You want your ex back? Things to avoid certain doom!

[rajorani]

can someone please reply to my post! (#980), i'm feeling quite lost!!

[willsma]

I read this about 10 minutes too late! I saw my ex husband a couple of weeks ago and every emotion came rushing back. The floodgate had opened. So, I wrote an email (there was stuff that needed to be said that I couldn't say or see back then). He was so not happy and asked me to disappear. It was kind of awful. So, I am thinking that the email was misconstrued as a he said she said thing. I bit the bullet and wrote back that I was still not over him. Talk about torture! We have been divorced for a year and a half and I still am in love with him. Make it stop!

[SuperDave71]

Willsma,

 

If you want to get better ....you can do it. Write letters or post how you feel. We can help you along the way.

 

 

I wish you the best,

 

 

-SuperDave71

[willsma]

thank you. I just want my life back. Everyone else seems to be passing me by...we are both online at match - sometimes at the same time! It just hurts so much and the pain is still so intense. When will it subside? When will i be able to let someone else in? Will he ever want me back.

[mikeca]

My pain subsided after a few months...NC has helped it even further...I'd use to break down at work whenever I'd hear certain songs but now I'm stronger and I realize that without this pain we would not cherrish the happiness.

[BONO]

SD,

I would love this this thread to get to 1000 posts as it was one of the first threads I ever read,so without sounding like a stalker I have a question for this thread.

 

... How did you get your ex back and avoid certain doom ???

 

1) NC was broken - although you have said you were in a position that was healthy to do so. How did you know that ? What are the signs/feelings

 

2)Even so "being in a healthy situation" how can you really know this will never happen again

 

3) What was the framework from NC to a sucessful reconcilation

 

4) Have you avioded certain DOOM

[BONO]

Superdave,

 

Just bumping this to the top, just in case you missed it mate, with all the new threads that have been posted. Still would love to know the above , given the forum of "getting back together "

 

 

I will understand if you cant, but let us know one way or another - I hate NC from a fellow enotalone member xx

 

 

 

Thanks SD,

 

Scruffy J

[SuperDave71]

Scruffism,

 

I will try and answer your question as soon as I can ok?

 

 

 

I haven't forgotten about you.

 

 

 

Your Friend,

 

SuperDave71

[BONO]

Scruffism,

 

I will try and answer your question as soon as I can ok?

 

 

 

I haven't forgotten about you.

 

 

 

Your Friend,

 

SuperDave71

 

 

 

Excellent !

 

 

Thanks

 

 

 

Scruff

[BONO]

Scruffism,

 

I will try and answer your question as soon as I can ok?

 

 

 

I haven't forgotten about you.

 

 

 

Your Friend,

 

SuperDave71

 

 

 

How we doing out there SD ?? !

 

 

Scruff

[SuperDave71]

I will try to get this don tonight for you ok?

 

 

 

I haven't forgotten.

 

 

 

-SuperDave71

[BONO]

I will try to get this don tonight for you ok?

 

 

 

I haven't forgotten.

 

 

 

-SuperDave71

 

 

I know mate ! Just chomping at the bit. Ha ha !!

 

 

Scruff

[melrich]

super dave?? did u read the first post i made at the end of page 98..i really really would like to know wat u think..im goin crazy over here :sad:

 

likewise same page.

 

can someone please reply to my post! (#980), i'm feeling quite lost!!

 

Hi Guys,

 

You will get more responses to your queries if you post your questions as new posts on the main forum.

[mikeca]

I support the 1000 post quest this is a great topic for all to read.

[BONO]

I support the 1000 post quest this is a great topic for all to read.

 

 

It would be good to get this to 1000 - but even better if Dave was the person to post the 1000th

 

 

 

Scruff

[pablovblack]

Come on Dave your next man!!!

[SuperDave71]

I am almost thru....Hold tight!

 

 

ha ha ha

 

 

 

-SuperDave71

[SuperDave71]

Oh what the heck!!!

 

WOOO HOOOOO 1000 replies!!! and going strong!

 

Thank you everyone for keeping this going and I hope this has helped..

 

 

 

-SuperDave71

[BONO]

Good effort SD !

 

Scruff

[majord23]

Oh what the heck!!!

 

Haha....yeah, like you weren't waiting for that at all

 

Good thread mate.

[BONO]

SD,

I would love this this thread to get to 1000 posts as it was one of the first threads I ever read,so without sounding like a stalker I have a question for this thread.

 

... How did you get your ex back and avoid certain doom ???

 

1) NC was broken - although you have said you were in a position that was healthy to do so. How did you know that ? What are the signs/feelings

 

2)Even so "being in a healthy situation" how can you really know this will never happen again

 

3) What was the framework from NC to a sucessful reconcilation

 

4) Have you avioded certain DOOM

 

 

 

 

 

 

Please .... with sugar on top pal ???

 

 

Thanks

 

 

 

Scruff

[mikeca]

figured I'd reply to this thread...had a bit of a down day today.. 3 weeks nc 3 months since breakup. Thought of her alot today..I work with one of her best friends so that and the music we play at work reminds me of it alot..i guess i shouldnt forget anniversary would be next week. ahh time to goto the gym..

[painterchic]

wow i too wish i read this earlier. i finally told my fb last week (see previous posts) that i cant see him again that ive had enough the sick part of me wants him to see what he has missed and changed his attitude)

[finsjm]

New to this - but just posted something and I agree 100%. I think space and time to miss someone is the ONLY Way the will know what they want. That being said - I hope it works for me!! lol

 

Jenn

[SuperDave71]

Hey Jenn,

 

Welcome to eNotAlone..

 

You can do it.

 

 

 

-SuperDave71