Valentines Day Message from Ex

[Anonymous]

My ex wrote me yesterday

“Wish you a nice Valentine's Day, sending love.”

Does this mean she has feelings and wants to her back together? I refused to meet for a year due to keeping me hidden on her social media and from her family and friends for almost 1.5 years while being in a ‘committed relationship’ with me while telling me lots of guys are writing her asking be her sugar daddy.
 

There were a lot of other things, but I’d rather not dwell on them.

 

[MissCanuck]

Maybe she's out of sugar daddies and figures you'll do. 

Why would even still be interested in someone like this? 

Kept you a secret. Was clearly offering her services somewhere (because "lots of men" don't just randomly contact a woman out of the blue asking to be her suggar daddy) 

Ignore her and aim higher. 

[Anonymous]

15 minutes ago, Guest Anonymous said:

I refused to meet for a year due to keeping me hidden on her social media and from her family and friends for almost 1.5 years 

How old is she? Is she an escort or sex worker? Why were you a secret for years? Have you met in person?

[Anonymous]

21 minutes ago, Guest Anonymous said:

How old is she? Is she an escort or sex worker? Why were you a secret for years? Have you met in person?

She’s 27. Single mother. She said some guys would message her on Instagram but she ignored them. Maybe she was trying to make me jealous. But, her aunt in Florida had sugar daddies pay for her house in a prestigious gated community and children’s school even though she is getting married to this nice guy.

Yes I met in person many times it was LDR. I asked why should refused to have us on Instagram and she said it annoyed her by me asking so she will only do so when “she chooses.”

Yet would get professional pictures of her and her son. Her Instagram almost looked like a dating profile to be honest. So I refused to meet up because it was strange, I’ll get messages to meet up and maybe only after would she “choose” to not hide me. Very strange. 

 

[Anonymous]

OP here - I’ll add that she used to give therapeutic massages part time (non sexual) but last year her boss gave her number to a client and he sent a message asking if she would do an all body massage. She showed me the message and said it creeped her out and she ignored him. So I never suspected any such thing.

[Anonymous]

29 minutes ago, Guest Anonymous said:

I met in person many times it was LDR.. Her Instagram almost looked like a dating profile to be honest.

Delete and block her. It's that simple. 

[MissCanuck]

There are so mand red flags about this person, OP. 

Block her and don't look back. 

[boltnrun]

Did you ever give her money?

[SooSad33]

Yeah, just ignore.  

You already know how she is... and you weren't happy.

Why go back to that?

[Kwothe28]

6 hours ago, Guest Anonymous said:

Her Instagram almost looked like a dating profile to be honest

Because in most cases it is dating profile. They attach it to dating site so they get followers and men attention. Its usually filled with them doing professional photoshoots, even on exotic destinations like Bali. Who paid for that? Well, usually a few guys like you.

As for why she didnt want to get your picture with her there, well, then the other men would take notice. And would withdraw their support. She has a successful aunt in that so she must have learned good. 

Also, they are really good in getting your attention. She knows she has you in her palm so its enough for a few messages here and there to take her back for more. Dont fall for that.

[Rose Mosse]

7 hours ago, Guest Anonymous said:

My ex wrote me yesterday

“Wish you a nice Valentine's Day, sending love.”

Does this mean she has feelings and wants to her back together? I refused to meet for a year due to keeping me hidden on her social media and from her family and friends for almost 1.5 years while being in a ‘committed relationship’ with me while telling me lots of guys are writing her asking be her sugar daddy.
 

There were a lot of other things, but I’d rather not dwell on them.

 

That is okay. She can send any message she wants. It doesn't mean you'll respond or give it the time of day. It seems very generic like this was copy and pasted to many contacts or mass-sent. Did she not even address you by your name? What is attractive to you about her? Is it just her physical appearance and the emotional attachment from any interactions you had prior? 

If you're still connected via social media, block her account. You're a source of income if she treats anyone as a sugar anything or ATM. 

Yes, best not to dwell. 

[poorlittlefish]

I got a Valentine's Day message with almost the exact same wording from my ex.  I ignored it because I know he's only ever made contact when he's single, bored and wanting attention.  I'd say that's what she's doing too.

[Spawn]

only entertain if she wants to send you an iPhone 13 pro max for valentines😉 ....if not ignore this its best for your health and well being!

[catfeeder]

Looks like you were on her mailing list.

[LootieTootie]

bread. crumbs.

[Tanzi]

On 2/15/2022 at 12:21 PM, Guest Anonymous said:

My ex wrote me yesterday

“Wish you a nice Valentine's Day, sending love.”

Does this mean she has feelings and wants to her back together? I refused to meet for a year due to keeping me hidden on her social media and from her family and friends for almost 1.5 years while being in a ‘committed relationship’ with me while telling me lots of guys are writing her asking be her sugar daddy.
 

There were a lot of other things, but I’d rather not dwell on them.

 

Maybe you shouldn't dwell on this either.  You ended things for a reason.  Stay with it.  Her sugar daddies are probably tired of her games too.

[Andrina]

It's so common for exes to reach out like this. Just about every guy I dated did this whether I broke up with him or he did the deed. These jerks don't care they are intruding into your life when you have, or should have, moved on. As Maya Angelou said, "When someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time. 

 

[Anonymous]

You're on her mailing list. She wants a donation.