Mattyboy

This song by Robbie Williams called: 'No Regrets' makes me feel a bit better everytime I hear it! Tell me a story Where we all change And we'd live our lives together And not estranged I didn't lose my mind it was Mine to give away Couldn't stay to watch me cry You didn't have the time So I softly slip away... No regrets they don't work No regrets they only hurt Sing me a love song Drop me a line Suppose it's just a point of view But they tell me I'm doing fine I know from the outside We looked good for each other Felt things were going wrong When you didn't like my mother I don't want to hate but that's All you've left me with A bitter aftertaste and a fantasy of How we all could live No regrets they don't work No regrets they only hurt (We've been told you stay up late) I know they're still talking (You're far too short to carry weight) The demons in your head (Return the videos they're late) If I could just stop hating you (Goodbye) I'd feel sorry for us instead Remember the photographs (insane) The ones where we all laugh (so lame) We were having the time of our lives Well thank you it was a real blast No regrets they don't work No regrets they only hurt Write me a love song Drop me a line Suppose it's just a point of view But they tell me I'm doing fine Everything I wanted to be every Time I walked away Every time you told me to leave I just wanted to stay Every time you looked at me and Every time you smiled I felt so vacant you treat me like a child I loved the way we used to laugh I loved the way we used to smile Often I sit down and think of you For a while Then it passes by me and I think of Someone else instead I guess the love we once had is Officially dead -------------------------------------------- Now Thats what you call Closure!!!

IT = HELL

No cure I can think of cept time but there you go. Just hope you don't tar all british males with the same brush! There are some good ones around. Mattyboy

God I'm not sure what to say to that.......... except: f ing hell you romantic bugger!! you will get stronger I promise, just don't do anything daft (You know what I mean) I went through it 5 mths ago as I'm sure you know if you read my first reply (the one with the link) I'll be blunt and honest: It will hurt for some time and it's very patronising but time is a great healer just give yourself some, go out and try and meet people, take a dog for a walk, go see your grandparents (or someone elses lol) talk to them - I find there great at listening! and they also make you cakes an stuff!

Toronto? I've got a mate in the UK who comes from there, all he ever talks about is flipping hockey and how good he was etc.... I know the likelyhood is about 1 in 1000000 but his name's Nick Wilson. so there you go. Come to Europe anyway bugger it I know that if I was planning to go to Canada I'd still be going, bring a mate You'll have healed enough by then and you can wander round knowing thats shes missed out! should cheer you up. Stay clear of France though It's full of err... French (your not French Canadian are you??) lol Mattyboy

sorry to hear it mate, I've had the same thing done to me link removed But All I can say is it does get better I told my ex to F off and let me get on with my life and now I'm with a lovely girl who I feel I can share myself with, IT WILL HAPPEN but does take time. Mattyboy Where Are you BTW (Location wise)? P.s not that I'm sure you care at the moment but you don't want to be a Goldfish as they have a lot longer memory than 3 seconds (trust me I've a degree in marine biology!) some have been traind to come to the sound of a bell and then retested ten years later and they still come!! anyway enough of the fishy lesson.

Ah right............. Hmm....... so let me get this right: your both online on msn? - you both know the others online? and your not sure whether to message her? hmm.... try saying 'Boo!' anything that doesn't sound to desperate - and see what happens -

I'm 29 and still have no idea as to what makes a girl tick!!! there a bizarre species.... then again so are us men. she may get bored if you give her nothing to go on - all I meant was go slow - it's like fishing you need to play the fish before you can land it (depending on the size of the hook and the strength of the line of course! lol) (sorry girls)

Let her chase you! by all means message back but don't lie down for her!

dpressedone89: I'm glad we helped - Changing the subject slightly I'm not sure I can offer any help on the girl you like as i'm 29 and still have no idea what goes on in a girls mind!!! lol As to the burning - please be careful the last thing you need is to get hurt/hurt someone else or get arrested! at least you'll have some support from someone who understands what you've been through when you quit together, just keep at it there will be good and bad times but the good will over shadow the bad if you keep positive about it. good luck mate. Mattyboy

dude - Please don't do it. this is going to sound really patronising but it has to be said and one day you will understand: Your 15 years old you have your whole life ahead of you - i can hardly remember being under that age nothing great happened to me till i was around 20ish - now look at me: scars on my wrists, damaged kidneys, and general scars all over from the bad times. but look at the bright side: 4 BEAUTIFUL children - Successful business, loving family and good friends Non of these good things where there when i was your age but the bad things will always be there as a reminder, Christ I wish i hadn't hurt myself so much. as I said at the start: Please don't do it. you will get through this with some help..... were here if needed......................?

Just a bit........! It's just gone 12 midnight here and i'm up for work in 6 hrs so if it's ok with you i'll leave you to it till then, to knock some sense into someone (mentioning no names!!) I may be V.new here but believe me when i say i know what i'm talking about. Life is just far to precious to throw it away Mattyboy edit/ oh and those web links you gave Avman make good advice reading please 'Toggle' have a look b4 you make your choice

You beat me to it there Avman I'm going to assume it said what I was thinking?? Mattyboy

How longs a piece of string??? - You'll know when the time is right....

P.s I know it's hard getting people to understand how you feel - but sometimes just having someone to listen to you can help so as a risk i'm going to point you in the direction of my website below (www), that's my number on the front page on the business card at the bottom feel free to call ( I'll even call you back if it helps) Mattyboy