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MetallicAguy

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  1. Girls are pretty sensitive to our feelings if she knows how you felt about the whole thing in terms of anger, it'd be a whole situation I think you should tell her you were mad at her for cheating and just let it out. Say something like it crushed your heart, your heartbroken, etc. Then she'll regret it for sure.
  2. Don't be afraid to let your anger out on a girl verbally (I mean don't make it like a drunk psycho verbal anger lol) and don't hit her either duh, but why lie it just makes it worse. If you would have let your anger out she probably would have stopped what she was doing, thought of it. And would regret doing it. I mean if you did "hurt her" then what the f*** are these girls going to do to you tell rumors like in Jr.High? lol.
  3. Something that'd be really bold and probably turn her on is if you just got the ba**s to go up to her and say "I've been noticing you noticing me for a while, if your interested why don'tcha talk to me?" Or instead you can replace "why dontcha talk to me" with "we can go on a date sometime to [some restuarant, movie, etc.]" I'm pretty sure she likes you man. Go for it.
  4. Well if a girl says she loses respect for you that is a big deal negatively. A drunk phone call is pretty bad. It's going to take some big explaining maybe even an apology depending on what you said. But talking to her and convincing her best friend isn't going to do all that good, tell her yourself. To her it doesn't seem your confident with getting the friendship back together by not talking to her in person directly.
  5. There's a possiblity but this thing one the quote where it says you and you say "Is it something i did?" and she says No, just a tip; That is a bunch of garbage. It was something you did or it was one of her flaws but in most cases when girls say that its something the guy did.
  6. lol..well that's going to be hard remember man gotta have a good impression on the dad especially if hes the guy in charge (usually guys with daughters are over-protective over them MOSTLY when they're afraid to lose them #1, #2 they want to make sure your marrying a business man, sometimes whatever makes her happy as long as the guys not a loser).
  7. I just hope that you didn't pour your heart out to her on that date. Because if you did she will be like "Oh alright well I know everything about him....hmmm..hes kind of boring if he let me figure him out maybe we could have another date". So yeah, if you did it sounds like its desperate measures. I'd go for push/pull if you know what it is, kinda like the guy's secret weapon haha. Basically it's teasing in a playful way, look at some guys you know that are successful with women I'm sure they use in some sort of way.
  8. Stop flooding women with attention man, it drives them away. You play hard to get, just stop talking to her and pretend like it "hurt your feelings" maybe she'll get her s*** together and spend some time with you.
  9. Oh Yeah, and another issue (i cant post another thing yet), I've tryed to get this girl interested in me for a while. She seems to be interested in another guy which has made my self-esteem go down the s***ter. She talks to him usually alot, he's a funny guy kind of acts a bit dorky/childish. Why the h*** does this attract her? He's confident thats for sure though. So anyway, I kinda give her little hints that I'm interested like I'll check her out on purpose and I don't think shes noticed though a few times after I did she stroked her hair with one hand which is supposed to be a flirt . But I can't talk to her, I mean it's easy for me to talk to a girl, but it would just be weird and she would instantly know I like her because its just common sense. What if I had a girl one day strike up a conversation and ask me questions about myself? Yeah, exactly I could tell. I know this girl, is definetely, if not, "the one" for me, I know her through friends but I've never talked to her much at all. Girls what do you recommend I do?..I really don't want to screw this up. All the other girls are either s**ts or immature and ditsy. It's pretty rare to find a girl with a great personality and good physical attraction...Help me out.
  10. He definetely still likes you and is an idiot for obnoxiously annoying you and should be pimp-slapped lol. If hes going to do something about you talking with other guys why doesn't he get the ba**s to come out and say that he still has interest in you. See basically give him the attention he needs I come accross this every day with people, Guys always annoyingly pursuing girls because there doing hard to get but no meaning to. Just flush him with attention or w/e talk to him, just if hes like a freak then just stop talking to him. Those are the guys with OCD and walk down the street watching to make sure they don't step on a crack lol.
  11. Little things they like, I'm like desperate here lol.
  12. Well even I do this myself, lol. But, it's pretty normal, the worst case scenario though would be that your boring him with the relationship.
  13. Sorry, but I think from his actions that he likes the girl he was with (obviously she sounded attracted to him and he probably was to her too and he was trying to fake it by showing concern....sounds to me like a "friendly" concern if you understand my thought.
  14. I want to know #1 if women are attracted to a bit shy guys, #2 i want to know what women are attracted to in general, i know women all have different things that they're attracted to. I just want some common ones. But you can state that different things, it'll gimme some ideas. Thx.
  15. I also had a fear of deep water myself. Basically one day i decided that im going to do it. And I was fearless and what do y'know i learned how to swim. I was afraid of drowning. I still freak out a bit when I go in water that goes above my head lol. I think there's some kind of test to tell if you have OCD. Watch As Good As It Gets. Jack Nicholson plays an OCD man. If your like that guy (lol which would be really unfortunate) than you have OCD for sure or some related disorder.
  16. Sounds to me like you were traumatized from it when you were younger. Maybe someone said you look bad physically, or you suck, or some other comment but these things is what helps us out so tell us more roots of these things.
  17. I've been in that situation, things didn't really turn out as Slim as you said. All it is is believing in yourself that you can do it. Winston Churchill said "Never, Never, Never give up."
  18. I think she likes you, some insecure girls I come accross are nervous because 1. They're afraid to approach you. 2. Fear of Failure. Believe me, ALOT of women are more afraid of failure than us guys. And it has a major impact on the girls self-esteem than it does us guys. You could possibly come out (if you get the guts) one day and tell her "Ok, I know you like me, but you need to calm down your acting way too weird...really". You might even clean up her act if you say "If you want me to like you then you'll have to stop this s*** right now.". She might not be that bad of a person outside of her insecurity when it comes to her having a crush on a guy. Seems like she hasn't had much expierience in dating because of her behavior. Just tell it how it is. I know it sounds bad but lying isn't going to fix it, girls can sense that stuff man.
  19. Well she's a prep. Not much guys like her which is really odd, I mean she isn't a b**** or anything, shes not a golddigger. I don't really understand that. Some of her friends are big flirts though. Maybe because there pretty desperate lol. I remember a few years back she showed some signs of attraction. Unfortunately I was too stupid to notice and I just let it go. I felt like slapping myself in the face now lol. Maybe she still has attraction for me maybe?
  20. Maybe your too much of a nice guy? Are you manipulated easily? Like for example: If a girl asked for you to buy a drink for her would you be more than happy to do that for her? If so, your a nice guy. Women are totally turned off by this. Ever see those guys that are average-looking with those hot girls. It's not because of the cash or how they look unless it's Anna Nicole Smith lol. It's confidence. Basically they use Push/Pull this creates Sexual Tension. Women by instinct are attracted to this. This doesn't mean you have to be an a-hole but you have to have an attitude like you dont take crap from no one. And don't be afraid if she said that her favorite band is so and so and you say that they suck. nice guys will be like "oh there such a great band!" when you really don't like them women can sense this and there turned off by this. If you say it how it is you come off as attractive to her. So basically, how to attract women is easy, Teasing(playful), Manners, Good Appearance, Good hygiene, A positive outlook on life. I also heard from a friend of mine that it helps if you go out with other women because it makes women think your "mysterious". And an important thing dont EVER reveal too much about yourself don't pour yourself out to her because of your uncontrolled feelings for her. Anyway, yeah hopefully things work out for you.
  21. Oh yeah, sorry about the posts lol. But if you can't get her out of her head then its not going to help by keeping on trying to gain attraction with her. If you like her in large amounts you could wait like a year without talking to her or anything hopefully that horrible impression will clear up then you probably will have a chance with her. There is a method that gains attraction in women, I use teasing but some people call it Push/Pull at my High School. It works pretty good, I've used it myself and I've told other people about it and they have success in their relationships. Basically I think you should try teasing her after you give her some time to forget the bad impression. Hopefully for you it wasn't that bad that she'll remember it next year unless she has outstanding memory.
  22. Basically when she had that girl there that she was trying to hook up with you kind of seems to me like she wants to get you out of her hair and she doesn't want anything to do with you. She is embarrassed that you still like her and to me it sounds like she hates the fact that you still do. But hey what can I say its her fault she isnt treating you with a bunch of attention shes just playing hard to get without realizing it.
  23. Sounds to me like you had a really bad date. Tell me what you did, it seems like it embarrassed her alot
  24. What if she does do that with other guys (hyepathetical)
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