I don't know what to do.

[Brookie410]

so I have a boyfriend that I have been with for a year. Him & I have so much in common. I recently just became interested in someone that works in an agency closely with mine. Well I decided it would be a good idea to meet up with him for coffee, we did & we talked for 4 hours & got to know each other. I ended up letting him kiss me & I liked it, but I love my boyfriend I really do even though it doesn't seem like it. I have no idea what to do & im scared to talk to anyone about because I don't want to be judged.

[Honeycomb8]

Since you actively went to cheat, do your bf a favour and break up. You're clearly not mature enough or committed to be I. A relationship.

[SweetGirl28]

You let curiosity get the best of you, and gave into temptation.

 

Break up with your BF before you do it again.

Your actions are reflective of someone who should be casually dating, not in a committed relationship.

[mustlovedogs]

How would you feel if your boyfriend cheated on you? Would you continue the relationship?

[annie24]

I think you should decide if you want to be with your boyfriend (in which case you should stop seeing this coworker), or if you want to start dating your coworker (and then you should break up with your boyfriend). No judgement, just make a decision and stick with it.

[shellyf62]

You need to understand that having feelings for someone other than your bf and spending time with them will lead to things happening.

This will never be a "friendship", its the start of an affair.

[SherrySher]

Let your boyfriend go so he can make out with some girl and enjoy it and it not be YOU who is nothing but a cheater.

[Pleasedonot5]

Thank you for posting.

 

Your actions are indicative of someone who isn't fully satisfied in their relationship. What about your relationship do you think you could improve?

[PICCOLLO]

Leave your boyfriend.

Its over.

 

To hold onto him now is selfish, given your relationship isnt enough for you