sunnihunni

yeah...getting advice from other ppl always helps. itll give you a better sense of what to do and what to expect so youre not totally caught off guard! but trust me...most guys will let you know just what they want and what feels good!

well definitly switch it up...but to answer your questions YES and YES!! i love when my boyfriend strokes my hair when we kiss!!!

to answer the origional question... what beec said was all pretty good...i just wanted to add one thing tho and that's to be gentle. i think guys tend to think (or at least the guys ive been with ) that faster and harder is better...but thats not really the case with girls...so be gentle!! -Sunni

To answer your question Sadie... well...for starters...i posted a question about it here! lol but basically...i just went for it...and my b/f told me what he like and what felt good!

yeah...i think this is a little strange. i mean...if your friend is ok with it then thats fine. personally i think its better to take things a step at a time tho! one nite i was at a party and my current boyfriend was also there...well we didnt kno each other very well or anything at the time...and to make a long story short..we hooked up and he ended up going down on me that nite. well id been with others guys so its not exactly the same kind of situation...but i do sort of wish we had taken things a bit more slowly. But it all worked out because now we've been dating even since shortly after that nite and we're going on 2 months!! -Sunni

well...i dont think that theres is any certain age thats "appropriate" for this kind of stuff or whatever...but i dont think 16 is too young. Also i think it depends on how long you two have been together and how comfortable ya'll are with each other!! If you're ok with it then go for it, but if you're feeling uncomfortable or "dirty" as you said...then you're probably not ready! -Sunni

i love when my b/f gets a boner from kissing/ making out!! all girls should take it as a compliment!!

i totally agree w/ all of the last few posts!! i mean it may not be the best tasting stuff in the world but if it makes your partner happy then a bitter taste in your mouth for a few minutes is worth it imo!! plus i think its easier to j/ swallow it and get rid of the mess!lol

i agree....it seems like you sent him mixed signals. i kno you arent ready to start anything serious w/ this new guy j/ yet cause u j/ broke up w/ ur old boyfriend and all...and thats fine... but you should explain this to ur new guy so he understands whats going on!

yeah...that all sounds totally normal...i hardly ever get cramps and my periods still only last about 3 days...thank God!!! lol

im sure she'll understand if you cant get it. the first time my boyfriend tried to take my bra off he just could NOT get it and eventually just sighed and asked me to do it! i actually thought it was just really cute and told him that we'd just have to practice more!!

i would say trimmed but not totally shaved...and def not totally unmessed with!lol

yeah....i agree with what everyone has said so far!! i just wanted to add that when ur b/f says that hes waited for you for 4 months...well idk...just 4 months doesnt seem to be that long of a time especially when youre only 16 (so am i)! but you shouldnt do anything youre not ready for...if he loves you he'll understand!

yeah...i have to agree with mephesto...DONT push her head down...it might make her feel like she's not doing good enough and might pressure her!! also...about the taste...i really dont taste anything...a little salty maybe but thats it!

i know exactly how you feel!! The whole time ur worried about what he's thinking about you and just totally nervous about the whole thing!! i dont really know what to tell you to help you not be so self-conscience. I was always really worried about it too...but my boyfriend always made me feel really confortable about everything and now i dont even think about it!! I kno ur think ur totally ok w/ having ur b/f finger u or eat u out or w/e, and you might be, but maybe its kind of a subconcience thing and ur really not ready?!...idk...just trying to help!! I guess just try not to worry about it!!

yeah...like psipro said...its more work to clean up spitting...and even more work to clean up if you dont let him cum in ur mouth at all! i personally dont mind letting my b/f cum in my mouth...its not really a big deal...its just kind of more convientient!lol so to be honest...unless you just dont like it or something...its easier to just swallow!lol

As a girl i think one of the most important things to remember when fingering a girl is to be GENTLE! I think guys tend to think the faster and harder the better...but thats just usually not the case with girls (like gilgamesh said). And dont be afraid to ask her what she likes...it may seem like it would be awkward but she'll appreciate that you care enough to find out what she likes!

like garnz said...it would probly be best to start out rubbing thru her clothes. and at first w/ my b/f he would put just his fingertips under the waistband of my pants or w/e...then take his hand away. he did this a couple times before actually doing anything! So that would give her a chance to stop you if she felt uncomfortable!!

(for the guys) what do you like? i kno everyone's different...but just general tips?! also...ive heard that guys prefer if a girl doesnt pull back before he cums...in other words, she lets him cum in her mouth whether she swallows it or not...is this true?!