shaggie1

well yup your married and yor fighting like newlyweds. I am married going on 13 years now and let me tell you that if you dont fight you are both being passive and if you do fight your both wondering why. seems like you cant win and yet your still together hmm sounds like a marriage to me. In the first year or so your still adjusting to the WE of it and so his little habbits are building up and so are yours. meaning he leaves the cap off the toothpaste and so on. and she is still acting the way she did when she was single. People seem to think marriage will change the things people do over night. and thats not gona happen its only after time and acceptance that you will move on the only differance in a good argument and a bad argument is 1 ends in divorce and the other in makeing up. All marriages have problems and if you dont give up and niether does he then you get to stay married. As to your problems you have 2 choices. 1 invole him more and listen more or shut him out. If you want the marriage to last you know what you should do. doesnt mean give up who you are just means show him more of who you are. All couples fight even the really good ones. its just what you do after that matters.

Your opptions are simple go to the doctor and youll be fine in a week tops or Do nothing and allow it to fester for a while youll be fine in two to three weeks. your choice.

Perhaps telling him you where not serious now would be the best way out of all of this just be clear and to the point. also include that his comment made it hard to back out. This would seem to be the easiest route.

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There is nothing to say sep you know what ya have to do and you should get to doing it. That damn bite cant be ignored or it will fester and grow into consuption. To be more to the point your hooked and in love so get to it...

obviously something is bugging him as to what there is not enough info to figure that out. so Ill start by asking the basics. does he shut down doring certain topics or doring specific events. Then there is the ever popular how was his child hood and such. without a little help I can offer no direct answer. please fill in some of the blanks.........

well first congrats on being normal. We all in one way or another think about or plan what we will do and say to people every day of our lives the key is to be restrained in acting on our thoughts. We think about what we will say if he or she says this or that. we plan entire conversations out and encounters in or heads so to say that a fantasy is wrong well I cant. Most people are allways sizeing up someone or something from cars and jobs to people its normal to the exstreme. Futher let me say that looking and doing are two different things. The old saying is that just becuse im married doesnt mean im dead. just be kind enough not to look at and think about the opposite sex while with your gf, If you find this hard then and only then evaluate your relationship.

Well first lets cover the easy stuff. She likes ya and so your off to a good start. She likes you for who you are stick with that and youll be fine. Get to know her beter and this can only happen thru talking I as all people have my oppions as to love but as I have learned love has none. I can only offer the basics. Love is a 4 part recipe and must be followed or you will ruin the outcome Add 1-part comunication (lack of comunication has destroyed even countrys) Add 1-part honesty (anything but the truth is a lie) Add 1-part trust (If you dont trust anyone nobody will trust you) and 1-part time (as with all things time makes all things beter or worse be sure to stick to the recipe and you will get the beter of the 2) Not much else I can offer ya but congrats non the less on finding love.

I feel I have to pass this on to you my wayward friend and I only ask that you think on it for a bit. A love comes and goes from time to time but a Friend is there every time. Short and sweet I know but they are words to live by.