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Guys love to be approached. Girls are used to the guys approaching them, and not having to approach the guy. A lot of women I know don't understand what it takes to approach a stranger, so they dont really care very much whena guy does. but guys find it really flattering and if hes interested at all he won't turn you down.

sorry, I meant that its hard for a guy to last, when every part of your body and brain are screaming at you to cum.

Though I'm new to sex me and my girlfriend recently began. It was my first time but not hers, and she told me over and over again that she was really surprised at how long I lasted (and how good I was, but thats besides the point ) which was about twenty some minutes, maybe half an hour. however she said the second time that it was still really good, just that it starts to actually hurt a little bit after a while, so now I try to finish around 20 minutes, depending on if she seems to still be getting alot out of it. To answer your question, yes it is hard, and I think the reason I was able to stay so long was because I had been having no sex and so I had continued masturbating, and had actually once already that day ( i was not expecting to have sex that day). You need to talk to your boyfriend (if you have one) about things you like and dont like. If he is any kind of a decent person and loves you he will want to please you as much as possible. I know I wouldnt enjoy it at all if she wasn't.

probably if she weighs more then me.

Okay, that title sounded weird, but since I have braces for a little bit, and my teeth are not the most attractive right now, what are some other subtle hints to letting a girl know you are interested in them? At parties and things like that, I used to smile if I caught a girl looking at me who I was interested in. However now with the braces, even though I'm pretty sure once we have talked for a bit they wont mind the braces, some girls wont give you a chance if they notice you have them before they talk to you.

The most attractive thing in a girl to me is that she is affectionate. not as in sex, but just someone who really like being close to me and being held or likes to put her head on my shoulder, that type of thing. after that the most attractive thing to me is someone who is seems innocent and who is sort of quiet and shy, but smart, and smiles alot. physically, the most attractive thing to me is a small petite girl. The main thing that I find unattractive is a loud, cocky, full of herself type girl. I dont have anything against tomboy kind of girls, but usually those two seem to go together.

To me they can mean very different things: Cute/Pretty- usually petite but not always, and is affectionate and smiles alot. a cute girl to me is someone who is usually quiet, and just seems sort of innocent. That doesnt mean they arent sexy, just that they are attractive in a different way. Beautiful- can really be applied to any type of girl. You can have a beautiful hot girl, a beautiful cute girl or whatever. Beautiful just means they are attractive in some way. Hot- These are the girls that, when you see them, all you think about is sex. These girls sometimes mean trouble. they are almost the opposite of cute, because they dont seem innocent at all. At least thats how I describe girls to my friends. I'll tell them she's cute if shes more the girl next door or hot if she looks like a one night stand kind of girl. To me a cute/pretty girl is way more attractive than a hot girl.

I would see her once, MAYBE twice more and if you still arent feeling it by then, well its probably not the right one for you.

Thanks for the thoughts. I did tell her how I felt, I said I wanted to be more then just friends, to which she told me well I want to see where things are going, maybe it will happen. How can you reply to that without coming on way to strong or acting like a jerk? you cant really. I'm not looking for another friend, I have lots. I am looking for a relationship. I want to tell her that but shes not one those girls you are talking, about, trust me I have dated them. She was sincere. I just couldnt say that, especially since her friend is dating my friend, and her friends are basically my friends.

So I met this girl a couple weeks ago, and we hung out quite a bit, talked to each other alot (txting or the phone) and we have made out etc. (nothing under the clothes though). she told me today she didnt know if we were dating or what, but she wanted to be friends for now, and see where things are going. She told me I'm a nice guy and its not that I did something but she doesnt want things to get weird. Apparently she told her friend (who told my friends) that I liked her more then she liked me. Anyways I took that as " I don't really like you like that" but she still wants to hang out and be friends. She makes it seem like maybe it will happen, but I dont want to spend all my life chasing asfter this girl if she doesnt like me. Also I had gotten her a necklace (nothing big) while on a trip with my friend, and I was going to give it to her, but now I dont know if I should. My friend says I should, but I dont want to make things weird, and I'm not sure I want to give it to her anymore. Sorry for the long post but can someone please give me their opinions on this?

There are some girls I know who are taller then me 5'5 who I think are gorgeous but I would never even consider going out with them because of the height difference. Its not the girl its just all the things that go along with a short guy going out with a tall girl. Plus shorter girls tend to be a turn on.

She has never been "mean or nasty" before this. I'm not going to abandon ship though. I like her and I'm pretty sure she knows that. I'll ask her out next time I talk to her in person unless something like this happens again, then I'll take it as a sign and forget about it.

Ok so I have caught the girl I like staring at me a few times in class and she has caught me etc. and we talk and flirt a little, but tonight she told me that she was having people over and did not even mention inviting me. Now ormally this would not be a big deal but she made it seem like she was having quite a few people over and that she thought it was funny I wasn't invited. I thought maybe she was interested but now I think she isn't. Just looking for a second opinion.

Maybe he didnt know you wanted to, and didnt want you to know he was hard?

I am always checking girls out. I think every guy does it. I cant help it really but most of these women I would never date EVER. Most of them are stuck up and its the old high school stereotype of the popular girls. And I am pretty popular and I probably could go out with them, but i never would. I dont think checking out someone who is really hot is such a bad thing though. Its hard not to admire beauty of any kind INCLUDING physical beauty.

They all have or have had GF's, and they are pretty popular. They are on the basketball and football teams and all that. I dont think they are jealous. They have never liked her, even before this. She is not sleezy or anything like that and she hasnt ever done anything for them to not like her. I think she is goodlooking, but they don't. And please dont insult my friends. They may be immature at timese but they look out for me. They arent perfect but no one is.

I dont know why they don't like her. She treats me fine. I think they just dont think she is cool. They have known her longer then me and they have never liked her but have never given a reason.

I am attracted to this girl, and I think she is attracted to me, but my friends don't really like her. I am in highschool so its hard when your friends dont get along with someone you like. Also they don't think she is "cool" and they say that if I went out with her I would just be taking whatever i can get (I'm not). So I like this girl but I also value my friends alot and I dont want to lose them.

sorry about the double post but also this might actually turn out to be a good thing. High School is when you will want to trying new things and meeting new people. If you try to stay together throughout highschool it will be very difficult. Maybe in the future after highschool, and after you have tried other people etc. you will find that you both still love each other. Or maybe you will find that you really did not love her as much as you thought.

This exact same thing happened to me. She left and we were both depressed for a long time but we got over it. I still talk to her and she visits several times a year. There are still feelings for each other but we haven't acted on them. Maybe when we are both moved out and in University (she is coming to mine) we will try it again. Overall our relationship was one of the things I value most in my life so far. I learned a lot from it and I think it really was when I started to mature as a person. Anyways what Im trying to say is cherish it while it lasts and grow from it.

Hey I have the same deal and I am uncircumcised. Except that for some reason i also have them on my top lip. They are really small white bumps and I thought they wre pimples or something so I squeezed one. Nothing happened except it hurt and i made my lip bleed. I dont see how it could be an std seeing as how I have never had sex and I had them before I ever made out with anyone. Still I dont know what they are.

O wow are ditsy girls ever a turn off. I hate disty people.

That is what i have been thinking but there is still asmall voice saying I shouldnt. All of the girls my age who are going out with older guys are much less mature then I am. I dont want to sound full of it but it is true. They think that getting drunk and smoking and drugs make you cool. To be honest I think the whole Girsl mature faster thing is a bunch of nonsense. physically yes but mentally I dont think so. I will try it though and hopefully it isnt jsut because i am older. And if it is hopefully soon they will like me for me.

I have always thought that all those older guys dating all of the girls my age were sleezebags, and that the girls dating them were doing it because it made them feel cool, more mature, older etc. In fact this was probably my biggest pet peeve. But now I am one of those older guys, and there are several girls who are showing interest in me. They are all in grade 9 though and I am in grade 10. I dont want to be one of those sleezebag guys and I dont want them to like me just because I am older. At the same time I would like to date some of these girls and they are throwing a lot of attention at me. Should I be going out with them?