michaela514 Posted May 22, 2019 Share Posted May 22, 2019 Hi there I’m facing a big decision right now and it is whether I should break up with my partner or not. We live together, and at the start he seemed perfect and gentle and he used to do cute things for me but not so much anymore. Now he’s controlling with what I wear from makeup to clothes and discouraged me to go on a diet or to go to gym still because of his jealousy, I’m sure of it, and he does little things that’s annoy me such as playing very very rough when playfighting and doing things purposely to annoy me, like petty things. Or when I seem to be in a very down mood because of him and I’m like super upset he decides that the best thing to do is to leave home no matter the time, and each time I stopped him by forcing him to stay and telling him he doesn’t really love me if he will leave me at my worst and he won’t sit down instead to talk it out like adults. Still after that, he doesn’t really know how to talk things out. He can sometimes be disrespectful to me, making references to me cheating and bringing people over, or doing things when I’m in education hours. We even have a GPS on each other for Gods sake! + If I am not at college I am at home or doing grocery shopping out. He has no reason not to trust me in that way, I’ve never done even the littlest thing that was unfaithful to him. He also has very poor financial management and my parents have helped him numerous times with money but I feel like he’s taking advantage sometimes. Plus, we have different interests and I hate the career he’s pursuing because it is dangerous and he will be away from home most of the times for late hours. But he won’t give it up for anybody, even though at the start he said he would for me that has changed now, even though I would of never asked him to give up his dreams, I’m just saying at the start he was willing to for me. And I feel like that’s a sign feelings have changed or it was just a phase for him. I’ve spoken to my mother about this situation but I really need another point of view. It is hard for me to just break up with him because of these negative as I’ve gotten so used to being around him and having him next to me as a daily routine. I do love him, but I just don’t know what’s going on through his head when he does all those things? Please help Link to comment
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