Simple question for both sexes...

[jordan_2]

What is one major turn off, and one major turn on about the opposite sex for you?

explain further if you must

 

(p.s. please try to keep it away from the sexual connotation and lean a little more towards personality and the person in general)

[lonelyandblue]

Turn off arrogance, turn on patience.

[kenneth05]

>keep it away from the sexual connotation and

well...

oh, never mind.

[BellaDonna]

lean a little more towards personality

 

major turn on: positive attitude towards life/sense of humor/self-motivation

 

major turn off: chauvinsim/self-absorbed/closed-minded

[darkblue]

Turn On (personality) : Affectionate/Caring.

 

Turn Off : Lying, Cheating and most importantly; if they can't open up.

[RayKay]

Turn ons: Positivity, Confidence, Respect, Open Heart & Mind, Empathy/Compassionate, Active/Motivated, Affectionate, Intelligent, Witty, "Balance" in their life and priorities....

 

Turn offs: Arrogance, Obnoxious, Dishonest, Dishonourable, Disrespectful, Selfish/Self-absorbed, Close-Minded & Close-Hearted, Workaholics, Addictive Personalities, Lazy, Narcisstic...

 

Well, I know there is likely more on each side but that's way more than one on either side!

[GettingOverIt]

Turn On: Friendly, Funny, Can talk about a variety of topics

 

Turn Off: Cussing as a general means of communication

[OceanEyes]

Biggest turn-on A great sense of humour or a great conversationalist.

 

Biggest turn-off: Immaturity, or a guy who never has anything good to say about other people.

[ehm doubleyou]

Turn on: A sense of closeness to ones partner physically and mentally

 

Turn off: women who complain about their weight constantly when in reality they look great.

[Aishin86]

Turn on : Great personality, someone with similar interests, and also someone is a great counselor..

 

Turn off : A women who is all talk but contradicts what she says by the way she acts

[DN]

Turn on: Honesty

Turn off: Manipulative

[DropToZero]

Turn on : Great personality, someone with similar interests, and also someone is a great counselor..

 

Turn off : A women who is all talk but contradicts what she says by the way she acts

 

I'll second that, especially the turn-off.

[chai714]

Turn-On: Intellectual challenge

 

Turn-Off: Ignorance, stupidity

[volution]

Turn on: Spirituality - gives the ability to see a relationship as a means to teach, heal, share, learn, grow, create, inspire each other and others through one another's love and energy.

 

Turn off: Silence - not replying or responding when they said they would.

[Stari]

Turn-On: She is on my side.

 

Turn-Off: She tells me about another man.

[Kaia]

Turn-On: he's kind to others, not just to me. Intelligent and funny.

 

Turn-Off: arrogance, constant negative look on life / blame others for failures.

[thefoot]

Turn on: Telling me you want me. Doesnt have to be sexually or anything but straight out saying how much you like me once in a while.

 

Being a LITTLE bit of a tease. This might sound strange but I love it when girls act a bit mysterious and hard to get. the thing that wrecks it though is when they dont know when to stop.

 

Turn offs: Being full of it. I hate girls who think they are all that and can get whatever they want.

 

Girls who play hard to get too much. A little is hot. Too much is such a turn off.

[MetallicAguy]

Turn on: Sense of humor/laid-back/talks a lot (but really what girl doesn't talk a lot? lol)

 

Turn off: Only cares about school, takes life too seriously (doesn't mean I like a girl that doesn't care about life and does drugs), doesn't work out (toning herself, especially abs muscular women , bug eyes, constant staring at you ALL the time -- like pressure for a relationship is kind of what it means to me, ditsy oh my god ditsy girls are just such a turn off (i.e. Jessica Simpson ).

[thefoot]

Turn on: Sense of humor/laid-back/talks a lot (but really what girl doesn't talk a lot? lol)

 

Turn off: Only cares about school, takes life too seriously (doesn't mean I like a girl that doesn't care about life and does drugs), doesn't work out (toning herself, especially abs muscular women , bug eyes, constant staring at you ALL the time -- like pressure for a relationship is kind of what it means to me, ditsy oh my god ditsy girls are just such a turn off (i.e. Jessica Simpson ).

 

O wow are ditsy girls ever a turn off. I hate disty people.

[easyguy]

Turn-ons: Open-minded, down-to-earth

 

Turn-offs: Lazy (in general), naturally flirty, always seeks attention

[Dre_7]

Turn on: A girl who knows how to nurture those she cares for

Turn off: A girl with "me against the world" syndrome, as in she thinks everyone is against her...kinda like a guys hate me because they can't have me, and girls hate me because their guys want me

[Jack_Frost]

Turn on: Kindness.

Turn off: A "I'm better than everyone else" attitude.

[blondjeanyis2009]

turn ons- of course looks is a given, a guy who is happy, loving, respectful, loves life, nice, positive, musical (in any way)...lots of things

 

turn offs- over weight, mean, cares only about sex

[Caterina]

Turn on: Intelligent, charming, confident, kind, gentle.

Turn off: Mean spirited, low self esteem, negative, superficial, focused on limited things...

[JRM]

Turn Ons: interesting, open-minded, focused, but not tunnel-minded

 

Turn offs: concieded, sl**ty, hypocritical

 

Oh, and I absolutely hate when girls pick on and talk about each other because they're insecure about their own selves.