Chevy369

yea your first idea is an awesome idea. just be polite, ask him what he likes about the band or something and see what his reaction is. if hes attracted to you his body language will tell you. just go with your intuition

hah so my chances sound pretty good. ive just never made a move straight up like that before. It seems weird to me to just go in for a kiss or something when i just met this girl like 2 weeks ago. hah

it varies, like sometimes its just after class, or shell call me before she stops by in the middle of the day. a couple of the times were at night. she normally just says that shes going to her friends dorm or something and just wants to stop by. she normally just stays for like 30 minutes to an hour or something. to me she seems like she is waiting for something to happen, and when it doesnt she just stays for a lil while longer and then goes to her friends. the other night she called me when she was drunk and wanted to hang out and it was like 2am when she just got back to her dorm from her friends b-day party.

Theres this girl thats im pretty attracted to that lives in my dorm complex at college but her body language is really new to me. Mainly what is kinda throwing me in a loop is the fact that she just broke up with her ex bf of over 3 years about a 2 months ago. To me it seems like she is attracted to me as well but i dont really know what she is looking for. She comes over to my room sometimes alone just to hang out with me and i can tell that she goes out of her way to see me alone. like she will be hanging out with friends when ill call her and shell suddenly have a reason to come see me by herself and then go back to hang out with her friends a little later. I guess my question is what is she looking for? She doesnt really flirt with me but she does make the effort to see me alone. i know that id probably just end up being a rebound, but right now im not really looking for anything long term either. i know her and her bf used to have sex all the time, haha maybe shes having withdrawls or something and wants that out of me? Just curious to what other people think

Yea this sounds like an extremely unhealthy relationship that you have with him... push him out of your life. there are a lot better guys out there that could give things that are a lot better than expensive jewelry and sex...

haha for some guys thats an effective technique. it does many things; 1. he gets to see another side of you that may change his opinion about you 2. adds a twist, now hes hoping that your going to chase him instead 3. women seem to become more interested in a guy that stood her up. it adds a dimension of "curiosity" and most of all... 4. he gets to brag to all his friends haha, truthfully you never really know what could have happened. id say give him another chance and if he screws up again then he probably isnt worth the time.

I wouldnt hold in your feelings like that. if it truelly bothers you then bring it up to him and express your concern. Communication is extremelly important in these circumstances because if you just keep it to yourself it will just get worse. I wouldnt take it so far as to tell him to take her out of his life completely, but just make it clear so that he knows why you may be uncomfortable at times when her name comes up. You never know, if your a huge part of his life he may take it apun himself to stop seeing that girl.

First off, dont tell yourself that you "let" her like your friend. You dated for two years and personally, i believe that if she would do that to you that she really didnt care about you all that much in the first place. Also i would be careful about your best friend who sais he doesnt like your ex. I dont see how your ex could end up liking him so much if he trully never did anything to get her to like him. My friends would never allow my ex gf to pursue anything with them, especially ending a 2 year relationship. Sorry, but your ex sounds like a * * * * *, and your friend, unless he really isnt doing anything to get her to like him, isnt all that great of a friend either. I say drop her fast, and show her that your confident enough to follow through with it. If she really cares about you she will go to you.

anytime from 14-18 i would say is the most hectic time for guys. hormones are rushing like crazy and especially with sexual activity like that, i would think its normal. I guess i could suggest just slowing down and try to learn more technique rather than just having sex. When i say slow, i mean REALLY slow. stop just befor you finish and allow yourself to calm down and start up again. after awhile of this you should be able to learn your limits and can lenghthen the entire experience

absinant for one more year? it sais your 17 as well, does that mean your getting married or your just waiting until your 18? just curious Anyways, yes its completely normal for someone thats newer to sexual activity to "finish" very quickly simply due to raging hormones, and yes, unfamiliarity to these activities. Im not going categorize simply because of your age, but i am going to say that you definantly need to use protection and not to worry because as you become more familiar with your body it will become more easy to control things like that.

Quick fixes only lead to quick problems. The best way to bulk up and look normal while doing it is to have a protein rich diet with a regular weight lifting schedule. Sure steroids work but they often work too fast for the body to keep up leaving it disproportional and uneven. Use powdered creatine and mix it in with your protein shakes every day and be sure to drink a lot of water. You should start seeing results somewhat quickly. After the first month results will start to become more noticeable, but dont expect to get to your desired goal for a long while.

tell him its up to him to plan and figure everything out. make it so that you dont have to do anything at all, and its just up to him to follow through. You also have to realize that if he flakes out on this, that later on he may end up doing the same for other things (if you guys do end up having a relationship of some sort).

Well in the past we sure have had some problems. About 6 months ago we went on a break for a short while. I was in a lot of depression at the time and ended up using this other girl. Although we were "split up" she still considers it cheating, which i guess i understand. That was before i moved on to campus at college, and i know that ive grown up since then to where i would never do it again. She was paranoid about it the moment i moved here which was over 3 months ago and its gotten hard for me to deal with it. In the end, i know that i became hostile towards her because of the neverending arguments, which is why we broke up this time...

Find out his work hours from one of his friends, and just "happen" to be there right when he gets off. Guys like it when girls are confident, so just be straight forward. No need for rehersing, make casual conversation (ask how he likes working there, that your looking for a job or something) and if he doesnt already ask you on a date then ask yourself! Then again you might scare him if his friends tell him you were asking about his hours... haha so maybe just figure it out from observation.

I'd say hes definantly attracted to you. The reasons that he is not approaching you could be complicated but unless he has a girlfriend you shouldnt have anything to worry about if you approach him yourself (which is what i think you should try). Get his number for sure and get to know him, im sure hed like that