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Erection and Kissing Poll (FOR GIRLS)
Mavh25 replied to ShroudedSorrow24's topic in Relationship Advice
Whats an erection?! lolol If a guy did that I'd be chuffed =) chuffed = English for happy lol -
I'm Not The Man You Think I Am.
Mavh25 replied to Dagless's topic in Poetry, Prose, Art & Photography's Topics
Its so sadly beautiful Dagless, You're a great writer. -
I agree with Lady, plus it sounds like your friend slept with him purely for financial help to be honest.. how disapointed she was she did'nt get a bit of a pay out.... I think the wife has a right to know, but I don't think she'd believe an anonymous letter. and even if she did for a second her husband would find some wormy reason out of it and she, alone in this will probably fall for it.
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I really really like this, So good.
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Thanks for you for showing us this KG, I really like it XxX
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Amy Lee did'nt write this song, Moody did, even the piano music Its a lovely song, and Amy sings it perfectly, live and on the album
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Bareing in mind I'm a brit, what moisturisers are ok for that area? and how soon after the waxing OR shaving should you do it
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I always wondered what it'd be like to kiss a girl LOL I kissed a gay guy once LOL does that count?
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Woah. Brilliant
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THE NO CONTACT CHALLENGE - SuperDave71
Mavh25 replied to SuperDave71's topic in Getting Back Together
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I have read all your responses to the OP and my goodness... you did TOTALLY miss her point. All she was saying was that, yeah men watch porn so what? that was so far from her point, she knows not all men do it and she did not once say she was bothered by that in particular, she was just saying alot of the men she has spoken to, and quite alot on TV say that doing those kinds of things is "normal" and what guys do..... and woman are starting to become naive and believe this, when really...... they should have enough respect for themselves and say "hang on, no its not" and not accept it if its not something they are comfortable with. I believe
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I talked about this with a male friend and he did the usual "we're guys, we all do it" stuff. Then i asked what is it about it, thats so attractive, we went onto a few things and one of the main things for him was that he LOVED to see how angry his girlfriend gets at it, cos it makes him see how jealous she is over him.. and he likes it... cos he knows she wants him? what the heck lol i was like.... just get A POSTER!!
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haha, bless. Im glad you felt you could speak to her about it, im really happy you kind of sorted it out. If she still feels insecure and mentions it give her a hug n kiss and say ya know basically compliment her. Good luck hehe
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long distance relationship
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Well first things first, he told you about it, he did not want any secrets obviously, he could just as easily not told you and you would never have known right? I think you need to give it some time. You need to try and think that maybe he really does just want a friend right now, and its her
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Don't get me wrong Helpme2 we are not saying what you did is a crime, but like i said before, maybe you should try and figure out exactly what it is that made yuo feel like doing this again after all this time. How did you stop yourself the first time and overcome it for those years? you need to think of your children and your husband, which obviously you have been. Just bare them in mind everytime you feel that urge, they need you and love you
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Exactly...
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how were you not encouraging it? thats exactly what you did, maybe you did not so much as say "yeah go for it" jeez, whatever im here to help helpme2
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i sincerely doubt that she would of hurt someone else, i was in a mess like this for a while and the last thing i wanted was for someone to come and give me the advice to do it but do it properly.. sorry but i just dont agree, i guess maybe im wrong to you
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Dont apologise, its exactly what this site is for and we are all here to listen otherwise we would not be here. Ok, you had a relapse, its not too big a deal, if you can have a relapse and pick yourself back up it shows exactly what a strong person you are, the fact that you can share this with your husband is brilliant, alot of people would not be able to. So long as he understands, you dont need to do this alone, like i said, try not to sit at home alone alot. What is it exactly that gets you so upset that you feel the need to do this? do you actually know?
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Your not a failure whatsoever Helpme2 thats something you need to realise before you do fall deeper again. Things are totaly sent to try us, you need to address what exactly made you feel this way tonight, why you did it, what made you give up for that moment. and you need to, if possible just avoid the situation, it sounds like you relapsed while you were alone, maybe you should try your hardest to get out with friends, in an environment where you know it is impossible to do this, or with your children simply at the park if they are young, or shopping if they are teen
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But she had not done it for years, and you just basically told her to go do it properly, yeah she really wanted to, but after all that hard work? I'm not saying feel guilty but if it was something that was meant to be done we all would, and its not, yeah better safe than sorry as they say, but goodness. I'm kind of shocked slightly. Helpme2, your children were on their way home they should be what you think about, you should worry about them
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I've always wondered, Sail, how the heck dya give someone oral sex while driving? a guy i mean. I always wanted to, but he never seemed in the right position to get it out comfortably and easily, and if we stopped at traffic lights... lol ermmmm ya know? any ideas?
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Well it is a self esteem and insecurity issue, wether you say your current gf is better looking than your other we will still ALWAYS think you're comparing us in your mind. The fact that you did not sleep with this girl ebcause you were stillthinking of your ex, to me personally that would mean alot to me to hear that, but at the same time you would have to word it PERFECTLY to get the relaxed response from her so maybe its just too much hassle to do that. Depending on ehr personality she may say "so you were thinking about sleeping with her?" believe me... woman can twist things lol. I woulld'nt do the ignore her with your girlfriend, talk to her without, because if your current gf finds out she will wonder what you're hiding, and plus is just really cruel to the other girl. Ya actually need to say to your gf, look, i'm not a rude person, Im not going to be horrible and ignore this girl if shes involved in a conversation. But i understand how you feel, so i wont make a point of doing so, i didn't want to and was'nt going to anyway" let her know that you see her point of view
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Yeah but you have to understand her point of view, no girl likes to see the girl that their partner has slept with, we always wonder if you compare us, even when we HAVENT seen them, and she has and maybe she feels insecure, she may even feel insignificant and like shes in competition. I do think that in order to clear this up you DO need to tell your girlfriend you will stay away from this girl. Otherwise it will go on and on and on, but dont lie to her just dont tell her if you see her. Ya should consider just trying to avoid that girl for a while though, until it all settles.