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She has told me everything about what happened. She said she is ready but me and her should talk about what happened and make sure she has put it behind her right? And just ease her into the mood and when it comes to you know...........just make sure she is very comfortable and very relaxed? But the main goal is for her to express her fears? Right?

Ok I am going to try to be very deep so I can get a really good answer. My girlfriend and I are both virgins at the age of 18. Last night we were going to try to you know have sex but I don't know what happened. She is very tight she has never been fingered or she does not finger her self at all. I am the only person that has done anything. And she is getting mad because we think me and her are going something wrong. She says I have a big penis. And her vagina opening is very small. Something happened to her in her teen years. I dont want to explain that. So when we do try to she get's scared because of what happened when she was younger. And I told her she can trust me and it will be ok. So we have tried her lying on her back and me inserting it....didn't work. We tried me lying on my back and her doing it her self...didn't work. Their was no lub of any type. Just a lubricated condom. So does anyone know what's going wrong? And how do you fix it and make it work? We have tried doing this about 3 times now.... Please help.

So believe in me and my girlfriends relationship, We have came so far, Believe in it and it works. Right? So just I should start believing in my girlfriend and I?

But it's nice to ask those questions sometimes right? Like just cut down on asking questions like that. And work on having deep confo's with them instead of asking those questions. right? But just don't ask them that much right? It's hard to stop that because I dont consider my self insecure just a curious person I conder my self. I may be wrong.....

Ok thank you for that advice. May I ask how do you stop asking questions? What are considered questions?

Does asking alot of questions in a relationship bad? My girlfriend sometimes says I ask alot of questions. Like ones like -- Do you love me? -- Do you really? -- Etc... Etc... Is that bad to do? If so how do you stop asking questions. Like I sometimes try to stop but one slips out. Maybe its a nervous habit any idea's?

DN what's that going to do to someone who won't even listen to the person that truly loves her?

Ever since my girlfriend has started smoking it makes me really mad. When she lights one up in the car I don't even talk to her until she is finished. And I am about to leave for a trip in 3 days. And she grandma is having brain surgery and my girlfriend is worried about that and she has OCD. But she say's it helps when she lights one up. Well I told her I really don't like her doing it and it makes me really mad to she her do this to her self. Also while we were making out one day she said "Do you want me to quit" I said I can't tell you what to do and what not to do. And I kept it like that. BUT WHY THE H$LL WILL SHE NOT LISTEN TO ME!? God she is making me mad every day she lights one up. I wish she was the old way she used to be. The person who does not smoke.

Can you really use vasaline as a lube? Also where do you buy lube at? Can you get it at a gas station? Also me keeping a hard on is kinda hard the first time am I right? Because your scared and you lose the hard? Does that happen to everyone? Also how much vasaline should I put on? where do I put it on me or on her? Oh forgot to add: I am taller then her and so her laying on her back with her legs up well how do I insert it when I am so tall I can't even get it down their when I am on my knee's and she is laying on her back.

Ok trying to have sex with my girlfriend last night we are both virgins and we are both 18 years of age. Well she is really tight and everytime she is on her back and I am between her legs standing up from my knee's I try to insert it but it just wont go. Any tips or idea's? She is really really tight and well putting a big thing into a small area is pretty hard to do. It makes us both mad. But how do you get past. And am I doing the position right or should I use another one?

Yeah I know she said she was very sorry for it. Just blew her temper.

Well I dont pay the bill but I will be moving out to go to college soon enough at the end of this year. They say theirs other people out their for me. But really Everyone at enotalone they dont know what makes me happy. This girl is like my dream. Of course she is different then any other girl because she has a family situation and my parents are looking out for me. But my parents can't control my life. That's what they are trying to do. Once I move out I probly will never talk to my family ever again. I dont care what they say. What started this was. Her aunt the skitco was talking bad about me to her and said some thing about her other grandma that has cancer and my girlfriend is really close to her other grandma the one with cancer and so she through a glass at her aunt because her aunt made her mad. And my parents are having a all hissy fit over it and our taking it out on me. But I love this girl with all of my heart and we are very serious about spending the rest of our lifes together. I don't care if my parents have a problem with it or not because I am in control of my life and my future right? My parents restrict me from alot of stuff because they think its bad or its something that can happen to me. For crying out loud I am 18 and they need to respect me like a adult and let me see who ever I want to. And they need to respect and accept my girlfriend. Its not hard at all. All they need to do is pull the heads out of each others butts and realize I am a adult now and they need to be happy with my choice. She dresses skaters and I am a skateboarder my self so I dress skater too and me and her like if everyone could just see us me and her get along very very well. And we have a blast with each other doing nothing just sitting at her house we have a blast. We are deeply in love with each other. Plus my mom want's me to break up with her but just wont admit it. My mom has had diabetes since she was born and I been their all my life since I was born to take care of her and help her with her diabetes. But what should I do? I love my girlfriend. Should I continue to be with her and spend our lifes together or what? Anyone please help.

Wow I got the same question with girls. Girls always when they sign on and say their boyfriend is on. They are always talking / chatting with other guys. But I am a guy and I'll be straight up with you. I pay attention to my girlfriend and I am never talking to other girls unless its just friends. You don't have anything to worry about its probly just friends.

Thank You. Ps. I forgot to add her dad fights alot with her mom and that's why she lives with her grandparents. But her parents are getting a divorce. And I am helping her through it. You think my parents need to let go and stop worring? And quit being well they got the heads up their butts pretty far I am surprised they can even breath. Just let go and accept my girlfriend.

Ok well I been going out with this girl of my dreams for along time now. And now all of a sudden my parents are acting weird. She lives with her grandparents because her mom and dad fight alot. And I am their to support her. In her house lives her aunt. Her aunt is a sitco but she stays in her room all day. I am 18 and my parents just dont really like this girl i go out with. And I told them they can go **** them selfs because they are not forcing me to break up with her. Like I said I am their to help her and support her and be the greatest boyfriend in the world to her. And she sure does love me. Acually she loves me alot. And I love her. I am so mad at my parents because when I have her over my dad does not even talk to her at all. And my mom carrys on alot of confos with her. And she likes me mom. So what should I do? I love this girl alot. Should I stay with her? What do I do? Please Help

We are both 18.

Wow she SLID her vagina she never put it in her. Ok let me tell you in a easier way. I was on my back she was on top of me. And she slid her vagina on my balls and started to like hump me. But my penis never went in her.

I never had sex with her. We are both virgins still. Also my penis has never entered her at all.

Ok well me and my girlfriend were making out and I fingered her for about 40 mins and she gave me a blow job and hand job and she I said get on top of me. My hormones were talking and she got on top of me and slid her vagina on my penis and she stayed near my ball sack. Well I am so scared right now that she might be pregnant. I did NOT release sperm. But I might of pre-cummed but I think her month liquid was on my penis. ANYONE HELP! WHAT SHOULD I DO!

She's a bit stuburn and does not listen to opinions except her's so tonight I told her I did not like it and I said "You know how I feel, I can't make you or stop you from smoking because its your choice" Also she said she is very sorry. So we were out by my car kissing and she just lights up one and I said "Very sorry huh" and well she got mad. And I told her why would she do something to her self if someone acually out their (me) that cares about her. Good point?

Ok I just found out my girlfriend is smoking cigerettes now (ruining her life) she's only 17. Would you be pretty po'ed at this and what should I do? Talk to her about it or what? Because I am so po'ed right now I dont even like typeing this message.

Today my girlfriend called me and said last night she just bleed. After I fingered her last night she could not even walk and she said when she went to bed she was in pain. Any ideas on what is causing this? I fingered her and she loved it. And I played with her cervix because my finger was up that far and she loved it. But after wards like a hour after we were done she got into alot of pain. Also she is not on her period any ideas?

That was a big realif.

I dont care if she likes it or not I'm using a condom. I am not going to raise a kid at 18.

Like how she explained to me. After a girl has her period and she is on birth control her egg is secure. She said taking birth control works 99.7% if your only have sex once a month. But if you have sex more then once in a single month your chances go down every time you have sex. Is that true anyone?