wandergrl18 Posted November 20, 2017 Share Posted November 20, 2017 So I've been seeing this guy on and off for 3 years, the last time we hung out I asked him out of curiousity, who was the last girl he slept with (besides me). He responded with "none of your business" and that even if he said her name I wouldn't know her anyway. He also said he slept with this "friend" back in June when I broke things off with him. Now since he's not actually my "boyfriend" I guess I could understand why he doesn't feel the need to tell me. But the thing is, I've asked this question before to guys I've casually dated and they would just answer honestly since it's not a big deal and I never made it a big deal. I'd ask anyone that. (And no I don't ask for names of the women lol) So it kind of tells me he has something to hide.. perhaps he slept with an ex girlfriend I suspected or something. And the reason why I care if he's hiding is because this is a guy who I might consider to be in a relationship with in the future. I'm not looking to be in one right now as i'm still pretty young and enjoy being single at 22. He also agrees that he wants to settle down with me when we are both ready. But now I get the sense that he's hiding things while we are just casually dating which makes me question if we would ever work in a real relationship down the road. If he can't be open and honest with me now, how would he be able to in the future? Link to comment
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