Boyfriend watching teen porn

[Bee11]

Should I be worried if my boyfriend is watching teen 18 year old porn ? Mind you he’s 30 I’m 29 don’t know how to feel about it I’m fine that he watches porn but why 18 year old isn’t that illegal in Texas? 

[smackie9]

It's possible that those ladies are not 18 but are portrayed as being 18. The things is, do you approve of him watching porn to begin with. 

[Batya33]

If it's legal you would be ok with it?

[Bee11]

Yeah I’m okay with it . I just find it disturbing by what the title said F my 18 year old step daughter idk but I get what you are saying 

[Batya33]

Just now, Bee11 said:

Yeah I’m okay with it . I just find it disturbing by what the title said F my 18 year old step daughter idk but I get what you are saying 

You're ok with it and you find it disturbing? That seems.... inconsistent.

[Bee11]

I’m okay with him watching porn but not 18 year old especially if it says ***ing my 18 year old step daughter 

[Batya33]

Just now, Bee11 said:

I’m okay with him watching porn but not 18 year old especially if it says ***ing my 18 year old step daughter 

But if it's legal then you would be ok with it or still disturbed and not ok? How about telling him you feel disturbed by it?

[Bee11]

Both I’m not ok with it. And yeah I’m going to talk to him about it 

[Batya33]

5 minutes ago, Bee11 said:

Both I’m not ok with it. And yeah I’m going to talk to him about it 

Good idea!

[Bee11]

Thanks yeah I just wasn’t sure if I should talk to him about because idk if that’s what men do now idk but I do have to talk to him about if not it’s going to bother me all day 

[Batya33]

2 minutes ago, Bee11 said:

Thanks yeah I just wasn’t sure if I should talk to him about because idk if that’s what men do now idk but I do have to talk to him about if not it’s going to bother me all day 

Who cares if "men" do whatever -is it ok with you? If not then you talk to him.  No it is not what men or women do.  Certain individuals enjoy watching porn.  

[Kwothe28]

Age of consent in Texas is 17 so its legal. Are you worried about the implications(that he has a hots for very young women) or that he just watches porn in general? Because if you are not condoning watching porn, what kind of porn he watches is irrelevant. 

[Wiseman2]

28 minutes ago, Bee11 said:

 . I just find it disturbing by what the title said F my 18 year old step daughter 

Increasingly extreme porn could indicate a habit forming. Try not to be so "ok" with it or police the content but do pay attention to signs of dependency.  Porn usually thrives on shocking titles.

[Cherylyn]

He's a sick puppy.  Dump him.  You can do better.  Much better.

[MissCanuck]

It's legal (if the performers really are at least 18, that is)

But that doesn't mean you need to be okay it. You're allowed to have a boundary for yourself. 

[Cynder]

16 hours ago, Bee11 said:

I’m okay with him watching porn but not 18 year old especially if it says ***ing my 18 year old step daughter 

Are you more upset that the girls are portrayed as 18 year olds or that the situations are stuff like step dad/step daughter? Etc.

[Wiseman2]

16 hours ago, Bee11 said:

 it says ***ing my 18 year old step daughter 

You don't actually believe porn titles are real, do you? Hopefully you realize they are actors and the titles are designed to attract viewers for revenue.  It's no different than a horror movie titled "vampires from mars ate my dog" .

[smackie9]

If you catch him leering at young girls irl then yes you do have a problem on your hands. 

[gamon]

22 hours ago, Cherylyn said:

He's a sick puppy.  Dump him.  You can do better.  Much better.

Teen porn is my favorite, especially two teens giving oral to a guy, I sort of pretend it's me.

And I'm 60 years old.

 

[boltnrun]

Are you worried he's going to leave you for an 18 year old?

[Bee11]

12 hours ago, Wiseman2 said:

You don't actually believe porn titles are real, do you? Hopefully you realize they are actors and the titles are designed to attract viewers for revenue.  It's no different than a horror movie titled "vampires from mars ate my dog" .

 Yeah that’s exactly what he had told me when I had asked him 

[Bee11]

1 hour ago, boltnrun said:

Are you worried he's going to leave you for an 18 year old?

No I’m not 

[Coily]

In all reality you could have 70 year olds in that with the same title.

I think this is a strange mountain to pick for your relationship's fight. If it were just porn that makes more sense. Or if it was actual underage, then he should be under a jail. But since it's titles in smut, then I think there are other fundamental problems here.