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I think you should have taken a little bit of control and approaced him on a friendly basis and asked him out, your biggest mistake was telling the wench how you feel towards this guy, if a female knows another female has the hots for the same guy that usually makes her want him more.

I have posted a few times telling about how loenly I have been feeling and ya know what, I am actually feeling great again!! I no longer have a hateful bf and I am again friends with my old friends! I have been working out daily and I feel fab!! I want to thank of you who have offered advice it has helped me out greatly!!! If there is anyone in the San Diego area who feel like I used to feel, just email me and we can hang out and forget our crap!!!

I have been broken up from my bf of 3 yrs for at least 2 months now and I am still depressed and can't shake the feeling of loneliness. My old friends are no longer there because I put them off for the entirety of our relationship, I try to keep busy but nothing works. I hate this! Any advice?

Here's one for you! I met this awesome man and we have been talking ofr awhile, he lives in L.A. and I live in San Diego. We will call him "Andy", well Andy decides to visit me yesterday so I took the day off to be with him, he comes to my house at 11:00 AM and we went to lunch and hung out and then went to my house, well at about 3:30 PM, my front door bursts open and it is my ex!! I was in shock, my ex slams the door and then re-enters and saya he wants all stuff he left at my house, we lived together for 2 years and had been split up for about 3 months and he had already taken everything, so I handed him whatever he had left and then he turns to "Andy" and says to him oh yeah you must be "Andy" I have heard a lot about you, and just for you don't trust her! I could not believe he said that! So my ex slams the door and leaves and so I turn "Andy" and try to explain the situation but he doesn't even look at me and he just leaves and he will not talk to me or anything. I feel horrible that this happened I don't feel bad for my ex but I feel bad for "Andy". I was honest with both guys, I had told my ex to back off because I met somone new and I also told "Andy" about my ex and how he was trying to interfere. Now I am all alone and the "Andy" won't talk to me. What should I do, I never lied to anyone but in the end I still look like the a-hole! I need some advice from men! HELP!! I wrote an email to "Andy" letting him know how I feel and that I choose him and that there is nothing between my Ex and I.

I am in search of anyone who wants to hang out and just be happy! I live in San Diego CA, I am 24 and a female who just broke up with live in BF of 3 yrs. If you're intrested just email me.

Just wanted to say thanks to everyone who shares their stories, I feel empowered from all the stories and advice from everyone. I just broke up with my BF of almost three years and i am having a hard time dealing with being alone and I am learing the difference of being alone and being lonely. So thank you to all who share. This site has been better than anything! Thanks again!