Anscorpion11

i feel sorry for you john...i dont know this gurl personally but i think she is cheating on you..if she is not cheating she has lost interest in you and scared to tell you or she wants you tere to fall on to...she seems like she has no interest in you and tere is someting goin on with tha maintenance guy it seems...i would recommend you to tell her clearly that if she is not gonna get it togeter the relationship is over..give her a week to think dont go near her or talk to her..tell her to think about it...after the week ask her why she is acting like that and if she wants to continue the relationship......MOST LIKELY she will say yes.....tell her tat if she dont cooperate to make the relationship work is over.....and if you see noting has changed like if she is still acting weird with tha maintenance guy and distant..no intimacy...tell her is over and be FIRM..life is to short to be playing games like tat..dont give her more chances....even thou you love her..try to forget her cut contact wit her..see oter ppl..and work hard to make your financial deal better.............IF SHE DONT CHANGE.........END IT...DEFINETELY.........well i hope everyting gets better...bye

give her time...tell her you are gonna give her time to think...get away from her a bit..give her space..to think..dont call her or see her for a few days,at least 2 weeks..hopefully she had time to think and look deep in herself to find her true sexuality..maybe she is a lesbian and afraid to recognize it..or she is going thru a phase and is confused.....give her time

dont worry gurl... a lot of ppl try to find ways to make sex fun. Many ppl find different ways to do tere thing.. your fine... many ppl be doing different things to get ta pleasure tey seeking... he must really have a big one cause usually i believed it shunk...so have fun and i dont think is dangerous... keep doing your thing..

if i were you i would go out to parties and oter places even if i dont want to ... i might end up meeting new friends..and i would also make a great efort to get back ta friends i lose... if you try to do things you like you might forget about ta feeling of loneliness also try to be around alot of ppl..remember tat loneliness is all in ta head... go out and party...hope you find a solution to your lonelinness and God bless

you young as hell....you are at ta age were you should be experiencing...be honest wit her tell her you care for her bout you need some space not cause you dont like her bout because you need time off.. still talk to her hang out wit her.. act like her friend only...and have fun and look around... have contact wit her thou..

you need to stop... you taking value off yourself and not giving yourself value...this gurl is playing wit you and you letting her...you need to stop dating her and going out wit her. it seems to me like she only wants you for intimacy she is confused, forget tat finding herself b.s...she is not sure what sex she preffers and in case her "im looking for myself" fails shell have you to fall back on... she has you around her pinky and does as she pleases wit you...you need to find a bangin,STABLE, gurl tat dont give you so much stress. she dont love you or care for you, cause if she did she wont be putting you thu all this...she realizes this is hurting you but still does it...im telling you.... she wasting your time ...value yourself and respect yourself and let her go...dont have any contact wit her...you cannot be her friend cause shell try to get on you...she wants to hurt you by telling you tat she going out wit this gurl friday and lettign you know bout her dates... find someone stable and not confused and tat values you as a man and respects you...forget abot tat gurl