jordan_2 Posted September 1, 2005 Share Posted September 1, 2005 What is one major turn off, and one major turn on about the opposite sex for you? explain further if you must (p.s. please try to keep it away from the sexual connotation and lean a little more towards personality and the person in general) Link to comment
lonelyandblue Posted September 1, 2005 Share Posted September 1, 2005 Turn off arrogance, turn on patience. Link to comment
kenneth05 Posted September 1, 2005 Share Posted September 1, 2005 >keep it away from the sexual connotation and well... oh, never mind. Link to comment
BellaDonna Posted September 1, 2005 Share Posted September 1, 2005 lean a little more towards personality major turn on: positive attitude towards life/sense of humor/self-motivation major turn off: chauvinsim/self-absorbed/closed-minded Link to comment
darkblue Posted September 1, 2005 Share Posted September 1, 2005 Turn On (personality) : Affectionate/Caring. Turn Off : Lying, Cheating and most importantly; if they can't open up. Link to comment
RayKay Posted September 1, 2005 Share Posted September 1, 2005 Turn ons: Positivity, Confidence, Respect, Open Heart & Mind, Empathy/Compassionate, Active/Motivated, Affectionate, Intelligent, Witty, "Balance" in their life and priorities.... Turn offs: Arrogance, Obnoxious, Dishonest, Dishonourable, Disrespectful, Selfish/Self-absorbed, Close-Minded & Close-Hearted, Workaholics, Addictive Personalities, Lazy, Narcisstic... Well, I know there is likely more on each side but that's way more than one on either side! Link to comment
GettingOverIt Posted September 1, 2005 Share Posted September 1, 2005 Turn On: Friendly, Funny, Can talk about a variety of topics Turn Off: Cussing as a general means of communication Link to comment
OceanEyes Posted September 1, 2005 Share Posted September 1, 2005 Biggest turn-on A great sense of humour or a great conversationalist. Biggest turn-off: Immaturity, or a guy who never has anything good to say about other people. Link to comment
ehm doubleyou Posted September 1, 2005 Share Posted September 1, 2005 Turn on: A sense of closeness to ones partner physically and mentally Turn off: women who complain about their weight constantly when in reality they look great. Link to comment
Aishin86 Posted September 1, 2005 Share Posted September 1, 2005 Turn on : Great personality, someone with similar interests, and also someone is a great counselor.. Turn off : A women who is all talk but contradicts what she says by the way she acts Link to comment
DN Posted September 1, 2005 Share Posted September 1, 2005 Turn on: Honesty Turn off: Manipulative Link to comment
DropToZero Posted September 1, 2005 Share Posted September 1, 2005 Turn on : Great personality, someone with similar interests, and also someone is a great counselor.. Turn off : A women who is all talk but contradicts what she says by the way she acts I'll second that, especially the turn-off. Link to comment
chai714 Posted September 1, 2005 Share Posted September 1, 2005 Turn-On: Intellectual challenge Turn-Off: Ignorance, stupidity Link to comment
volution Posted September 1, 2005 Share Posted September 1, 2005 Turn on: Spirituality - gives the ability to see a relationship as a means to teach, heal, share, learn, grow, create, inspire each other and others through one another's love and energy. Turn off: Silence - not replying or responding when they said they would. Link to comment
Stari Posted September 1, 2005 Share Posted September 1, 2005 Turn-On: She is on my side. Turn-Off: She tells me about another man. Link to comment
Kaia Posted September 1, 2005 Share Posted September 1, 2005 Turn-On: he's kind to others, not just to me. Intelligent and funny. Turn-Off: arrogance, constant negative look on life / blame others for failures. Link to comment
thefoot Posted September 2, 2005 Share Posted September 2, 2005 Turn on: Telling me you want me. Doesnt have to be sexually or anything but straight out saying how much you like me once in a while. Being a LITTLE bit of a tease. This might sound strange but I love it when girls act a bit mysterious and hard to get. the thing that wrecks it though is when they dont know when to stop. Turn offs: Being full of it. I hate girls who think they are all that and can get whatever they want. Girls who play hard to get too much. A little is hot. Too much is such a turn off. Link to comment
MetallicAguy Posted September 2, 2005 Share Posted September 2, 2005 Turn on: Sense of humor/laid-back/talks a lot (but really what girl doesn't talk a lot? lol) Turn off: Only cares about school, takes life too seriously (doesn't mean I like a girl that doesn't care about life and does drugs), doesn't work out (toning herself, especially abs muscular women , bug eyes, constant staring at you ALL the time -- like pressure for a relationship is kind of what it means to me, ditsy oh my god ditsy girls are just such a turn off (i.e. Jessica Simpson ). Link to comment
thefoot Posted September 2, 2005 Share Posted September 2, 2005 Turn on: Sense of humor/laid-back/talks a lot (but really what girl doesn't talk a lot? lol) Turn off: Only cares about school, takes life too seriously (doesn't mean I like a girl that doesn't care about life and does drugs), doesn't work out (toning herself, especially abs muscular women , bug eyes, constant staring at you ALL the time -- like pressure for a relationship is kind of what it means to me, ditsy oh my god ditsy girls are just such a turn off (i.e. Jessica Simpson ). O wow are ditsy girls ever a turn off. I hate disty people. Link to comment
easyguy Posted September 2, 2005 Share Posted September 2, 2005 Turn-ons: Open-minded, down-to-earth Turn-offs: Lazy (in general), naturally flirty, always seeks attention Link to comment
Dre_7 Posted September 2, 2005 Share Posted September 2, 2005 Turn on: A girl who knows how to nurture those she cares for Turn off: A girl with "me against the world" syndrome, as in she thinks everyone is against her...kinda like a guys hate me because they can't have me, and girls hate me because their guys want me Link to comment
Jack_Frost Posted September 2, 2005 Share Posted September 2, 2005 Turn on: Kindness. Turn off: A "I'm better than everyone else" attitude. Link to comment
blondjeanyis2009 Posted September 3, 2005 Share Posted September 3, 2005 turn ons- of course looks is a given, a guy who is happy, loving, respectful, loves life, nice, positive, musical (in any way)...lots of things turn offs- over weight, mean, cares only about sex Link to comment
Caterina Posted September 8, 2005 Share Posted September 8, 2005 Turn on: Intelligent, charming, confident, kind, gentle. Turn off: Mean spirited, low self esteem, negative, superficial, focused on limited things... Link to comment
JRM Posted September 9, 2005 Share Posted September 9, 2005 Turn Ons: interesting, open-minded, focused, but not tunnel-minded Turn offs: concieded, sl**ty, hypocritical Oh, and I absolutely hate when girls pick on and talk about each other because they're insecure about their own selves. Link to comment
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