlucky enough to have it in their eye. Alcohol English Mustard Devil's Ivy Leaves Dried Birdseye Chillies Jalapenos Chopped Fresh Red Chilli Chohula Chilli Sauce Detergent Olbas Oil Citalopram (its an anti-depressant I no longer need, give it to someone unused to it and they will have a guaranteed anxiety attack within hours) Lemons Lemon Juice Salt Caustic Soda Windmill super super spicy Baraduan Sauce hopefully Jenn will feel safer with this... I have a small secure spray bottle for it Are you going to test it out? Link to comment
hers Posted July 23, 2009 Share Posted July 23, 2009 Will, you are making it worse for her. You are victimizing yourself, like it happened to you. STOP. It is making her feel worse! It happened to HER, and you need to support her. Hopping yourself up on drugs will do nothing. STOP. Chill out, chill out, chill out. You are making it worse for her. It happened to HER, not you. There's nothing you could've done, it could've happened anywhere, you didn't cause it. CHILL OUT and stop taking drugs to escape what happened, b/c you are making things worse. Link to comment
greywolf Posted July 23, 2009 Share Posted July 23, 2009 Will, hersmudders is right on this one. You're making it all about you, when it's not about you at all. Link to comment
hers Posted July 23, 2009 Share Posted July 23, 2009 It's like she has to take care of you, when really you need to take care of her. Making some random weapon potion won't do anything to support her. She needs your support, she needs you to be calm, she needs you to be her protector. Don't make it about you. Link to comment
metrogirl Posted July 23, 2009 Share Posted July 23, 2009 I agree whole heartedly. I'm sure you are feeling bad but truth is the lunatic could have done something to you if he was so hellbent on getting to Jenn anyway. You had no way of knowing what was going to happen. Getting high and hiding behind drugs isn't going to help the matter. In all honesty, I'm wondering if any of these people that you were dealing with last night on the phone were not as quick to help you because maybe they sensed you were high and maybe thought you were just talkin craziness. You can't think clearly when you are high. Link to comment
EQD Posted July 23, 2009 Share Posted July 23, 2009 MACE.. .the answer is always mace. i'm sorry this happened, but arm yourself. Link to comment
hers Posted July 23, 2009 Share Posted July 23, 2009 she can't have mace in the UK. i mailed some to her a while back when she was still in MI but she wouldnt have been able to get mace through customs. Link to comment
Scorpion Fury Posted July 23, 2009 Share Posted July 23, 2009 you can't have guns in England, can you? Link to comment
metrogirl Posted July 23, 2009 Share Posted July 23, 2009 you can't have guns in England, can you? The cops don't even carry guns! Link to comment
hers Posted July 23, 2009 Share Posted July 23, 2009 i know this sounds bad, but i can't picture a guy with a british accent being dangerous. maybe b/c i've never heard a scary one? not to make light of what happened of course. just something i was thinking about. Link to comment
EQD Posted July 23, 2009 Share Posted July 23, 2009 what in the hell is wrong with that country!? .. knife, butter knife, kitten!--i dont care. carry a claw hammer in a holster. i'd brain that creep if i got the chance. Link to comment
greywolf Posted July 23, 2009 Share Posted July 23, 2009 what in the hell is wrong with that country!? .. knife, butter knife, kitten!--i dont care. carry a claw hammer in a holster. i'd brain that creep if i got the chance. I know, right? If I was a criminal, I'd be pretty pleased knowing that all the law-abiding citizens around me had nothing to protect themselves with. Link to comment
Mavh25 Posted July 23, 2009 Share Posted July 23, 2009 We're bad cos we don't own guns?! lol Link to comment
EQD Posted July 23, 2009 Share Posted July 23, 2009 no, you all are bad because you dont let women have mace. MACE.... mmm, nothing bad or lethal about mace, prevents rape, and can be tasty on an omlet if you ask homer simpson. maceless? really? Link to comment
Mavh25 Posted July 23, 2009 Share Posted July 23, 2009 I agree, we should be able to have mace or something, not guns though. Link to comment
EQD Posted July 23, 2009 Share Posted July 23, 2009 yes. its now the job of all women in the UK to band together and demand mace that we american women use and not use here in the americas. i'll be watching CNN, so i'll know if you are banding or not. *taps foot, waiting* Link to comment
Carnatic Posted July 23, 2009 Share Posted July 23, 2009 I wasn't high last night... I wasn't trying to escape anything, I was just trying to get to sleep because Jenn was asleep... for the record the people I spoke to on the phone last night were very helpful and have given me some good leads Link to comment
Mavh25 Posted July 23, 2009 Share Posted July 23, 2009 I am banding, banding from afar! I say mace, thats in a bottle in the shape of a gun, that oughta get them crappin' their pants. Link to comment
dragon lady Posted July 23, 2009 Share Posted July 23, 2009 I actually feel very uneasy knowing that the majority of my neighbors probably own guns, especially knowing the statistics of accidental shootings. Where I'm originally from EVERY self defense weapon is illegal. Even things that are not actually weapons (poles, sticks, forks etc.) are illegal if they are used as a weapon. I'm not sure I think this is a good idea. Guns, absolutely, but mace? If I had been given a can of mace growing up, I could have gotten myself out of a lot of strife. Link to comment
DN Posted July 23, 2009 Share Posted July 23, 2009 Moderator Note: Do not turn this thread into a political debate about gun law and the use of weapons in different countries or this thread will be closed. Link to comment
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