MetallicAguy

Your stressing about something. Do you have any problems with the parents or people at school, you have a bad self-image? What is it?

Well good for you, no one should be in a relationship where the other partner treats you like s***.

See the thing is to make sure your whole life doesn'trevolve around her and your point of life is to talk to her and please her. Instead sit by her less (that doesn't mean you can never). And don't talk to her by phone, IM, etc. as much.

It's ok to contact her once in a while. Do not make it frequent though. If you make it frequent it will drive her away. Yeah and it's ok to sit with her in class. Don't do it every day. Just like the contact thing, once in a while is fine.

No, like what about him are you thinking about. Or are you just thinking about him in General. If so, thereforeeee you probably have a crush on him or something's there you want to know about him.

Sounds like an anxiety thing. Or you hate to do homework or work and have something else to look forward to doing. Not really sure....hope it helps.

Start now, like if you guys had a good time doing one thing like going to a concert or something like that you could remind of it. And then go to a concert of her favorite band. Get it? But yeah but I think she'll already realize what she misses after hanging out with you.

Oh ok then forget that post, lol. Now back to the topic. What was your other question on how you two should get back together.

Oh you were talking about getting married and was this right before you broke up with her? That may be the cause. Maybe she doesn't want to get married and that wasn't what she was looking for. Even if she agreed with you that you 2 wanted to get "married forever" it was probably just a bunch of s***. Oh well I thought you were going to use the method for dating only. Hmm, getting married's a whole different thing. Well you could use this for attraction. Then you could stop when you guys get really close in the relationship then you can propose to her or whatever.

Yeah, you be a friend using the method for a week. And once you notice behavior changes and flirting going on then you'll have a relationship with her and it'll come natural to her that she likes you.

Yeah, dude I've used this same thing so many times. I think you should be friends with her for a week and USING this method it does you no good knowing it but not using it. And she should be yours in no time, using this will show her you changed which is what you stated you wanted to do earlier (included in your question). And it will tell her that your more attractive to her than before.

It wouldn't be bad. It just says you want to hang. It wouldn't be bad where do you get that idea? Would it be bad if you asked another friend(girl) that you wanted to hang out? No it wouldn't, just go for it. It seems like your unsure about this, just go with the flow man.

After you use push/pull and creating sexual tension. She might even pick up on it as a date, which would be pretty smart. Don't ask her out right now though, it won't work and you'll just end up getting an alternative excuse to no because she doesn't want to hurt your feelings.

Oh, umm you could say, "Well, I just got done studying for an exam and I have nothing else to do on my schedule today besides go out to dinner, so you feel like hanging out; going somewhere casual?". I guess that'd seem like you were doing something. It doesn't matter if you seem bored. You just can't seem like your whole life revolves around her.

I just posted it in that example. Or if that's not it, explain more what you mean.

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Using the technique will get her attracted to you back, to get her on a friendly date is just like "Hey, I have no one to hang with today, you want to go see a movie..I'm really bored at my house I have nothing to do but study. I need a break."

Repeat it basically, do something like that like you did on your first date. Basically if she wants you to kiss her give her an alternative, which was excellent. I think this is the right way for me to say it but, it's like if she wants to do something you don't give it to her and you do it later when she least expects it. Basically it plays with her emotions and reveals an attraction to you.

Here's an article I copied and pasted. Article(WARNING: Pretty Long): One thing that is critical for developing attraction with a woman that will lead to your eventual seduction success is learning how to build and nurture the sexual tension between you. Remember that when you first begin to interact with a woman, unless she already has a strong initial attraction for you - sometimes known as "chemistry", you are in a neutral zone with her. This is a place where she has yet to make up her mind as to whether you are interesting to her or not. Now, you can choose to sift through dozens and dozens of women looking for the few that you have that instant "chemistry" with, but I find it much more practical to stimulate the woman's attraction so that she has that chemistry right away, and then *I* can choose whether or not to act on my own attraction. It's like getting a pre-approved loan and knowing you COULD go out and buy that new Porsche, but it's YOUR choice. This, guys, is what seduction is all about. Having your own choice as to whether a woman interests YOU or not, not the other way around. Back to the Neutral Zone (and I'm not talking about that Star Trek term, either...) In order to get that tension going - a necessary tension - you need to zap her out of her neutral funk and get her into feeling EXCITEMENT. There are many ways to do this: 1. Teasing - You find little areas of insecurity, and you play with them a little. This isn't to belittle her or make her feel bad about herself, but to demonstrate your own confidence and security by showing that you're aware of your own dominance as a man, and that you do not fear her. Teasing also lowers her guard a little so that you can reach that "real" part of her personality that she is cloaking with defensive behavior. (Sometimes called "tease to please") 2. Humor - Humor takes the edge off your teasing. Women are dying to laugh. There are so many guys out there that have ZERO humor to them. They take everything too seriously, including women, which - honestly - creeps them out. Compare: A man with humor enjoys life, is relaxed enough to find the fun in everything, and shows that he has a sense of inner calm. A man without humor is not relaxed, takes things way too seriously, and tends to smother and convey insecurity with his intense behavior. 3. Contradiction - An independent, secure guy can express his own opinion (and he MUST). You should make it a point to contradict her opinion from time to time to demonstrate that you do not need her approval. He doesn't do it to prove her wrong, but to state his own belief in clear terms. And this includes calling her on her bratty behavior, as well as taking control when the situation demands it. This may be the toughest behavior for most "nice guys" to adopt. And it will also sound radically contrary to what you've been brought up to believe by the media and your mom. 4. Detachment - Again, an independent, secure man does not NEED a woman (or other people, for that matter) for his approval. He can stand alone and separate of her opinion, and it doesn't ruffle his feathers if she doesn't like something he did or said. This means the ability to walk away, turn away, and otherwise disengage from a woman so that she understands he is not there to kiss her @ss. Another way to show this is to allow for long pauses between contacts with a woman. Don't email her right back. Don't call her right back. A few days could easily pass for a guy who is overwhelmed with women, so why shouldn't it be that way for you right now? Give her a chance to miss you. (Instead of wondering why you're so desperate that you leave five messages every day.) These are just some of the ways you can heighten the level of sexual tension between you and a woman. Now, there are some guys out there that are afraid of raising this tension. I suspect this is partly because this kind of tension feels uncomfortable to them. It can often border on making her angry which is something that most guys are afraid to do. After all, you want her to LIKE you, right? How will making her potentially DISlike you help? Well, it's really about a push-pull effect. The idea is to induce a gentle tug-of-war with her that will get things started. When she thinks you're going to pull, you give her slack, which throws her off balance. And that's when you pull her back in. It's just like fishing: Give her a little "line," and see if she bites. When she does, you pull in a little. (Too much too quick and you yank the hook right back out.) Then you give her a little slack so she thinks she's free, and the hook digs in a little more. Then you give it a little tug to pull her back in. Push-pull. Reel her in, let her go. The tension you are elevating has only one kind of outlet - sexual attraction. Sometimes it will even start out as anger and then morph into passion and lust. (Remember the opposite of love isn't hate, it's apathy.) You're better off with a woman that is pissed at you than one that has no feelings for you. Your knee-jerk reaction to her anger is to smooth out the problem, afraid that you've somehow lost her. When you don't NEED, you can't LOSE. Again, passion very often starts out with a woman APPEARING to hate the man at first. (Review how this happens in the first Indiana Jones movie, as well as the movie "The Breakfast Club," and especially the police station scene in "Ferris Bueller's Day Off." Yes, they are movies, but they accurately depict how this phenomenon works. And if you'll watch it closely, it may seem counter to what you might think, but at a gut level - it MAKES SENSE and feels right. This sort of thing happens all the time.) Don't be afraid of that tension, guys. Feed off it and escalate it. This will make the difference between the guy that walks away with the sweet taste of woman on his lips... or the bland and disappointing taste of her "friendship."

Oh ok got it, so if you guys are holding hands you can put your hand out there like you want it to be held then pull it away like a joke (Don't smile lol) then be like "No holding hands" which is a perfect example. Or for another if she wants to make out pull away at the last second and say "I'm not in the mood". Then later you can just surprise her and make out. It's actually a really simple method. If you want a great example watch Hitch, in the beginning when he's playing pool with some guy.

Ok so, basically you can say something nice about her then take it back and say something that would seem insulting. I don't know it's hard for me to explain. I'll have to find another article on how to do it. Hold on a sec.

Yeah, it could. Depends on what about them your thinking about. Are you thinking about the guy's appearance or what he did a while ago. I don't know you explain, it could be anything.

But it's not "playing games" it's the key to attracting women and getting back together with her. It only seems like it. Just go with it man, you'll thank me later.

Orbital, the reason why girls fall for those other guys and you sit there and wonder "What is it that he has that I don't?" Well it's not confidence (even though it plays a significant role), it's just what's in that article. Put it into action and you can get any girl. No matter what you look like (you might not have a good sex life though if your 300lbs and your favorite event is Monday Night Football with your buddies.).

Man it is REALLY worth it, it basically saved my life when it comes to women. lol.