lil sis

ya think a good bang would make us closer or ruin the relationship? there's quite a bit of sexual tension here between the both of us lol. i hear people say that sex ruins things but my cousin seems to have gotten closer. we still don't talk a whole lot right now. i told him how i feel about him n everythin in an email cuz i'm never home ta call or he's not home. that's another thing too, i have 2 jobs, so i hardly see him like twice a week tops. i'm comfortable around him, n i think he's good around me.... we so wanna bang tho! lol ~ lil sista

that's how i was, i talked soo little cuz i din't want my guy ta think i was stupid or somethin lol. but now i'm opening up a lil more. now i don't talk a lot cuz i feel so safe and calm with him. but we're talkin more, so don't give up. i'm sure she likes ya if she did that stuff, maybe she's like me n jus don't wanna do anythin stupid in front of ya haha. meh, stay in there bud! bye-now

i agree with y'all! my guy friend had a gf and she'd break up with him and go with another guy and then go back with him. it was horrible! she was jus using him! once the other guy'd use her up she'd go running back to him. i'm so happy for him now cuz he's moved onto someone much better for him!

my crush invited me over to his house this weekend. i wanna go, but he kinda hurt me earlier this week. i told him i'd pick him up for school everyday this week, but he got on the bus. then his cousin (my buddy who lives behind him) said that he forgot n wanted me to pick him up on tuesday, so i went but the prick got on the damn bus again! he din't apologize or talk or anythin either. i thought "well that shows how important i am to him." anyways, my other buddy got her cousin to ask him about me, and he said somethin like "i think u should go out with rachel (me)". then my crush was like "well i'll find out this weekend." but anyways: should i put the moves on or bitch at him.. or jus flirt or what? i was thinkin i'd playfully bitch at him, then jus talk and/or flirt. whatchu's think on the whole deal?

yeah, bit heavy on details.... i don't know if i'm ugly, geez. see for urself link removed that pic's kinda crappy tho.

k we went to a party together and he followed me around (he was drunk, but i wasn't), then i took him home (cuz he's too young to drive), and we talked. over all it was ace. we never really talked before that. anyways, he asked me to pick him up for school (on the way to his house), and i agreed. then i picked him up and we talked... but not that much (much easier to talk to while drunk!). then we parted at school... we looked at eachother like we were gonna say somethin but din't... then i went up to a buddy of mine standin beside him at his class door, but he went in after he seen me (but maybe that guy told him somethin.... but i don't know). then my other buddy went n asked him if i was gonna give him a ride home and he said he would if she got his sweater (his shirt was all chalk ), but he went home wit his buddy. yeah anyways... what's the deal! omg. somebody.. please tell me somethin. i don't care how insignificant u think it is, it's alright to me! k bye-now

OH YES. seems like all it took me was a lil note , then next thing ya know we're all buddy buddy n such . well we talk on msn a lot (never in person, i'm too *** lol), and he knew i liked him.. but it was the note. then we went to a party together, i gave him ride home (we talked quite a bit doin that ) it was the note. the note is my hero. i praise the note, lol. now i'm gonna be givin him a ride ta school on monday - we'll hafta see how that goes . well i jus thought i'd share what worked for me! bye-now!

movies is a good idea, BUT DO NOT PICK THE MOVIE. let the date do that. i found out the guy i like has a dumb taste in movies, lol.

well he wrote back n said that he don't like goin to the movies, but he did invite me to a party tomarrow night, so that should be ace . we're both incredibally shy.. so yea, that makes it hard.

ok: first we talk on the phone for like an hour (he's drunk but it was still ace. he was singin to me hehe then i ask him to the movies and he says "piss on the matrix, i'm buyin a case" (not to me directly, but to one of his friends i got to ask), then he asks when i'm gonna take him to see the matrix (but i think perhaps someone might have been lyin to me about that), we talk on msn all the time (good convos), we rarely ever talk in person, we're always lookin at eachother, and now... i give him a note. it was jus a buncha "haha" stuff at the beginning, but then at the end i said "so what do i hafta say to getcha to come to the movies wit me?" and i explained how he should jus tell me if he don't wanna. i'm scared. it seems like he likes me back, but then there's stuff that makes me think, "ok, so u don't like me" he's kind of a shy guy too, but geez, i try to make it easy on him n he's not responding! i jus gave it to him today, but there's still nothin yet.

yes! call!! do it! girls would love the call... i wish the guy i'm on about would call me, i'd call him, but i'm scared. so jus call her dammit!

i think movies are alright, instead of thinkin about during the movie, think about after or before, hello, u got a subject to talk about! cuz for me, the theatre is quite a ways away, so there's lots of time to talk for me. but yea.. i think it's great because i'm rather shy, and we don't really talk that much, so i think it'd be a good idea. if it's a good experience yay! if it's bad, u can joke around about it later! oh and i like the dark

what i do is sneak in from the back. u get in wit friends of friends, then friends, then linger around there for a while... then finally say somethin. i think u shouldn't be askin how to get noticed, because what after that? if she's shy she prolly won't jus go up to u. the way i jus said is taking forever (like 4 months now), but it's finally startin to pay off. and do stuff, like go to parties, people will talk aboutcha if ur a crazy mofo. they'll be like "ja hear what (whatever ur name is) did?!?! that crazy mofo!", and of course she'll hear and everythin. so parties=good good luck boi

ok, i asked him to the movies and he says "piss on the matrix, i'm buyin a case this weekend" (i din't even mean that weekend!) then when i was talkin to his lil cousin on msn he told her to ask me when i was gonna take him to see the matrix, then i said that i thought he said to piss on the matrix and he said that he had practise or somethin, then i said i din't believe him. then he came online and i said "so ya wanna see the matrix eh?" and he says "maybe" wtf! but then we talked till like 3 in the mornin! i tell his friends to tell him to call me, and he says to tell me to call him, so i made the invite to the matrix, and i asked him if he wanted to go for a ride but he let me down. i don't get him! i never actually had a real convo in person wit him b4, we always look at eachother like we wanna say somethin n stuff.. so anyways, any input? ideas?? should i jus drop him?? (don't wanna do that tho!)

r u sure u gave her the right numer?? sure she has somethin to sendja txt msgs thru? maybe u ran outta time? maybe she's too shy to do anything??? u should get her number. say somethin like: o, i din't getchur #. or somethin like that. if u talk to her often i can't see why u'd be shy. but yea, it's always better if the guys ask.. i think neways. it shows confidence... and thatchu really like her.

well this guy is a year younger, he's pretty cool. he knows i want him, but we hardly talk (i've been droppin heavy hints). i wanna talk to him, but i'm shy n i don't know how to approach him n stuff. i don't know if he likes me or not. we talked on the phone while he was drunk for like an hour. he reclined my chair n got me a blanket too *sigh*. he said he "doesn't not like me", but the friends who talk to him think he likes me. think i should jus ask him? i would, but we don't talk, and i don't want it to be all weird if we did start goin... and what if he said no?? i'd prolly shoot myself.

ok guys, what do u's like to talk about? i talked to this guy i really like mostly about music. but i don't know if that topic has anything more to discuss! he so knows i want him too. he said (and i quote) "I don't NOT like her, she jus doesn't talk enough" ( i heard this from a friend, she's convinced that he likes me). usually when i talk to guys (who are jus friends), i can get all nasty and sick-like (funny stuff ya know), but i don't wanna like, scare him away and make him think that i'm dirty or somethin. neways, tell me whatchu's think.

i think i'll try eyeofthetiger's approach. i jus do small stuff like, look at him (smirk) then look away after he catches me. it would be so much easier if he talked to me. but anyways, i jus don't want it to be all weird if we went out right away cuz we still don't really know eachother. know what i mean? and of course i would get wit him right away! GEEZ. i'm knowing of that. well i'ma see him this weekend again, maybe i'll be a lil more courageous.

ok, this guy knows i like him (cuz i gave him a valentines n a bacardi silver (for his bday), and my friends told him). i spent the night at my friend's house (she's his cousin) and we (me, him, and my bud) got high. anyways, we were all bogged out after, and i wanted to sleep. i was dumb n couldn't get my chair to recline... so he did it for me. and i was jus about to go to sleep, and he brought me a blanket. *sigh*. ok, is that anything to freak out over? does it mean anythin? please advise! ~L'illest Sis

hey SwingFox! thanks for the encouragement. i'm trying my hardest to talk to him, it's going well. i spent the night at my buds house (his cousins), and he was there. i found out that he wears boxer-briefs! haha, but that was jus cuz he was leaning forward... but still, it's cool. - so anyways, we talked . nothin spectacular, and we were both buzzin. i jus don't want to have to be high to say somethin to him.... but i think that will pass. what u said really made me think, so thanks a lot! ~L'illest siS

sisterlynch: that is a really cool name. jus had ta say it, bye-now!

hehe, i'm thinkin u should let out the freak in ya and show up in his bedroom wit the candles, and oils, the kinky outfit! haha, what guy could resist that? that's jus me, maybe ur a lil more innocent than me tho... i hope i may have inspired u or somethin

sneak around! desperate times call for desperate measures! i'm thinkin that u should tell ur ma n dad that ur goin to ur friend's house for the night, but really go and chill wit her. or maybe if ur ma and dad ever leave for the weekend or somethin... or, (if u have a friend wit cool parents) invite her over to his place and u can spend time there (ur friend might get bored, but he should understand!). or maybe u have an older brother or cousin who would take u and ur lady friend places. make it happen! i was a goodie back in tha day too, but now i'm wishin that i did stuff like that. don't be afraid! but, again, ur 13. u got ur whole life! u don't HAVE to go out on dates, do ya? sure that'd be fun, but u could chill at school, or at the library, or ... what ever. and seriously, what's the worst that could happen? u'd get hollared at, maybe grounded, but u gotta figure out if it's worth it or not. or, of course, u could talk to ur parents about it, explain everything and the strong feelings that u and ur lady friend share. anyways, best of luck! stay cool.

well ur friend seems to be over her and on with his life, right? so i can't really see how he'd mind. it might be ackward tho. hm. yes, tricky indeed. i'm thinkin that u should wait on it for a while. and maybe talk to ur buddy about it. that's pretty much all i can tell ya! sorry. i jus don't wanna give u bad advice.

she definitely wants some dink! haha, but i think the leg rubbing was definitely a hint. she's jus probly too.. shy to make any big moves. footsies (or any other kinda touching for that matter) is my fav snag method (after giving them "The Eyes" of course). but i'd be partially intoxicated at these times.. hm. i'm so sure she'd go out wit u. she probly didn't say anythin after u asked cuz she was psyched! like thinkin, "OMG!!" and all excited n stuff in the inside and tryin ta look cool about it. good luck! and i totally agree wit zippitt about sayin 'would u like to do somethin ..' and sorry, i only read that post u put on after i made that reply (i'm a newbie)