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  1. uppercut
    Yeah... To be honest, I could care less who's she's with or what she's doing - I'm over her. Just feels like by me moving, I lose. Oh well, I was going to leave before summer anyways.
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    If you don't know her well, be sure to buckle your condoms.
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    I was doing great after 7 weeks of NC, but of course that all had to end. I just got an email a few days ago from my ex's new boyfriend... It looks like things worked out between her and this guy (who she cheated on me with), and they're going to be renting a place directly accross the street from me in a couple weeks. This wouldn't really bother me, except for the fact that this girl has a restraining order against me and as stupid as it sounds, I'm probably going to be the one that has to leave. The restraining order thing is an embarrassing story... Basically it was an isolated incident where I went into her place, (the place we once shared), and took back my laptop that she was refusing to give me back after the breakup. She blew it out of proportion, but I got screwed by it in the end. Anyways, bull * * * *, right?
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    Sorry. You should send her an email. This way you won't accidentally say something you will regret. Make sure you don't say anything you'll regret in that email, too.
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    Send her roses, and a short poem.
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    Hahahaha.... Isn't it funny how things happen? I started this thread yesterday, and i guess i should have touched wood after... The ex just called me about tax forms she thinks were mailed to me... We got it sorted out and now i realize that i'm totally over her, which is awesome. Still though, 7 weeks all down the drain!
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    Like I'm sure many people on here are doing right now, I held feelings for my ex and secretly grasped hope that we would get back together; this continued for about 4 weeks after the breakup. Those times were rough, because I hadn't started NC. Keeping contact just gives you a reason to think about the person, and in most cases this is a bad thing. Now I'm 7 weeks NC and I hardly think about the girl, and I feel a lot better. NC is definitely your shortest route to getting over an ex. The sooner you start, the sooner you're better!
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    Like Thunderforce and Ellie said, the best thing you can do is spend less time alone in an environment you're bored with. Although it seems hard at first, go out with friends more and start building those relationships stronger. Plan a vacation. When you get home from it, you will realize that you're missing out on a lot of life while dwelling on a relationship that is over. This will pass, and on the other side you'll be happier than ever. Take care.
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    In quebec school finishes at grade 11. She moved in because she had been living in an orchard prior, and this was our only chance at being together... Perhaps it was a little rushed, but for 2 months things were great.
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    Alright shik - most on here are american or from elsewhere, so they dont understand canadian geography. To those that do, i apologize! Im from BC, shes from Quebec. She cheated on me with the guy she was with (although they were on the outs) when we met. She says i am a far better boyfriend, but that he is a better lover. Mind games or what?!? What am i to do. I know she still loves me. I was doing great, and now im in the * * * *ter.
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    Long story short: I was together with a girl for 5 months. We met on my side of the world, and we moved in together, but inevetably, she (17, and i 21), could not live away from her friends and family. She went home for awhile, and i dropped everything (stupidly?) and went and visited her. We had a great time, and then i came home. The night before she came back, she slept with her ex, who was from the same home town as her. She came back for 2 days, then went back home, saying that she could not be away from her friends and family. She admitted to cheating on me with her ex. She texted me a week ago saying "i wish you were here with me". After a series of emotion-laden emails, she said that she wants me, but that our distance from each other keeps us apart. "I wish you didn't live in BC". What the hell am i to do? This girl betrayed me, but in the end i find myself foregiving her and almost considering traveling 2500 kilometers just to have her again. My friends think im an idiot, and so do i - its just these damn emotions! I wish i were stronger, but am not. I guess playing things by ear is best, but as everyone on this site knows, time is a killer! Thanks for any advice!
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    I've been going through something somewhat similar lately, and i know that you feel like there must be something you can do to get her through it... The fact is though, that it's her that needs to figure it out. I know that this may seem almost impossible, and believe me, i did to, but the only thing you can really do is live your own life, hang out with friends, and put the ball in her court. Once she sees that you're not constantly chasing after her, she will likely realize that she needs you, and will do whatever it takes to get you back. Or, it might not work out that way... Remember though - its not you with the problem right now, so try your best not to make it yours. Best of luck!
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    Well you and I are in a similar situation... Our friends have the benefit of seeing the situation without any emotional connection, and as hard as it is, it's probably time to listen to them. My friends have told me time and time again "you're far better than her, you can get far better, just forget it." I think it's all the memories of the good times together that make it so difficult. I'm sure you can see that your girl is really the one with the problems, but it's like you're only looking at the good. (at least that's what I think I'm doing.) Anyways, it sounds to me, someone with no involvement at all, that the girl you're talking about does have problems. Maybe she is having trouble moving on, and wants to be the first to do so, but in the mean time wants to keep you second guessing the situation so that she doesnt have to bare the pain of seeing you move on while she is stuck alone. If I were you (and I know "if i were you" statements are almost useless, because noone else knows what you are feeling), I would try my very best to just forget her in any context other than "just friend", and move on. You will find someone else in a short order that wont play these viscious games with your mind, and you will be a hell of a lot happier!! Even better, play the game back at her for awhile. She's in the power situation right now, but it really doesn't have to be that way! I hope that you can see it my way, but as I know, it's extremely difficult. I've found that any words of encouragement help a great deal, and hopefully tomorrow you'll feel a lot better!
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    I find it quite interesting... Overlooking xmas and new years, she sleeps in the same bed with you. I dont know you guys at all, but in my circle sleeping in the same bed, even without any sexual conduct, is sexual. I mean do you sleep in the same bed with any family members or other friends? Does she? Have you guys ever openly discussed that it's "a bit different"?
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