Designlove710 Posted March 31, 2019 Share Posted March 31, 2019 So me and my now ex-boyfriend were together for a very long time. Almost 7 years. When we first started dating he met my group of friends and through the years we all had become very close. Doing everything together. Ive known these friends longer than I have been with my ex so its been almost a decade. Well of course after our breakup I let our friends know that we were separated and told them that i didn't want our breakup to deter me from seeing them. They all were very supportive and said that nothing would change our friendships. Its been about 2 weeks post-breakup and i have tried to lay low to deal with my emotions and learn to move on. I want to see my friends but im nervous to go hang out and run into him there. The anxiety is overwhelming. But i see from friends that he is hanging out with them. I dont know how to handle this. I shouldn't be having to sit at home while everyone is out having fun in fear that I will run into him. I don't want to seem selfish but they were my friends who he became friends with because of me and he has no problem just going out with them. Dont get me wrong me and my ex ended it on good terms. there is no bad blood between us. But seeing him frequently when im out with my friends wont help me move on. But at the same time I shouldn't lose time with friends because were not together anymore. I need any advice on how to be able to move on but still be able to hang with my friends. Please help. thanks! Link to comment
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