jujusamples Posted December 12, 2017 Share Posted December 12, 2017 This whole thread is super weird to me!! I think OP is in love with his friend... and she's married. I'm not sure what is the big deal with a friend not replying to to a texts? She could be busy, distracted or just missed the texts. It happens, deal with it! This sounds rather immature. If it's that important, then call her! Nothing wrong with calling her when she's at home. You guys are friends not lovers. You are not bothering anybody is you have something so important that you are willing to loose a friendship over for her to reply to. Link to comment
moneymkt Posted December 12, 2017 Author Share Posted December 12, 2017 This whole thread is super weird to me!! I think OP is in love with his friend... and she's married. I'm not sure what is the big deal with a friend not replying to to a texts? She could be busy, distracted or just missed the texts. It happens, deal with it! This sounds rather immature. If it's that important, then call her! Nothing wrong with calling her when she's at home. You guys are friends not lovers. You are not bothering anybody is you have something so important that you are willing to loose a friendship over for her to reply to. In love? This is about rudeness Link to comment
Batya33 Posted December 12, 2017 Share Posted December 12, 2017 In love? This is about rudeness You claim it is but it's really not- your reaction speaks volumes. Link to comment
Hollyj Posted December 12, 2017 Share Posted December 12, 2017 I suggest you read his history. A lot of drama! Link to comment
abitbroken Posted December 12, 2017 Share Posted December 12, 2017 I am fed up now with her rudeness when it comes to text messaging. She is married and we usually talk on the phone when she is on her way home from work. But recently I sent her 2 text messages since wednesday of this past week and she has not responded to either of them. I just think that is kind of ignorant and I now no interest in speaking with her for a while. How do you just ignore 2 text messages from a friend? Now I am not expecting a quick response but 4 days and nothing? I do think that I will remove the texting communication from our friendship starting in the new year because this is something I can't deal with anymore This is stupid. You talk ON THE PHONE with her. She is an ON THE PHONE type of person. she is not a big texter. And besides, when she is home, her husband comes first, not you. Okay - i think you should absolutely not talk to this friend anymore at all -- that way she can focus on he husband and not her male friend who is upset he is not front and center. Let her talk to more appropriate friends. Link to comment
Capricorn3 Posted December 12, 2017 Share Posted December 12, 2017 Does her husband know you meet her for lunch on weekends? Link to comment
moneymkt Posted December 12, 2017 Author Share Posted December 12, 2017 Does her husband know you meet her for lunch on weekends? That's a every 2 to 3 month thing Link to comment
boltnrun Posted December 12, 2017 Share Posted December 12, 2017 That's a every 2 to 3 month thing That doesn't answer the question. Link to comment
moneymkt Posted December 12, 2017 Author Share Posted December 12, 2017 That doesn't answer the question. I don't think he cares since it's a platonic friendship Link to comment
Honeycomb8 Posted December 12, 2017 Share Posted December 12, 2017 Her husbund still should know about it...Otherwise it's calling keeping things from him and that's dishonest isn't it. Link to comment
moneymkt Posted December 13, 2017 Author Share Posted December 13, 2017 Her husbund still should know about it...Otherwise it's calling keeping things from him and that's dishonest isn't it. she has been telling her husband about all my dating stories since 2013 so he knows what type of friendship we have Link to comment
Seraphim Posted December 13, 2017 Share Posted December 13, 2017 she has been telling her husband about all my dating stories since 2013 so he knows what type of friendship we have That is not what was asked. Does her husband know she has lunches and evening talks with you. Link to comment
moneymkt Posted December 13, 2017 Author Share Posted December 13, 2017 That is not what was asked. Does her husband know she has lunches and evening talks with you. whats wrong with her calling me while she is driving home? Link to comment
mustlovedogs Posted December 13, 2017 Share Posted December 13, 2017 whats wrong with her calling me while she is driving home? Answer the question... Does her husband know? Link to comment
Seraphim Posted December 13, 2017 Share Posted December 13, 2017 I think he doesn't know. If he did you would have a straight answer. It sounds like an emotional affair . Link to comment
moneymkt Posted December 13, 2017 Author Share Posted December 13, 2017 Answer the question... Does her husband know? I don't know if he does Link to comment
moneymkt Posted December 13, 2017 Author Share Posted December 13, 2017 I think he doesn't know. If he did you would have a straight answer. It sounds like an emotional affair . we were friends for over 12 years before he came into her life. So she wasn't she going to stop calling me Link to comment
mustlovedogs Posted December 13, 2017 Share Posted December 13, 2017 I’d call it an emotional affair too. Link to comment
moneymkt Posted December 13, 2017 Author Share Posted December 13, 2017 I’d call it an emotional affair too. why would you call it that? Link to comment
mustlovedogs Posted December 13, 2017 Share Posted December 13, 2017 why would you call it that? Because you speak frequently, hang outside somewhat predictably, get upset when she doesn’t respond to a text, and most importantly... you never talk to her around her husband. You’re a secret. A secret that talks to her way more than just platonic friends. Link to comment
abitbroken Posted December 13, 2017 Share Posted December 13, 2017 we were friends for over 12 years before he came into her life. So she wasn't she going to stop calling me She should stop calling or at least call you less. She is a married woman now. If it was strictly platonic, you wouldn't be so upset at her not texting you back. You would consider her just a friend and when she got back to you, she got back to you. I have a close friend and if she doesn't text me back - whatever. We pick up where we left off the next time we talk or see each other. Link to comment
abitbroken Posted December 13, 2017 Share Posted December 13, 2017 Do you meet up with her AND her husband? Link to comment
moneymkt Posted December 13, 2017 Author Share Posted December 13, 2017 She should stop calling or at least call you less. She is a married woman now. If it was strictly platonic, you wouldn't be so upset at her not texting you back. You would consider her just a friend and when she got back to you, she got back to you. I have a close friend and if she doesn't text me back - whatever. We pick up where we left off the next time we talk or see each other. Yeah I guess you are right. Link to comment
moneymkt Posted December 13, 2017 Author Share Posted December 13, 2017 Do you meet up with her AND her husband? No was never given that opportunity Link to comment
moneymkt Posted December 13, 2017 Author Share Posted December 13, 2017 She should stop calling or at least call you less. She is a married woman now. If it was strictly platonic, you wouldn't be so upset at her not texting you back. You would consider her just a friend and when she got back to you, she got back to you. I have a close friend and if she doesn't text me back - whatever. We pick up where we left off the next time we talk or see each other. what is wrong with her calling on her way home from work a couple of times of month? Link to comment
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