The concept of "soulmates" was invented by femenisam, and romance novels. the sad truth is; there is no such things. People married because they needed each other to combine their resources and skills and survive and have children......Now that we are in the new millennium and we have all the toys, and don't really need eachother, except there is that little thing about "male sex drive" and female "biological clock" that we never counted on. Ya, that thing that innate drive that pushes us to find a healthy partner with the quialities to survive in the junggle. Back in the day (and to this day in some countries), people in little farm viligas with no more then 50 people, find partners, marry, and live happly ever after. While ther are many people at the age of 40 living in overpopulated areas with millions of people, and can't find a partner??? something is not right about that.
You don't bolive me...find an older (30-50) married couple and ask them if they think they are soulmates in the true sense of the word. Even If you do get the answer that they are soulmates, it probably because they are so used to eachother, adn can't imagine having to go meet people again....