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sounds good .. i will try it .. and hope it will make her feel good .. cause she has exams now.. and will be free after 30 days .. and don't know what to do in these 30 days .. i saw an essay that says .. when ur date is busy and not in the mood try to stay away from her ... don't know ... but i will send her a card ..

hi .. i wana know how to cyber sex with my GF .. man i tried alot of stuff .. but didn't work out .. i wana know how to start it and make her feel good about it ... please help if you know some tips or advice .. thanx

hi .. I am writing in this forum as a last resort, because I don't know what else to do. I have been married for 10 years and have 3 kids, and I think the only reason I and my wife are still together is because of the children. There are two major problems with my marriage, thereforeeee I hope someone can advise me on both issues. Here is my story..Since we have been married we have had big financial problems, I work very hard but still I run into financial difficulties, thereforeeee we have arguments atleast once a month. The problem with my wife is her ego controls her emotions, and even when she is wrong she never says sorry or makes up after the argument, I have to go and makeup to her. She always makes me look like the bad guy in front of people, and is very direspectful in front of people. One example after we were married 2 years she had gone to India to visit here family. I got very sick and was admitted to the hospital for 3 days. I didn't want to tell her so she wouldn't get worried. After a few days I told her and she got very upset with me for not telling her earlier, and hung up the phone on me. After that everytime I called her she would have a family member or a servant answer the phone and tell me she couldn't talk to me. Finally after a week she started talking. Now 3 years ago she got very angry with me for some petty stuff, and I very strongly feel 99% that she was having an affair. All the signs were there, example she would pick a fight with me for no reason on weekends and go away for hours and when she returned she would not be able to look into my eyes, also everytime I would try to kiss her she would turn her head away. Sexually I had to ask her although she never refused, but wouldn't let me kiss her. There is more to it, but I have been killing inside, because I have no proof, and she denies it. But the way things were I know she was seeing someone else. As a result I have high blood pressure and my health has rapidly declined. Last month my doctor told me not to take anymore stress since it would be dangerous for me. I explained to her that no matter how angry she was that she should try to treat me nicely. Well three weeks ago again some petty stuff and it was partly my fault, we havent been talking. As a result my health has been on a rapid decline. She knows how sick I am but her ego wont allow her to makeup with me. Today I had to go to the doctor and after doing some tests he determined that in the range from 1-10 10 being the highest my test showed that my risk of a heart attack is 9.5 I don't know what to do. How can I ask her to forgive me when I didnt do anything wrong and she knows that I am very sick, but still she is not talking to me. Seems like she wants me to die. So please help me with some advise as to what I should do. -------- It's my friends story .. please help !!!

hey ... wooooow ... what you siad was right ... shez not sure about how i feel about her ... thanx ..

hi... i knew this gurl for like 6 months .... and she came up to me and told me that she loves me so much ... after that ... she keept calling me and stuff ... but before 1 month she stoped .... so i called her and i asked her ... what is wrong with you .. why you stoped calling me ? she said: why shall i call? so i told her .. i think you don't love me any more? she said that she will stay in love with me for ever ... and will do anything for me ... so from that day ... since she told me " why shall i call " ... i ignored her .. and did not talk to her ....` but sometimes i feel she is killing her free time with me .... and sometimes i feel it is true love .... i really don't know .. am lost .. please help me !!!

thanks kel ... i will try to make it clear next time thanx

If the kid you are with is interested in you, he will exhibit certain signs of attraction and arousal. Each little mannerism, for example the sparkle in his eyes, his tone of voice, his body language should be taken into consideration when trying to decide if the kid you are with is genuinely interested in you. Signs Of Arousal In Your Case: 1- he will always be the sma e with u infront of anybody even his family ... 2- stoping the things he do with you means that he knows that he's doing something wrong and his family don't like it .... 3- ask him to stop what he is doing .... and see his reaction ... sorry for the english

hey ... simply ... it is very nice to know his family ... but the point that i think what makes u a bit worried is that they don't talk to u much and they did not appear what you thought they are ..... basically ... about the first point ... it might be like that ... they don't like talking much .... but the important part that they answer your questions .. and about the second part ... all the people do the same ... because ... it shows how much that ur partner loves you .... he wants u to feel good and happy all the time when u r with him .... and talk to him about it ..... tell him .. sorry about my english

The famous three words we never hear enough of in our life. Throughout our life span we keep looking, waiting and hoping for something to take us, or lead us, to our true love. Have you ever wondered where we can find love? . What really is this word "Love" that we keep repeating to that someone special in our lives? How many times do you tell your partner "I love you"? Do you really mean it, or do you just like to hear yourself speak? Or, is it just being said because it is part of the vocabulary that your partner likes to hear, or that helps make them feel secure about themselves. So what's love in the first place? What does love mean to you? Where can we find it? Before looking for answers, we need to establish things ourselves and understand the meaning of the word "LOVE". Love, in my point of view, is a flow of energy between two people that can bring awareness of their existence on this planet together, and this helps their relationship, and the harmony between them, to grow. If love is a flow of energy, basically it is not costing you anything so why do we hold ourselves back from truly sharing that love with someone else. Vulnerability, security, or maybe fears prevent us, but how hard are we really trying to achieve "true love"? Love is already in your own backyard and we seem to have a hard time accepting this. To be able to accept love we need to learn how to give it in the first place. Love already exists in our "being" as humans share the most precious, intimate and secret jewel that is in our soul, our growth, and our spirit. How much do you love yourself, or accept yourself for who you are? I am not introducing this question in an egoistic or selfish way. The amount of love you attract is really a reflection of the amount you give to others. We mirror what is already in us. You cannot get love from what you don't have in yourself in the first place. The amount of time and effort you are willing to put into accepting, or inviting, true love to yourself is the same amount you are already accepting or giving to yourself? Are you ready to be in love? Ask yourself this question. Let go of your pride and fears, and invest in yourself. Think about it! Now again comes the question - do you really mean it when you say to someone that you love him or her? Of course in my opinion, you need to distinguish between real love and infatuation. A person that showers his or her partner with material things or gifts usually has two motives. First, he or she is substituting one thing they can't offer to their partner (love) and second he or she is hiding something from their partner (finding love somewhere else). Where am I going with this, just to say that love has no value attached to it? Either you give love from your soul or you don't. Let's just stop kidding ourselves by living a fancy unreal life. Love has no monetary value attached to it otherwise it would not be love. Love is a flow of energy so how can we place a price on it. Until you find true love in your own heart, embrace every moment and enjoy your exploration of life and what it can bring to you. Remember, love someone for who they are and not for the way you want them to be. Appreciate them as human souls. Happy discovery!!

hey ... all what you have to do is that .... 1- don't talk about it ... and try to make her start .. because if she did not start with it .. that means she don't remmber or even tring to hide it ... and you don't want to force the girl to do anything ... 2- stay close to her ... she will feel that you really want her ... if she remmbers .... 3- girls like to go out with confedint men .. so don't show her that your all over her .... give her time and space ... 4- if she did not talk about it ... try to open the subject but in a away that shows you can't remmber what happen that day ... but you remmber it was something nice ... and you really enjoyed the time with her ... sorry about my english .... hope that will help you ... thanx

Okay, so you're not a petal pulling kind of guy. This list will help clarify whether or not she truly loves you without having to pluck a daisy. See which of those below apply to your situation to determine her true feelings! If it turns out that she loves you, don't blow it!! 1- She loves you ... She shows interest in your work or hobby " She may not have an avid interest in the minute details of the circuit board of the latest super computer. She may not understand the almost religious nature of the deep rumble of a true Harley-Davidson. But she will enthusiastically listen to you talk about it for hours and is even willing to accompany you to all the conventions that come to town. " 2- She loves you not ... She never returns your calls. 3- She loves you not ... If she's not ever returning a single message you leave at work or at home; or she recently invested in a caller ID unit and suddenly you can never reach her by phone, give it up. This is not a subtle hint that her life is super busy, but rather, a blatant effort to avoid you. 4- She loves you ... She brags about you to her family & friends 5- She loves you ... How often do you hear her bragging about you, your job, your talents, your ideas? Do others mention that she was just saying the other day how wonderful you are? 6- She loves you not ... She avoids public places with you. 7- She loves you ... Does she try to make your good, honest job sound more important to others? Does she wear flats only when she's out with you to give the impression to others that you are closer in height? Does she never let you select your own clothes for dates, not even occasionally? Either you're a really tacky dresser or she's not quite comfortable with people knowing the real you. 8- She loves you ... She is willing to share you with your favorite pastime 9- She loves you ... She may not be a sports fanatic but she's perfectly willing to let you go off and enjoy games with your friends. She'll even join you every now and again to cheer on your favorite team. 10- She loves you not ... She says "Let's just be friends". 11- She loves you not ... If you get that infamous line - "I just want to be friends" - you are dead in the water. What she's really saying is - "I have absolutely no lust for you and am horrified at the thought of swapping spit let alone anything else with you, but hey, if I'm bored on a Saturday night, sure, you can treat me to a movie and dinner. Oh, and don't pick me up late, you loser." 12- She loves you ... She makes an effort to like your friends 13- She loves you ... She may have to grit her teeth but she will make a concerted effort to like your friends because they're important to you. 14- She loves you not ... She is an avid follower of "The Rules". 15- She loves you not ... If she follows "The Rules" with a zealot's fervor, beware. This is manipulation at it's absolute finest. 16- She loves you ... She is always there for you 17- She loves you ... No matter what's going on in your life (or hers), she encourages your dreams, supports your decisions and gives you great backrubs. 18- She loves you not ... She is a material girl. 19- She loves you not ... If she runs out at the mere thought that your money might be running out, say good riddance and let her go. You're better off without her. 20- She loves you ... She says so, even after you've acted like a complete jerk!