KymQ

Yeah, I see it now. Break out the fly paper cause all the girls will be sticking to this Mac. You're young, and I won't be too hard on you. But a reality check is in order. Girls don't give a crap about nice clothes, pretty hair cuts, or "nadazz chains." In highscool the rules are a bit different but not too off from real life. 1. Girls like guys that are athletic and in shape. Just like we like girls that take care of themselves they like us to look good to. So work out when you can. 2. Talk to as many girls as possible. The more you communicate the better you will get at understanding the opposite sex. 3. Don't be a cocky idiot. You are in the process of learning about yourself but you won't learn anything if you think you know everything. Take care home boy

I laugh when girls ask how to turn guys on or get them interested, it's easy. JUST SHOW UP! be there, be nice and show all those qualities that made him love you in the first place. Our brains are already wire to be turned on and as long as you're interested and happy that will make him happy aswell.

The worst thing you can do at this point is get even more involved with her. Why? Because if you fall for this girl but then leave for school you will : 1. have a miserable time in your first semester being lonely and longing for her. 2. Instead of going out and looking for girls on campus you will be jerking off in your dorm room. 3. She will probably find someone else while you're away and that will really make you nuts So take my advise and let this one go. If possible stay friends and maybe when you get back you can contact her next summer.

It sounds like you don't have much experience So I'll give it to you straight. You have to relax. Girls like attention not stalkers. You like this girl right? So if you know she doesn't like messy ,F'd up, crack house decore then clean your place and make it so she'll be impressed. The next time she calls, tell her you have something special for her and invite her over. Girls like surprises, so make dinner or buy some wine. Don't go overboard though, and act like a gentleman. Girls go for mature, clean and relaxed guys. How you keep your room says a lot about your state of mind. So start there.

I have an Idea, if Joe doesn't notice you, why don't you sleep with Joe's brother and if Joe's brother approves then maybe he'll let Joe know. or maybe you can just go right up to Joe himself and Let him in on your secret crush. PS. Guys like mini skirts

I had closure last night with my ex girlfriend. It was in a club and we only talked for a few minutes, but is was enough to make me realise it was finally over with no hope of return. She's happy with her new lover and I was happy for her. Her not speeking to me was eating me up inside and I wanted to know what she thought of me. She didn't say anything outright, but just talking a little about what we had ended my frustrations. I still feel lovesick but atleast I have some answers now.

I have news for you, she never loved you or was seriousely attached to you. I know you don't want to believe that, no one ever does. The fact that she got over you in 2 days says it all. No amount of pleading or confessions of love will bring her back at this point. In fact she probably loses respect for you everytime you cry or beg for her forgiveness. I'm just being blunt with you because I went through this already and I know this type of girl. She doesn't attach herself to men who are so infatuated with her. It's unfortunate, but we long for the ones that don't long for us. After all, who is ever really attracted to someone who is too emotionally clingy or easily manipulated. Advice: This was your first love and it's the roughest one you will ever go through. I won't lie to you, it only gets worse before it gets better. Eventually time will help you forget but you will always be searching for a girl with her qualities. It's possible she might come back to you when she's lonely or has no one to turn to, but don't count on it. If she doesn't then your only chance of her noticing you again is if you act like you don't care. the less control she has over you the more attractive you will seem.

Confessions of a Loser My ex-girlfriend was the perfect girl for me, a young 18 y/o ballet dancer with a great body and a very pretty face as well. She was extremely intelligent and easy to talk to but the best part was that she loved sex, almost more than I did. She wanted to do it before and after we went out even if my parents were home! She wasn't a slut or anything, she was just very sexual but still classy at the same time. Needless to say I fell in love with her right away and I think I made the mistake of telling her the dreaded "three words" way too soon in our relationship. That was my first mistake. She was the first girl I felt that way about; somehow I knew it was true. Even though she eventually told me she loved me too I always felt that the words were somehow hollow and she only said them to make me feel better and she never said them before I did. She told me that she had sex with eight other guys before me and all her relationships ended badly. She even told me exactly how she acted with all of them giving me some clue (even though I was too blind to listen) what she would do if we ever broke up. So I was being played by an 18 year old girl But I didn't care, I thought what we had was so different, that I was special and I would keep her happy and she would love me forever. Haha. What an idiot I was. What a Jerk. Now that I think about it I loved her even more because she wasn't so attached to me, never bringing up relationship talk or getting clingy. On the contrary, I was the one being clingy and acting like a chick! What a fool I was. When she said she had to go away for college I was left gasping and unsure what to do. When the months started passing by I was desperate to see her. She begged me to fly up to her and I was willing to spend all my savings just to see her again so I spent over $500 to go to her college during her spring break . IDIOT! When I got there it turns out that she had some kind of "female problem" and we wouldn't be able to make love. In fact she was very cold and emotionless with me and she hated the fact that she was there and couldn't leave; so I was stuck there, she was stuck there and we couldn't even have sex to boot. On the second day she decided to break up with me and I flipped out. I bought a whole bottle of rum and got super drunk and I became a raving lunatic on the street throwing whatever I could pick up and eventually vomiting uncontrollably. I couldn't believe she dragged me all the way up there just to break up with me! Bitch! She toyed with my head until the last day I was there when she flipped around completely and was super sweet and incredibly loving. Everything was the way I dreamed it could be, she was smiling the whole day and we laughed at everything. We even had amazing sex that last night. When I got back home I didn't know what to feel and when she called me I was sort of upset. Except for that last day I basically threw away all my money for her and a bad time. She stopped talking to me after that conversation. I tried desperately to apologize but she wouldn't speak to me at all, completely shutting me out. She wouldn't answer my phone calls or emails. I couldn't believe she would cut me off so suddenly. I was confused and heart broken. Deep down I don't think she ever loved me and after the break up I know this is probably the truth. Well, since then (11 months) I still think about her and although I've been with 6 other girls since the pain hasn't completely gone. None of them seem to match up to my Emily. She was the perfect girl. I can only hope to find a mediocre substitute. So now, after all this time she has contacted me back via email telling me she's been with another guy and she's in love with him. I almost threw up while reading it. Questions keep popping into my head. Who is he? What does he have that I don't? Did she ever have any feelings for me at all? But I know these questions are pointless and I should move on with my life. I try not to fantasize about her and I keep busy with work and other girls. Love sucks.