Jc0187 Posted June 20, 2017 Share Posted June 20, 2017 We have a problem. Our two year old has destroyed pretty much all intimacy in our marriage. My wife recognizes this but doesn't go along with ideas I have to correct the issues and so I told her that I am sexually frustrated. That was about two months ago. The main issue here is the bedsharing. We have coslept with LO since day one. We have set time frames to get LO into her own bed but it never happens. As a result, intimacy between my wife and I has all but vanished. We have sex, on average, 2-3 times a month and I told my wife that I'm not happy about it. She says she's not happy with that either, and yet never helps me fallow through on ways to change it. I told her that I feel as though our LO has replaced me. Like, before she was born, it was my wife and I in the front seats, then our LO was born and I'm finding myself all the way in the back. I've shared this with my wife. She feels real bad but then says things like "this is what happens when you have a baby" or "we can work these issues out" and yet nothing changes. So, three weeks ago we nearly split. We managed to talk things over and I told her I needed something more. I needed to be in her life more. The intimacy NEEDS to come back. But as of this day, nothing has changed. I don't know what to do. Link to comment
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