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personaly, i think a girl like a kind and caring guy! i love it when a guy can make me laugh, and take a joke! its really sweet when a guy writes notes to the girl he likes/ girlfriend! hope that helped~ Always and 4evr~

i think that the guy paying for the girl is to show that he is able to support her, even if they are in jr. high or high school. i mean, a girl doesn't want to be with a guy who can't pay for anything, and is always borrowing money and in debt! and about going to the movies, when a girl says " i don't have any1 to go 2 the movies with, want to go w/ me?" i think that would indacate thats she wants to go with you! Always and 4evr~

i totally agree with the candy and roses and bear. girls such as myself think that shows a sign of a loving, caring guy! good luck, hope all goes well! Always and 4evr

well i had someone else break up with my BF for me, and now i wish i had said it face to face because i think he doesn't realise i still want to be friends. so i think face to face is the better road to take! Always and 4evr~

revenge? well i know for a fact, the people who ditched you will feel like crap if they see you having fun with other friends! so i dunno if that would be revenge or not! always and 4evr~

wow! sounds just like me. one of my best friends is the same two-faced girl your describing. but its real bad. she does it to me too, and then she calls me w/o saying sry, and talks as if nothing happened. i totally get how you feel. And, i thought i was fat too, but then i got into swimming, and lost about 20 pounds last summer. i became involved in camps for soccer, v-ball, bball, and swimming, and now i look great! but looks arn't what matters. its how you feel. i felt so great about the way i looked at the end of last summer, i bought my first ever 2-piece bathing suite! and hunn, swimming is awsome. you meet so many people, make so many great friends (guys 2!!) and it is the best sport for you. when you swim, you sweat, and sweating makes you lose weight. so try it out! and when you say your friands are slipping away, do you mean, your less interested in them, or they ditched you? cuz let me tell you a story: last summer, i was very involved with my swimming, and always asked my BFF to come to one of my meets, or to my pool. But every time i asked her, she said she was busy. i knew she was lying, but i thought she might have a good reason. but a few days after her b-day, i found that i wasn't invited to the party. i felt crushed! then when i came back from vaca, she called and told me i wasn't her friend anymore. i mean how rude is that? so then i had to go into jr. high (6th grade) not having any friends. cuz w/ my old BFF, went all my other friends! nothing could have been worse. but when i got w/ another groupof friends, i loved it! i met new people, and i had some new i'll call it senery! so try that 2!! i hope i have been of some help! good luck, send me an e-mail email removed and tell me how it works out! remember, your not defeated until you admit to yourself you are! always and 4evr~

omg! i think u have had about everything thrown and rubbed in your face. the only thing i can say is, wellthis sounds like so motherly, but keep you chin up! your not beaten until you admit to yourself you are! really hun, i'm sry. if you ever need to talk IM me sweething66!

hello all! i have a few things on my mind and i really need to spill! ok here goes: I have been on the same summer swim team since i was 7. the swim team started out huge, but now is @ a whoping 84 swimmers. throughout the years, there have been a few familys that have stayed. Mine and this other great famils are two of them. the other family i am talking about consists of 3 swimmers on our team. a girl, who is gunna be a freshman in the fall, and twin boys who are a year younger than me, and will be going into 6th grade in the fall. one of the boys, i'll cal him luke, is cute, nice, and real sweet. it just so happens that he likes me, and has liked me for a few years. The thing is, i have liked him for a few years, and do like him now. my BFF, i'll call her lexie, says he told her he might ask me out. now for the problem, we go to different schools, i am one year older than him, and i am taller than him by a few inches (5in). So what i'm trying to ask/say is, if he asks me out, what should i say? i like him a lot, but would it be weird and awkward if we were dating? Help! and thanx so much for answering! Always and 4-evr,

ok hun, heres the thing. after breaking up, its real hard for a girl to know that she is still wanted. us girls feel like, well threatned by other girls being involved w/ our ex's or b/f . so if you were doing stuff with other girls, say sry!

i have this guy friend. and he liked me in the beginning of the year. i only liked him as a friend, and turned him down wen he asked me out. then my friend asked him out the day b4 valentines day and they went out for 1 month. now he is single and she asked him out, but he told me he is gunna say "no". in case u didn't get the hint, I HAVE THE BIGGEST CRUSH ON HIM!! so yea. in gym i asked him out, and he didn't answer, all u guys out there, what does that mean?!?!? was it the wrong move? HELP!

sure! go ahead. u have nothing to loose.