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Ive never been tanning before....the max is 20 min how long should i stay in and what are "instuctions for the bed"? What do i do when i first get in the room....would u suggest...

Could you tan with foundation on? And any tips such as tanning oils or lotions that help you tan easier?

I am in your shoes on this one! If I were you I would probably not talk about it that much over drinks... maybe....like second choice. Do you ever go places with her like drive places or go for walks? That could be a good place to talk about it. Its just that if you do have a few too many drinks then one of you might end up blaming your talking on the liquor. One of my best guy friends and I have been friends for about a year. We do everything together. We should practially be together with eachother since we usually are always with eachother each day and night. One night we were at a friends and we both did get a little tipsy and ended up kissing and stuff. He and I both blamed it on the alcohol when others asked... i like him for more than friends but i dont know about him....it took two to kiss tho....im jus sayin that maybe if you were to go drinkin.... As for the whole employee deal....you guys were friends before so i dont think that it should matter.......just dont go announcing anything to everyone too fast.

I know that whole dayshawvoo thing is pretty strange. My friend recently went to a psychic and i think it might have something to do with 'past lives' if you believe in reincarnation. I dont know if i believe or not but i guess the psychic said that if you see something familiar or dream about it, it could have happened before in a past life and thats how u know it will happen again. As for the whole thinking of people and they call or you see them, that is crazy, its weird, I think of people and then they end up calling soon after that lately. Its like if you ever heard that when your nose itches someone is thinking or talking about you.....i always wonder...

She Obviously really still has feelings for you. If she called you or whatever she did to get ahold of you again, then shes definatly been thinking about you. I know that I have done things like that before, being in her shoes. She must of had something really special with you, or somehow you stood out from past relationships. I dont want to act like it could work out again, but her saying that she wants to be friends could mean two things. Maybe she does just want to be friends and only friends. But she could also want to see if things could still be back to the way they were before. Me and one of my ex's talked before and i told him that i still wanted to be friends... we hung out and figured it was too hard to be just friends even after we both thought that we had moved on, we ended up back together.

GEZZZZ.... I would stop calling him and see how he likes it. If he is together with you, he should be making an attempt at the relationship also. He should be calling you. It seems kind of weird to me that you both dont talk that much. It sounds like he is too busy for a relationship. Was he like this before you guys hooked up? Maybe he is just one of those guys that needs his space. I used to have a boyfriend like that. He would always go to the bar and then when i would call he would be like im in the bar with some friends ill call you later and that always made me mad cuz i felt like he was not wanting to be with me ever. Does he have a drinking or drug problem?

Sondra~ I would suggest a change for you. Maybe if you were to leave for a little bit, he might come running back to you.

make something up with your name. brian... brybry

Girl! its obvious that he wants something more since he asked you out. I understand your whole deal with him. I have a really good guyfriend that i have been crushing on for a while. I havent had the courge to say anything to him. I dont ever want things to change, just like you. You finally have the change to try things out. Go for it. But i would tell him that if anything were to happen, that you don't want things to change.

What turns guys on in this world? Also any flirting tips or things that just drive guys crazy?

Okay, so you feel that you really need him? Or that you really need a guy there for you? I used to be that way, and really bad too. I overcame it for the most part. Once you have had a boyfriend you feel like you need that part of you always. That someone to turn to or to just have fun with. If you have some girl friends to hang out with or talk to that helps. You could try to set your mind off of him for a little bit. I know its hard. I know what helped me whenever i feel that way, and yes i still do once in a while, I go for a walk or exercise. It always makes me a little happier or sets my mind away from the guy. Until then, maybe think about why or what you think is so great about him and what you dont like about him. That can help you be a little more independent.

OKAY THIS IS GOIN TO BE SUPER LONG BUT I NEED TO GET IT OUTTA MY HEAD AND I WOULD LIKE A LIL IMPUT. I don't know what to think about this friend of mine. We do absolutely everything together. I have been friends with him since last summer. We watch movies, go shopping, go out to eat, hang with eachothers friends, go to the bar, go to parties, hang out wit eachothers families, and whatever else. I met him this summer at work. I work at a resturant that is connected to his work which is a gas station. Anyway, I started this job last summer. He came in and kept talking to me. I was with my boyfriend at the time and started having problems. My bf at the time cheated on me with someone way younger than me. It hurt. I kept telling myself that i wouldnt have a relationship for a long time. My girl friend came one night after i closed up at the place and we talked a little in the parking lot. She is pretty religious and she helped me out because i was really upset. My guy friend was working and we only talked a little at the time. My girlfriend told me that everything happens for a reason. I totally believe that now too. I believe im writing all this garbage for sum reason too. haha. well she said she wanted to pray and i said okay. We prayed and i prayed to god that i could find a guy that is nice and everything that would take my mind off of my ex , even if it were to be just friends or even more. But i knew i needed someone to take my mind off of things. No, i dont need a guy to keep me happy, my life was just blah after that. Anyway lets call my guyfriend, Brian. Brian got off of work that night and came over and asked what was wrong. I told him and he consoled me. The next night was a townfesteble type thing. He invited me. We went to the street dance and then the bar and then to his friend's house. I have never had so much fun since ive met him, nor so much pain. At this point i still only thought of him as friends. I remember that night we went to his friends after the bar and had a few to drink. We were sitting around bullsh**in and laughing about everything. We almost kissed, but then his friend came in from outside and we just dropped it and went outside. I went home that night and he kept callin making sure i made it. ... which i wasnt that bad. We started hangin out even more after that. I was staying out of trouble and everything. We even went to a lynyrd skynyd concert in a summerfest deal for a near by city. That was one of the funnest things i have done for so long. As of this point nothing has happened between us. Everyone starts asking even his friends, if we are together or messin around. We both are like no. There has been one point like around holloween that we started drifting away from eachother. Else everything has been awesome. During superbowl this year, we drove up to his sisters house and kicked it there. It was great. I drove home that night and it was about a 3 hour drive so i wasnt drinking. He ended up gettin way too drunk off of sum strong vodka. He never gets drunk usually so it was crazy. His sister and whole family loves me. His sister has never liked any of the girls he has brought around until me. Anyway, i was hopeing that would be like an omen of some kind hehe. So i drove on the way home and he was starting to get outta his drunkiness. We started talking about everything. There was this point when he liked one of his friends. She hates me, but i dont have a problem wit her. He told me all this stuff and finally stopped liking her. They barely ever talk now. 8) it makes me a lil happy. He also talked about how his sister liking me says alot and i asked if his family influences what kind of person he would be with. like his sister likeing me, would it make him be like oh maybe i should be with her. Well about a few weeks ago, me and some of our friends decided to have a lil party down the street from my house. We sat around and played poker and drank and listened to music, and had a good time. I was sittin between Brian and a friend on the other side of me on a couch. It was like 130 in the morn and they cut me off of beer cuz i had to make my 2 houses away drive to my driveway. Well Brian took my beer and I was like just lemme finish it. He said he was gunna finish it off. I was leaning over to him trying to get it from the end table. We just kind of looked into eachothers eyes and kissed. a few times. Me, being stupid, didnt know anyone seen....yet we were practically in the center of everyone. There were only 5 other people there. But still two of the guys that were there have had crushes on me at sum point and still do. They made a big deal about it. I loved it. I had wanted to kiss him for ever. I kept thinking, when will we move to a new step. He is my best friend and i have never felt this way before as i do with him. Its weird cuz people say they get this feeling sometimes and I dont even get this feeling wit my other friends that are close. Everone asks and stuff still but we both just say, we already discussed it we are jus friends. And yes at one point last summer we did discuss it and he told me that he didnt want to ruin our friendship, but that was like along time ago. I totally get what hes saying too but just so many times i would want to jus kiss him. Tonight he stopped by my house and invited me out to eat. We went out to eat. It was fun. I just get all confused because we talk for at least an hour or more every single night. We even talk in the morning sometimes. and all the time in the afternoon. I start to wonder how we have stuff to talk about for so long. I usually hang out wit him at his house watching movies together each night. I recently went on a trip to florida a couple weeks ago. I remember i talked to him for like 2 minutes that night. He was bein a lil weird. This one girl i work with has known him for a while longer than me. She is younger than me by like a year. She has been having problems and just got out of them. Her and brian went to a party together at our friends house. They ended up making out that night after everyone found a place to crash. It makes me mad becasue I feel like i was used. I am a senior in high school. She came up to me at school on the monday and asked me if i had feelings for him. I said i don tknow. Obviously i do but i didnt want to sound all obvious. She kept asking and said she really needed to know. And she said she knew i did. She said she has always been able to tell. I said okay, a lil i guess. She told me that she had feelings too. That set me in a depression for a week. I know this sounds reallly gay but i felt used. and I almost killed myself that night. I know that sounds even more stupid but that was a result of the last straw bein pulled. HIm and HER and also an ex talking trash, and just the state i am in sumtimes. My main problem was that he didnt call me that night and when i called him he said hold on im talking to ____ ill call you right back. And he never did. She did tell me that her and him wouldnt be anything if i told her that i liked him. Which was very respecable of her. She is a friend to me. They still talk but they are nothing now. YES i was jealous but what was i to think. Even our friend has asked me so many times about why we dont hook up. He is always like you and brian are so close to eachother you both get along and laugh about everything....its like you are in your own world together. you both are practiacally dating...he said. You both know where the other is at anytime and know eveything about eachother. I was like i know it seems that way but we do everything as in friends. His sister even has asked me before why we dont hook up. I just dont know tho. I dont know what i would say. I dont want to be rejected either. But I am moving to the cities in minnesota this summer for college and he knows. He is trying to find a job there now. He pays for all my food and movies and everything whenever we go places. Its weird if you get what im saying. But i know that if he was to hook up wit any girl, i dont know what i would do. Its like he leaded me on this far and vice versa. I need a little imput on if i should tell him or just wait and see where this all goes. I know this is really long. Im sorry i just needed to get this offa my head.