saratyyu Posted August 9, 2019 Author Share Posted August 9, 2019 We meet at work and we where friends in the beginning than he ask me out when Ieft that work place. We been on holidays together, always look after me to make sure I'm fine etc. Two years ago he started behaving really bad and push me out of the car, treating me he is going to beat me up etc than my parents saw his msg and decided to do an arrange marriage for me (we both Asian I'm Indian he is Pakistani) but I managed to get away from that and I got back to him after him saying he is madly in love with me and he wants a future together. Since than we went on holidays together, we have a very good time with eachother but his moods change very quickly and is like another person when is getting angry but I know he has a good heart. We see eachother and go for dinner, drinks, movies sometimes spend the night together at a hotel or go for Spa trips etc. I'm very insecure since he started rejecting me saying he has better things to do than talking to me or meet up but than he apologized and said he was angry. Now idk what happened to brake up with me like that like we only meet up yesterday. We been through so much and I don't want to give up on him, I'm not the type of person to give up on things. What do you think ? Link to comment
Wiseman2 Posted August 9, 2019 Share Posted August 9, 2019 Are you married or living with your parents? Does he know your parents want an arranged marriage for you? he is going to beat me up etc than my parents saw his msg and decided to do an arrange marriage for me ( I'm Indian he is Pakistani) Link to comment
saratyyu Posted August 9, 2019 Author Share Posted August 9, 2019 I'm living with my parents and he knows everything about the arrange marriage. Link to comment
Wiseman2 Posted August 9, 2019 Share Posted August 9, 2019 Do you parents approve of him? Do his parents approve of you? Is he scheduled for an arranged marriage also? Have you met each other;s families? Are you from different religions, cultures or social classes? I'm living with my parents and he knows everything about the arrange marriage. Link to comment
itsallgrand Posted August 9, 2019 Share Posted August 9, 2019 I think the same as at the beginning of the thread. You should leave him alone. Link to comment
saratyyu Posted August 9, 2019 Author Share Posted August 9, 2019 Are family's don't approve of eachother. He is not getting an arranged marriage. He met my parents when he cone to give my stuff back when I broke up with him, I only meet his uncle. I'm Christian and he is Muslim. We both from same social classes. Btw he just text me saying I forgive you. What should I respond ? Link to comment
saratyyu Posted August 9, 2019 Author Share Posted August 9, 2019 He just text me saying I forgive you. Link to comment
boltnrun Posted August 9, 2019 Share Posted August 9, 2019 He just text me saying I forgive you. Cool, so now maybe he will push you out of a car again, swear at you, break up with you every few months... You know he sticks around because he knows other, stronger women will not put up with his abusive BS. Link to comment
saratyyu Posted August 9, 2019 Author Share Posted August 9, 2019 So you think he is with me only because I put up with his anger ? Link to comment
catfeeder Posted August 11, 2019 Share Posted August 11, 2019 So you think he is with me only because I put up with his anger ? He pushed you out of a car, and you still stuck around? What kind of outcome could you possibly hope for after that? Link to comment
saratyyu Posted August 11, 2019 Author Share Posted August 11, 2019 I didn't wanted to get off the car and he pushed me as in to get off not push me out if a moving vehicle. Link to comment
saratyyu Posted August 11, 2019 Author Share Posted August 11, 2019 I'm thinking now that he will want to brake up with me again everytime I say one thing wrong and give up on our 4 years relationship, how can I fix my trust issues ? Link to comment
boltnrun Posted August 11, 2019 Share Posted August 11, 2019 I'm thinking now that he will want to brake up with me again everytime I say one thing wrong and give up on our 4 years relationship, how can I fix my trust issues ? By being in a relationship with someone who's worthy of your trust. This guy isn't. Link to comment
loyal Posted August 12, 2019 Share Posted August 12, 2019 If you haven't figured it out by now, you probably won't. Link to comment
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